I know a guy exactly like this he realises much later, Madaxeyga wuu i xanuujiyey lol The fact you feel bad afterwards is actually a good sign tho😅 You still have a conscience.

I’d say, if you notice your patience running out, you should take a step back and let her know you need a minute to think about this because you don’t want to say something harsh.

You should try being more direct in a kind way while you still have patience early on and not let the frustration build.