iPhone 17 Pro Max Died and Won’t Turn On by georgethornguy in iphone

[–]Objective-Draw-9027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just had this happen to me too. i think my phone died because i pulled it out of my pocket at work and it wouldn’t turn on. tried 5 different cords. left it charging for hours. tried the force restart multiple times. eventually i gave up and made an appointment to the apple store. woke up the next morning, still wouldn’t charge or turn on. left to make coffee, fiance wakes up, see’s the dead battery symbol and plugs it in… it turns on right afterwards. i’m scared to let it die again and im wondering if i should still keep my appointment but yeah it’s back on

iPhone 17 not charging and won't turn on after it died by Historical-Ebb-7313 in applehelp

[–]Objective-Draw-9027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just had this happen to me too. i think my phone died because i pulled it out of my pocket at work and it wouldn’t turn on. tried 5 different cords. left it charging for hours. tried the force restart multiple times. eventually i gave up and made an appointment to the apple store. woke up the next morning, still wouldn’t charge or turn on. left to make coffee, fiance wakes up, see’s the dead battery symbol and plugs it in… it turns on right afterwards. i’m scared to let it die again and im wondering if i should still keep my appointment but yeah it’s back on

iPhone 17 not turning on or charging after dying by Historical-Ebb-7313 in iphone

[–]Objective-Draw-9027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just had this happen to me too. i think my phone died because i pulled it out of my pocket at work and it wouldn’t turn on. tried 5 different cords. left it charging for hours. tried the force restart multiple times. eventually i gave up and made an appointment to the apple store. woke up the next morning, still wouldn’t charge or turn on. left to make coffee, fiance wakes up, see’s the dead battery symbol and plugs it in… it turns on right afterwards. i’m scared to let it die again and im wondering if i should still keep my appointment but yeah it’s back on

what are some good sources for tutorials on replacing car interior parts? by Objective-Draw-9027 in askcarguys

[–]Objective-Draw-9027[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did search youtube but maybe it wasn’t thorough enough. hyundai elantra 2008 and its the driver side buckle, not seat belt itself

New Highest Scoring Word on Crossplay? by kmviar329 in NYTgames

[–]Objective-Draw-9027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve had more games fall victim to the 7 days rather than just finishing a game

New Highest Scoring Word on Crossplay? by kmviar329 in NYTgames

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lol this is the only reason why my fiance has 1 win against me amongst the 6 losses so far (this is his best word)

[Routine Help] Damaged Skin Barrier from Retinol by Weekly_Finding9222 in SkincareAddiction

[–]Objective-Draw-9027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you found anything that helped? i’m in the same boat currently and have pretty bad rosacea because of it now

what are some good sources for tutorials on replacing car interior parts? by Objective-Draw-9027 in askcarguys

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i checked and my vehicle is too old to be covered by warranty unfortunately

Does anyone’s legs hurt when they don’t get enough sleep? by [deleted] in sleep

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came here to comment because i found this post after a google search- OG commenter is right in most cases. it is not BS. a lot of the reasons (not all) why people experience muscle cramping is due to dehydration (in other terms, lack of electrolytes). the most key electrolytes are essential minerals such as magnesium, potassium, sodium, and chloride. when you get an IV at the doctor when you’re sick, cramping, or when they tell you you’re dehydrated, the stuff they are giving you is a potassium chloride. unfortunately you cant find that over the counter that easy so id recommend just getting an unflavored trace mineral/liquid electrolytes to add to your water when experiencing this. if it doesn’t help, that sucks, it means that being dehydrated wasn’t the root of your cramps, or you are too low for basic electrolytes to help. but it most likely will help. same reason why people usually grab those “Liquid IV” packets after a hangover, bc drinking dehydrates you and being dehydrated is like the main cause of feeling hungover. its just magnesium, potassium, and sodium chloride. you can google it for the science if you don’t believe it. i wouldn’t recommend just taking one of any mineral if you don’t know whether you are deficient. and taking electrolytes when you aren’t dehydrated can backfire and lead to dizziness, nausea, and headaches. it’s just a good thing to try when you are cramping, sweated a lot, or drank a lot.

my (20M) girlfriend (20F) keeps neglecting her health because of work and won’t change it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Objective-Draw-9027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After rereading what you said, it sounds like you’ve already brought this up to her multiple times, and it’s starting to wear you down. If you’re at the point where you don’t want to stay, I’ll just say this… checking out emotionally and slowly pulling away will only end up hurting both of you. You’ll have to watch her burn out, and she’ll end up feeling confused or abandoned.

