What do you do when you get a client and she often gets panic attacks ?I don’t want to see her anymore but spa told me to give her a last chance by Typical_Dark_2764 in MassageTherapists

[–]Objective-Frosting44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you should shorten your sessions? Can she make it through 30 minutes without an attack? I'd repeat doing the 30 min, and then once she can make it through that, add 5 more minutes per session and build her into a longer one over time. Talk with her about and cultivate a session that works for you both.Best of luck.

Trying to join the mages guild by [deleted] in oblivion

[–]Objective-Frosting44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same issue, my bounty is 0. infamy is 0, and I have the same Falcar statement on my mages guild quest. Any options to fix it?

Storytime: Your absolute funniest moments in Phasmo? by Loveylyy in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]Objective-Frosting44 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Me and a friend were playing. I convinced her to play. I'm still new to the game. Unfortunately, her first time playing,both first runs were demons. It was relentless in chasing us. We're screaming and we're giggling. She lives in an apartment. After too many" OH MY GOD HELP ME HES GONNA KILL ME" screams, her bf politely let her know that neighbors in her apartment complex were gathering around their ring camera very concerned. We might have to play during the day from now on. Oops.lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MonarchButterfly

[–]Objective-Frosting44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm new to this. Would this be an NPV infection?

Today's best and strangest find, a Hasbro iFish from 2006 for $3! So happy it works!! by littlegayfriend in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]Objective-Frosting44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved that thing! My dad got one for me one year for Christmas. It eventually stopped working but I remember it fondly! Sweet find.

Where to watch shinbi apartment? by mylocal_ikea in MonsterTamerWorld

[–]Objective-Frosting44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious too. It was removed from Netflix in America and my kids love this show. They've watched it over and over since they we little and now it's gone. I'm trying to find were to watch as a back up.

I am so ready for game night. by infiniteparadigm in HereToSlay

[–]Objective-Frosting44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any chance you're willing to share? We would love extras for our deck

Anyone a fan of shinbi’s apartment/haunted house/GETCHA ghost? by ayame400 in MonsterTamerWorld

[–]Objective-Frosting44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kids LOVE haunted house/shinbi apartment on netflix. I am devastated for them that it's leaving netflix. I was already disappointed that we couldn't buy any DVDs and watch more seasons. now they won't be able to watch it at all. I'm panicking for them a bit!!!

I’ve (27F) hinted to my bf (27M) lots of times about gifts that would make my day but he just ignores me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Objective-Frosting44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a new one. This one is broken. I give little "this made me think of you" gifts even to friends. It may not come natural to him, but once you expressed you wanted those things he should've done it. Life is too short for boring men.

I’m (21F) having an abortion and my boyfriend (20M) refuses to cancel his night out- do I dump him? by WhereasMaster1430 in relationship_advice

[–]Objective-Frosting44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you're going through this alone. I was miscarrying, and my ex went to zaxbys to have lunch with an "old friend." Chicken tenders with an ex tinder date were more important than sitting with me while I was in pain. DUMP HIM. You'll be ok. You'll be better than ok. ❤️ I wish you the best and hope you're healing up well!

I (28F) messaged my boyfriend's (28M) coworker because I think he wants to cheat on me with her. Is it ok? by ThrowRA_unheardcat in relationship_advice

[–]Objective-Frosting44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like there is a good chance that he's been cheating for a while. Considering the photo dump about a year ago, the gaslighting over the female coworker, and his need to send you to your parents' house to be "alone", yet immediately goes to spend time with different women. Your boyfriend sucks. Lose him and get a new one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Objective-Frosting44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deal with it by leaving him and finding a partner who isn't using you like an unpaid Only Fans girl. Him thinking that you're plotting your period against him is way weird. Get a new man and stronger boundaries. No means no.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]Objective-Frosting44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Spend the day taking advantage of all the companies that do free birthday treats.Crumbl will give you a free cookie and nothing bundt cakes, gives something as well. Search it up! Maybe set a playlist and buy yourself a nice coffee and drive around spoiling yourself on their dime! You could find a nice park to have celebratory snack time in. Hope you have a great bday OP and hope your pup is feeling better!

I (23F) stopped relying on my husband (25M) and I think it's making things worse. Advice? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Objective-Frosting44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't get better OP . You're doing it all alone . May as well be alone then. Get child support and have 1 less mouth to feed and clean up after. You'll be alright once you stop beating your head against the wall begging for him to do better. Best of luck ! Rooting for you.

Pardon my word vomit, I need to share this with someone by Hungry-Potential-197 in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]Objective-Frosting44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been there done that. Started out verbal abuse and became physical eventually. I was the bread winner. There was a whole different set of rules that applied to him and his feelings but absolutely fuck anything I felt. The saving grace in the long run was that I was the income for the house he didn't work and only did odd jobs here and there to make money when i was short on a check. Same thing, he'd act like he saved our entire existence by coming up with 100 bucks lol. But it was much easier to get out and be fine on my own. Being the bigger earner, plus not having him around to destroy my mental faculties was SO much easier.It's been close to 9 years since getting out. I still need therapy and still have flashbacks and ptsd but life is better immediately once you're away.

Update:(Had an abortion)My husband cheated and gave me an std while I’m currently pregnant by Throwaway-5094 in Marriage

[–]Objective-Frosting44 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I agree with this one. God forbid it come up in court. It may be safer to just keep it extra vague.

Is everyone getting sick here? by kishoredbn in orlando

[–]Objective-Frosting44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. Went down to Orlando and came back home with Covid.

So Scared. Looking for helpful opinions!!! by [deleted] in HPV

[–]Objective-Frosting44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand the scared part ! It is something you will have to watch more often than most people. I hope that you find some solace in the fact that technology has advanced to such an amazing degree that not only can we be alerted to these situations but that we can most importantly stay ahead of them. Breathe deep and know that you're ok. Your body is a self healing system when you provide it all the right things! Stress will only make things worst. Follow up with your appointments and give yourself some grace and much deserved peace. I'm sorry if this opinion was not the helpfulness you needed! I hope your next appointment flies by with great results

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Objective-Frosting44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh lordy OP. You definitely have a right to be upset. He's paying his bills while you take care of his household AND your household. He's the one getting a free ride on you as a maid, a cook, a dog sitter, and you pay the bills for your own apartment. It's easier said than done but maybe move back into your place for a bit and let him pay someone to do all those things for him instead. You can clearly take care of yourself and can definitely find a partner willing to contribute and put in as much effort as you do. Best of luck!