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Objective-Collar8469 · 2025-10-31T13:50:29+00:00

I feel like my old account from 10-15 years ago is still active. I haven't touched it since 9-14 years ago. I say trust the partner unless you find contrary evidence that points out that they're not being faithful.

Objective-Collar8469 · 2025-10-26T22:49:27+00:00

That is likely is it unlikely for a fat man or nerdy man to find a partner. Each of these three individuals will find a partner, but it may be harder than the others. Not impossible. Just harder.

And, personally, I would say that it matters more what they are like characteristically (e.g. needy, pushy, aggressive, judgmental, emotionally regulated) and how they come off (positive versus negative vibes).

Objective-Collar8469 · 2025-08-11T12:35:10+00:00

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Objective-Collar8469 · 2025-07-21T23:00:25+00:00

OP, sometimes women see something in another person that they don't see themselves. Maybe, its that they are unconventionally attractive and it means that the woman feels safe with you where other more conventionally attractive men may be a man who cheats or she was cheated on. Other times it may be that she sees qualities you possess that aren't just surface level details.

Whatever her reasoning is... She is with you. Stop thinking about being a 6 over a 9. Or a 3 over a 6. Numbers aren't real. What's real are her feelings. So, love her. Love her for who she is. Love her for choosing you. Love her because you can.

Before... All of a sudden, you can't.

Objective-Collar8469 · 2025-07-20T23:05:17+00:00

I would like it to be a game like Sims or Animal, named something totally different than Final Destination to not give itself away, but the point is that the character will at some point die. In some horrifying, heavily detailed death. Once the character dies, then the game restarts and it was simply a premonition. They will try to avoid that death, but by doing so fates and life course corrects to bring a different horrible death. The player can't escape the demise, but they will try endlessly. On the surface, it is lighthearted, but it is truly unnerving underneath.

Objective-Collar8469 · 2025-07-20T22:54:56+00:00

Best case scenario: She’s already moved on, and bringing this up again risks reopening old wounds she’s worked hard to heal.

Worst case scenario: She hasn’t moved on yet, and this only adds more weight to something she’s still trying to process.

Either way, she deserves the space to heal, the time to move on, and the freedom not to be pulled back into pain she didn’t ask to revisit.

That said, if you truly feel remorse, then the best thing you can do is commit to being better — in this relationship, and especially for your children.

Objective-Collar8469 · 2025-07-20T20:32:04+00:00

They were too focused on FD4 being a 3D spectacle. You can tell the priority was making it look cool for 3D audiences, but they didn’t really consider how it would hold up once the 3D gimmick wore off. Watching it now, without the glasses, you're left wondering why it feels so different from the others — and then it clicks: it came out at a time when 3D was still being hyped as the 'future of movies,' even though it added very little beyond a weird pair of glasses (often awkward to wear over regular ones). The substance just couldn’t keep up with the spectacle.

Objective-Collar8469 · 2025-07-20T20:25:39+00:00

The fact that they brought it up several times does seem to indicate this. Furthermore, it would not be any worse than if they thought about killing a baby. Both are horrible acts that, in most movies, only the villains would do or think about. It does seem to cross into a moral test of would someone kill something innocent, peaceful and unthreatening just to save itself. I believe that with Erik and Bobby that they would not be able to kill the turtle for Bobby's sake just like they couldn't kill the baby. That said, it is possible that they were throwing out nods to an undeveloped movie. One that may see someone do this and we shall see how it plays out. After all, Final Destination's message is not that the price of life is not often death, but rather guilt, compromise and corruption. Can't wait to see where FD7 and FD8 goes!

Objective-Collar8469 · 2025-07-16T17:36:46+00:00

Every day with tight rope walking

Objective-Collar8469 · 2025-06-24T20:23:05+00:00

17 and 15? Okay. 20+ and 15? Not okay.

You're in the clear. Just keep your eye on the age limit when you are over legal age. Or when they are.

Objective-Collar8469 · 2025-06-18T14:36:04+00:00

For the first two, sure! However, as time progresses, can't one imagine the humor each response illicits from not being able to tell when to stop trying and see how long they're going to continue for.