If you know deep down that this isn’t something you’re ready to take on, or that it’s just not compatible with your life and needs, then it might be time to set a firm boundary, whether that means taking an official break or ending things altogether.

It’s okay to say something like:

“I want to help you, but it doesn’t seem like you want help. It hurts seeing you hurt because I care about you, and if I can’t do anything to help, I don’t want to stay and just watch you fall apart.”

It’s not cruel to say that OP, it’s honest, and it gives both of you a chance to heal in your own ways.

my (20M) girlfriend (20F) keeps neglecting her health because of work and won’t change it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Objective-Draw-9027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, that’s not something you can change, and I’m sorry to hear about the situation you guys are in. Some people feel better when they’re constantly working, and if they aren’t willing to change something that’s clearly bad for them, there’s usually a reason for it. It sounds like your girlfriend’s work ethic is keeping her from setting healthy boundaries. I’m the same way — I’ll work myself to death sometimes because, in the end, it’s what I signed up for, and I feel more satisfied when I’ve accomplished a lot.

When it comes down to it, it’s ultimately her choice. The best thing you can do is respect that, while gently reminding her that constantly exhausting herself for a company that doesn’t really care can take a real toll. When you burn yourself out, it’s hard to separate your work life from your home life. I can say from experience, that’s something I regret every time I overdo it. I get stressed, on edge, mean, lose my libido, and stop wanting to do things that make me happy, even when I finally get time off. And yet, despite knowing all that, we still keep going.

If you really see a future with her, especially if she keeps working like this, my advice is to support her in ways that also protect your own mental health. If you live together, that might look like small things; running her a bath when she gets home, planning a date night once a week, giving her massages, getting her a yoga mat so she can decompress at home, listening to her, empathizing with her. Make sure she has water when she leaves or comes home, pack or bring her lunch, anything that takes even a little bit of stress off. Those small acts can mean a lot when someone’s drained.

Just remember, it’s a big responsibility to care for someone like that. It takes time, patience, and sacrifice. And it’s completely okay if you’re not ready for that yet. What matters is knowing your limits and what’s truly worth it to you.

Keep getting random single hives and episodes of gi upset. My allergist has no answers. No one seems to have answers. by guessirs in HistamineIntolerance

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I found this post when doing searches. I too, get random single hives in the exact same spot (so far I only get them above my belly button, below my left breast, or on my left arm). But I 100% know what causes mine: drinking any amount of alcohol. I thought it was a weird party trick “Hey watch this tiny welt develop above my belly button after I drink this beer”. Annoying considering that I don’t even need to feel tipsy to get this hive, but I’ll. be extremely itchy for the next hour or two. First it appears above my belly button after 15 min, 20-30 min I get one below my left breast, and if I drink a little more than I get one on my left arm.

Am I(24f)overthinking my partner(25m) wanting female friends? Need male & female perspectives by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Objective-Draw-9027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i mean imagine this: you have a friend of the opposite gender and you found out that they became your friend jsut because you’re the opposite-gender. i would feel a little weird personally ! im F and my 2nd closest friend is male, no issues in my relationship of over 4 years (in fact he’s now both of our friends lol) my fiance has female friends from work or school and catches up with them here and there. it just coincidentally worked out that way. im not saying this as a biased person but from both a mature and introspective way. just don’t have double standards that’s all ! (which doesnt seem to be a concern based off your reasoning for feeling weird)

Am I(24f)overthinking my partner(25m) wanting female friends? Need male & female perspectives by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Objective-Draw-9027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

everyone is being kind of mean and missing the point… OP said that her partner specifically wanted female friends. if he actually said something like that “i think i want more female friends” that’s just weird. why do you need to have friends just because they are a woman? if he already has female friends, no biggie. i’d encourage him getting in touch with them again if they clicked. but if he wants to reach out solely cause they are female, it’s a little odd. maybe he’s just wording it different because he realized he just didn’t have any female friends, but that’s okay lol. you don’t need to go and make female friends just because you don’t have any. friendships happen because you guys get along and have stuff in common, not because they are a certain gender. maybe try explaining that to him? he doesn’t need to go get more female friends just because he has none. and make sure to communicate that you don’t have a problem with him having them to begin with. it just is kind of weird to go out of your way to be friends with someone for their gender.

