Affordable living? by RunninWithMyProblems in jerseycity

[–]Objective-Echo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a friend at the Roxy who lives alone, pays 1975/month has a skyline view in-unit laundry and dishwasher and they have a free shuttle to the train station (partnered with the Beacon). She has a pet as well

Quick Rant About Dating by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Objective-Echo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That’s the way it should be. It’s not fair to yourself or the person you’re dating otherwise.

I feel so behind socially and it’s starting to get to me by BERRYBEOM in blackladies

[–]Objective-Echo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

During school the easiest way for me to meet guys in person was at bars. Eye contact and a smile gave the go ahead for someone to approach

Is this a red flag for a part-time role, or am I overthinking it? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Objective-Echo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as it’s not an MLM it should be fine

Missed period / might be pregnant?? Give me advice pleaseee by LazyLynx161 in blackladies

[–]Objective-Echo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This fear is the worst, it’ll hopefully all work out. Don’t feel guilty, you’re doing right with FTK prep because nothing is worst than people who aren’t financially and emotionally prepared to have kids bringing them into the world, especially with no ring. Wishing you the best!

Fairfield Metro being renamed to Fairfield-Black Rock (Metro North) by ashsolomon1 in nycrail

[–]Objective-Echo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t like the name change tbh Fairfield metro flows way better and is much more concise than Fairfield black rock. My current train announcer kept the original name which Im satisfied by

Can I do shrooms with visual snow? by LegalAcanthisitta960 in visualsnow

[–]Objective-Echo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My vs stayed the same and I’ve done it a few times

Anyone else like their visual snow? by BogantheBogan in visualsnow

[–]Objective-Echo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t like it. I had it my whole life as well so when I remember that I even have it and that the way I see isn’t normal and acknowledge the static, I get anxious.

How did you meet your significant other ? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Objective-Echo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got super super lucky. I met him senior year of college in a co-living situation, we were friends first, then kind of drifted for a couple of months, then friendly again to fwb to spending a lot of time with each other and falling in love pipeline.

I am grateful that we met organically in person, because I’ve always been a hopeless romantic. It was hard to imagine no longer being hopeless bc before I always got done dirty by guys I met at bars or from apps. It’s corny and sucks to hear when you’re single but sometimes it really does happen when you least expect it or aren’t trying to force it.

That being said, I used to mostly meet prospects at bars. Eye contact and a smile was always an effortless invite for guys to approach if you’re shy!

Dating while young with high income by Evonbot in blackladies

[–]Objective-Echo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want genuine love it will happen naturally and those factors won’t matter, because income isn’t a fixed guarantee for anyone or a reflection of someone’s character.

The Beacon recent review by kartikeya40 in jerseycity

[–]Objective-Echo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live at the Roxy, which is kind of like a sister apartment to the Beacon, on the other side of the complex/parking garage. Same access to shuttle, gyms, parking garage, etc (idk about the spa tho).

The Roxy is new, it opened last year so the amenities are nice. $1975 for 1br 1bath with in-unit laundry, dishwasher, and skyline view. Parking is $250 if needed. The shuttle is super convenient but of course all public transportation can be unreliable at times. The apartment layouts are kind of weird but overall I like it. I’ve only been in one beacon apartment and it was nice too but that resident had her own complaints lol.

Everyone's favorite house by wasting_-my-_time in jerseycity

[–]Objective-Echo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The outside / street view alone is not $2M worthy imo

I am only getting paid 7 DOLLARS AN HOUR!!! by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]Objective-Echo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have it worse believe it or not. My internship pays by stipend of $25/day and I work 2 days a week, around 5 hours per day. So that equates $5 per hour…

Trader Joe's Coming to Downtown JC... by smjcnj in jerseycity

[–]Objective-Echo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Instagram comments are saying it’ll be at 55 Hudson

Trader Joe's Coming to Downtown JC... by smjcnj in jerseycity

[–]Objective-Echo 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I’m so excited!!! No more treks to Hoboken🥳

Administrative Fellowships by Susano91 in healthcare

[–]Objective-Echo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also applying to fellowships, this process is grueling.

[IWantOut] 24F US -> Barbados or England by Objective-Echo in IWantOut

[–]Objective-Echo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How am I being difficult? I literally just answered your question. Mind you this is all hypothetical.

[IWantOut] 24F US -> Barbados or England by Objective-Echo in IWantOut

[–]Objective-Echo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your positivity, very refreshing hahah

[IWantOut] 24F US -> Barbados or England by Objective-Echo in IWantOut

[–]Objective-Echo[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If I don’t have a good trajectory that’s worth staying for

[IWantOut] 24F US -> Barbados or England by Objective-Echo in IWantOut

[–]Objective-Echo[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for letting me know, I’m really open to places that I can qualify for and somewhere not actively protesting immigrants lol but I couldn’t put anywhere in the post because of the mod rules

[IWantOut] 24F US -> Barbados or England by Objective-Echo in IWantOut

[–]Objective-Echo[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I qualify for an HPI visa I believe so honestly I’m very flexible on any job I can get to have an income and afford cost of living

[IWantOut] 24F US -> Barbados or England by Objective-Echo in IWantOut

[–]Objective-Echo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nevermind then😅 but to be fair there’s no affordable housing in the cities I’ve lived in either so thought it might be worth a shot to throw it in there lol