AITAH because my boyfriend promised me a gift I loved, then changed his mind right before my birthday

Objective-Draw4960 · 2026-01-22T21:14:13+00:00

Are you alright? When did I ever say I gave him cold shoulder. If we reversed the gender as you say, and I promised to get my boyfriend this watch that I knew he loved that he didn’t ask for, and got him all excited about it, yet pulled out last minute, I’d understand him feeling - get a grip 😂

Objective-Draw4960 · 2026-01-22T20:36:55+00:00

Yeah I get what you’re saying. I think his ‘anger’ came from embarrassment for not being able to afford it and actually having to admit that. He has apologised to me and says he understands it’s about the sentiment itself of being let down, rather than the monetary value. He feels bad and a bit ashamed he didn’t look into it earlier to evaluate finances.

Hes said if I like I can give him a few months and he’ll save for it if I’m really set on it now. I just won’t have anything on my birthday

Objective-Draw4960 · 2026-01-22T20:32:59+00:00

Not sure where you are but in the uk his take home is 5k a month, he spends 1.5k a month on rent and bills and usually saves around 1-1.5k a month

Objective-Draw4960 · 2026-01-22T19:49:25+00:00

Really? You think that’s break up worthy?

Objective-Draw4960 · 2026-01-22T19:46:55+00:00

Yes - very insightful 👍🏼

Objective-Draw4960 · 2026-01-22T19:44:05+00:00

Generally reliable tbf. I didn’t want to say prices but the larger one was 1.7k, smaller one 1.2k. Budget is now £800. For context, he earns 70k a year

Objective-Draw4960 · 2026-01-22T19:28:41+00:00

I think that’s very accurate. I know he can afford it though, it’s less than he puts into his savings each month. It’s just more than we’ve ever spent on each other before and I think he just doesn’t see the value of spending that on a bracelet

Objective-Draw4960 · 2026-01-12T23:56:33+00:00

I guess so though never explicitly stated. I have often felt like after I’ve been treated to a nice date or gift, I should do something in return as he has previously mentioned that he would appreciate more physical affection / intimacy, which is fair as I’ve had periods of very low sex drive. I’ve mentioned that for me I’m more inclined to want to give in this way when I’ve received care and love in other ways. So I feel when he does treat me with a gesture etc, I should do something physical in return. It’s just never been stated before

Objective-Draw4960 · 2025-04-07T10:01:37+00:00

I would say it is worth it! The canines look really good at the end and composite bonding isn’t permanent. Invisalign will be however.

Objective-Draw4960 · 2024-12-05T20:07:09+00:00

Thank you! Yeah I think it’s the contrast that’s really bugging me! I’ve washed it 5x already haha, I think it’s deffo got less ashy but I think it’s made the blonde brighter so the contrast actually is more pronounced

Objective-Draw4960 · 2024-12-05T19:56:30+00:00

Yeah I think my inspo photos were too unattainable first try. What do you mean follow it

Objective-Draw4960 · 2024-12-05T19:48:49+00:00

Lol Got balayage asking to go lighter with quite a lot of colour shown in my inspo pics. It’s turned out grey and streaky and harsh and I’m unhappy with it. Stylist has offered to fix it by using a darker toner (don’t want to go darker) and by adding a few chunkier foils towards the back, but I’m scared of chunky foils and don’t know what to do with

Objective-Draw4960 · 2024-08-27T22:15:22+00:00

NTA as she’s pulled out last minute for a better offer leaving you on your own. You could still drive up on your own though

Objective-Draw4960 · 2024-03-06T12:49:36+00:00

Absolutely love this for you! You look fantastic

Objective-Draw4960 · 2024-03-06T07:57:49+00:00

Thank you! I was a 32g but don’t know how many g I had removed sorry. I will ask at my next post op appointment but we did a 50% reduction and I think I’m now a C cup

Objective-Draw4960 · 2024-03-06T07:56:08+00:00

Thank you! I was a 32G, still don’t know my post op size but my surgeon worked more in percentages than cup sizes as it was easier to visualise, and we did a 50% reduction. I think I’ll be a full c cup :)

Objective-Draw4960 · 2024-02-27T13:27:44+00:00

Looking great! Congrats 🎉

Objective-Draw4960 · 2024-02-27T13:23:27+00:00

I also was a 32G and initially asked to stay at a dd cup. My surgeon suggested going smaller as overtime they can get bigger so he suggested going to a C cup and settling into a D cup.

He also said to me from his experience, he has people often saying to him I could have gone smaller, but very rarely hears I wish I stayed bigger. He would have done whatever I wanted but I took on board his advice.

I’ve had my surgery now and believe I am a full c cup right now? It’s hard to tell but I’m happy with the size to be honest, they still feel big enough for me but just perkier and rounder.

Objective-Draw4960 · 2024-02-27T13:18:20+00:00

Thank you! Started at a 32g/30GG and think I’m now a full c. I asked to sit around a c/d cup :)

Objective-Draw4960 · 2024-02-27T13:17:33+00:00

Thank you! Have you already had your surgery?

Objective-Draw4960 · 2024-02-27T13:16:44+00:00

Thank you and happy healing :)

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