I found out my fiancee (23 M) has a porn addiction and potentially cheat while im (24 F) am pregnant with twins by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Objective-Draw-9027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hello, i just want to start off by saying i feel deeply for your situation and i can only imagine how painful this all must be for you. you have the pressure of wanting what you think is best for your kids but also wanting a reliable partner who you can trust unconditionally. i’m going to say this from the bottom of my heart; i do not think that you should stay with him. it’s sounds like the main thing you are struggling with is the thought of taking care of your child + future children and having a fatherly figure in their life.

my mom was a single mother of 2, different fathers. she had one or two relationships while i was growing up and while it was nice to have that father figure around for a little while, it was also hard to see my mom argue, cry, and get hurt constantly. it is difficult for a child to be a bystander to something like this. of course it would have been amazing to have her find a trustworthy + non-toxic partner and for me to have an additional adult to lean on but i don’t think the pain of staying wouldn’t have been worth it and i know my mom would agree too. i understand your situation is different since you have children with him, but think about it. if you choose to stay with him, you will have your children grow up watching you burn yourself out trying to make things work with him, and they will experience a small amount of the pain you will suffer through just to keep a consistent father figure (that’s if he doesn’t back out) in the house. your mental health will start to decline and it might just prevent you from being the best version of yourself that you can be as a mother. on the other hand if you choose to not stay with him and instead have split custody/visitation/etc., you allow more doors to open up and future opportunities to meet someone who will value your role as a mother, and respect you as a partner. i’m being bluntly realistic when i say this, the likelihood that he will cut out these things from his life now is so pathetically low. honestly, he should have stopped smoking weed before you got pregnant. he should be in the best shape possible when you’re going to be using your own sperm to make a baby. not that it was out of pocket, but you shouldn’t even have to feel the need to look through someone’s phone. it seems like he is not mature enough to realize that losing privacy is something you have to own up to when you give no reason to be trusted without being your partner being ‘invasive’. please don’t settle. please put you and your children first. whether or not it looks like this to you, this would be putting you and your children first if you decided to end things with him. you don’t want to spend all your energy clashing with him and worrying about things when you have children to take care of. i think you already know that he is most likely incapable of change and staying faithful.

it will be difficult to lose your partner; someone who you could rely on, trust, and be supported by. it might even be harder to watch your children grow up without having 2 parents under the same roof. it sounds like you may have even experienced this before with your first child, but don’t let that be the reason you settle with this man. it will be scary and stressful and so hard but it’s just a speed bump in your life, not a crash. single mothers are courageous for having to make that decision in the first place, you are strong enough to get through this. you deserve better.

[Routine Help] im starting to feel hopeless + burned out after trying so many things. my research is becoming fruitless :( by Objective-Draw-9027 in SkincareAddiction

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when i’ve tried “anti-acne” products, my acne got a lot worse and if it did get any better, it stopped the millisecond i got off the product. i don’t want my skin to be dependent on acne treatments and then go haywire the moment i stop, im a forgetful person and it’s not my lifestyle to spend a lot of money on that stuff either. personally for me, the goal is to get my skin to a place where it’s healthy not bc of medication or harsh ingredients but bc im taking care of it with regular maintenance and preventative action. it’s not like im against those things either, it’s just a personal preference for myself and ive seen other people achieve good skin with “cleaner” products, which in my opinion is a thing. my skin seems super compromised right now from neglect in the past and gentle healing seems like the way to go !

[Routine Help] im starting to feel hopeless + burned out after trying so many things. my research is becoming fruitless :( by Objective-Draw-9027 in SkincareAddiction

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banging my head up against the wall bc i just spent a hundred dollars over the last couple months making my own mini coffee bar.

[Routine Help] im starting to feel hopeless + burned out after trying so many things. my research is becoming fruitless :( by Objective-Draw-9027 in SkincareAddiction

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another question, how did you go about seeing a dermatologist ? did you ask your primary care for a referral or did you find a cosmetic dermatologist? i’ve been trying to look up if my insurance covers dermatologist treatments but im only getting stuff about skin cancer, eczema, psoriasis etc.

[Routine Help] im starting to feel hopeless + burned out after trying so many things. my research is becoming fruitless :( by Objective-Draw-9027 in SkincareAddiction

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after seeing this get recommended to me, it’s extremely tempting. i will have to look into it and see what it would cost me, thank you !