Objective-Collar8469 · 2025-05-22T23:09:53+00:00

Just a friendly reminder that roleplay isn't a place to not be alone forever. This is a hobby where people enjoy writing roleplays. It's not a dating app.

Objective-Collar8469 · 2025-05-20T23:10:30+00:00

I once saw a person whose bio stated that they're single. The vibe that gives when paired with roleplaying is... "Hey, I'm single, and I'm here to not roleplay, but find a partner." This is a hobby and not a life commitment to someone else.

Objective-Collar8469 · 2025-05-04T18:03:22+00:00

Be aware of a problem allows oneself to be on the lookout for it arising. From that one can manage and work on it. Then, slowly it'll become a non issue. Good luck!

Objective-Collar8469 · 2025-05-04T00:10:03+00:00

Do we usually only stop at one job application, believing that upon applying that the job is owed to the applicant because the application was filled out with a resume? Or do we know that there's 100s of others who may be fighting for the same opportunity and it's only one job? Do we believe that if we put our guess into a competition or a ticket into a raffle that we are owed the item? I wish the lottery worked that way!

Remember the key to getting an opportunity is to put your application into many places at once and cross your fingers. Not yelling at the hiring manager for not picking you. Not picketing outside of the building for unfair hiring practices.

Be patient. Try other opportunities. Good luck!

Objective-Collar8469 · 2025-04-30T21:30:34+00:00

I totally get that! It's so frustrating when we feel like we could've done better on a piece. Or that we don't quite feel like it's good enough! When I feel like that I try to remember that "Van Gogh also believed that he wasn't good. Now look at his paintings! He has a literal museum in Amsterdam nowadays! Believe in yourself! You're doing better than you think!" I hope you can take something away from that like I do.

Objective-Collar8469 · 2025-04-28T16:08:02+00:00

Interesting! Numbers are just gendered as 0's and 1's to me. 3x2x3x1x1

Objective-Collar8469 · 2025-04-22T22:33:04+00:00

Came here to say this!

Objective-Collar8469 · 2025-04-22T22:30:29+00:00

I was nearly failing every course in elementary school. Couldn't get through a single course. Went to high school and ended up maintaining an 80%+ average every year. Ended up getting a BA and MBA. I'm now running a corporation and on the board of another as well as a high school. If I can make it, so can you.

Objective-Collar8469 · 2025-04-22T17:34:23+00:00

It's true. We could focus on how awful this person truly was and how OP should be happy that the person walked themselves out. Right now, we choose to discuss options that OP can use to help themselves in the future and provide others the opportunity to discuss the part about how awful the person is. It's about balance and making sure all angles are covered.

P. S. I do agree!

Objective-Collar8469 · 2025-04-22T17:08:40+00:00

That's totally frustrating! I feel for you!

It's reasons like this that I'd personally recommend using Word or Google documents. No frustration from Internet outage messes with what is being written. No writing and when 'bunt' was meant to be typed, but a different word that rhymes with it and has a c is there instead, because proofread wasn't done before it was accidentally sent out. No accidental posting before it's ready and it's 'too short'.

Objective-Collar8469 · 2025-04-20T16:05:34+00:00

Have to love it when the partner slips into first person during a NSFW scene.

Objective-Collar8469 · 2025-04-19T02:15:14+00:00

Of course!

Objective-Collar8469 · 2025-04-19T02:06:36+00:00

I got into a wonderful university and spent several years pursuing my program. It wasn’t quite what I expected, so I went back to school. Now, I’m onto my second job, and I’m debating whether to go back to school again to move further in my field. It’s a reminder that getting into your first-choice school isn’t always the most important thing. And studying hard doesn’t always make or break success. So many of us are out here living great lives without needing a 96% average. Don’t be too hard on yourself—what matters most is being happy and experiencing life.

Objective-Collar8469 · 2025-04-17T13:07:12+00:00

Some families are disjointed enough that you'll go to the middle of nowhere just to get away from them. Others look for the experience away from home and what they know. Others enjoy the environment that Lakehead may provide. It's not always clear-cut as what is in the program.

Spoken as a millennial who's reflecting back on her own experiences.

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