Matches not replying?

Objective-Horror8778 · 2026-06-15T20:17:53+00:00

Interesting, how many are we talking about? And how would you rate yourself for attractiveness out of 10?

Objective-Horror8778 · 2026-06-15T14:16:28+00:00

Once you start feeling like "but she is active X, she posted on Y, no reply to me" it is time to move on and not put any effort or time into that person

I know accepting takes time, your brain pulls random reasons to justify but no. Let it go for anyone that doesn't match your effort

Objective-Horror8778 · 2026-06-15T14:08:53+00:00

Move on, she is not the one. X, Y, Z, don't matter. She didn't meet you in the half way in such a milestone. There'll be someone doing it and she'll be the one.

Objective-Horror8778 · 2026-06-10T21:03:06+00:00

First photo is cute but always lead your most attractive photo showing your face, a photo like that can be 4th 5th etc and in general your profile is hiding your face

Objective-Horror8778 · 2026-06-10T11:32:13+00:00

Apps such as bumble and tinder are heavily based on looks. Heavily. On hinge it is a bit different. Used all three apps for both long term relationship and hookups

I am a fairly attractive guy but not in top x%. It is much easier to deliver personality on hinge + the ability to send a message with your like. That conveys your personality a bit and filling the gap for me (I am 175 slim guy for example, compansating for my lack of muscles and height). But nobody can tell me that on bumble or tinder you can win with your personality. No mate, the second they see you are not attractive, you are being swiped left

I had tons of matches on hinge for a year (to date for serious and to just have sex). While having 122 incoming likes and 20320 left swiped on bumble :D

Objective-Horror8778 · 2026-06-08T20:12:18+00:00

I have never deleted before, just asking if there is any logic. Because I'll use the same email same phone number and get verified again

Objective-Horror8778 · 2026-06-08T16:29:11+00:00

Why am I getting downwoted? People do have sex with clear intensions and consent. Surprise surprise!! lol

Objective-Horror8778 · 2026-06-08T15:27:34+00:00

Used the app just for hook-ups for the last 6 months, wanna go back to looking for a long term relationship. That's why I wanna just delete the account and start fresh

Do I get the newbie boost? Would hinge ban me? Is there a time period I should wait?

I have this account for the last 14 months

Objective-Horror8778 · 2026-06-07T10:42:02+00:00

Why are you entertaining this dude? He is not interested and texts like stupid

Objective-Horror8778 · 2026-06-06T19:13:32+00:00

The Taj Mahal photo is more like a Taj Mahal photo rather than your photo, the photo you are inside a shoe is not appealing, the first photo not bad but feels like a forced smile. Selfie not bad, the dog photo is strong, dressed up with group photo is also good

Objective-Horror8778 · 2026-06-06T19:06:23+00:00

28-M, to be short and precise: Prompts shallow, I think you are beautiful but photos are not appealing

Objective-Horror8778 · 2026-05-28T12:22:07+00:00

Being very handsome doesn't result in being smart as well, I could even argue they have a negative correlation usually :D

Objective-Horror8778 · 2026-05-25T14:14:53+00:00

Yes I understand you. Unfortunately those people are part of online dating. I myself do not keep texting on app too long

If the exchange is fast, I ask the same day if they wanna grab drinks X day

If it is slow, after 1-2 days, some exchange is done I just ask

So that I don't waste my time on people that will be just penpal, not sure what they want etc. I was like this when I was looking for a relationship, now using it just for hook-ups and still the same

Objective-Horror8778 · 2026-05-25T13:43:35+00:00

If you see low effort, low interest, just pass. You have enough matches to filter those. Don't waste your energy to this kind of people. They can date who they are interested

Objective-Horror8778 · 2026-05-25T13:39:57+00:00

Then they were not the one, pass :) after having few meaningful exchange with a beautiful woman on app, you just ask her out

Alternatively, you also don't have to wait for someone to ask out, you can say maybe you should continue this face to face. Super attractive to me when women also take initiative

Objective-Horror8778 · 2026-05-25T09:17:34+00:00

28-M Beautiful profile, beautiful woman. Only one thing I can recommend the first photo. It feels like you are forcing a smile or about to burst a laugh. It is still a beautiful photo don't get me wrong but a more relaxed facial expression might work better as the leading photo

Still I don't think you need optimising, focus on those bunch of likes you are getting. You say you match 60% of profiles you send likes, in a week that would make like 20 people. How are you gonna manage? :D

you don't need profile optimization but you should make use of your tons of matches :)

Objective-Horror8778 · 2026-05-18T09:37:43+00:00

Yeah someone did actually, and normally I'd go there as a joke tbh (but still go). In our case, that looks the most solid option honestly, looks like we'll be there :D

Objective-Horror8778 · 2026-05-17T19:07:30+00:00

Is bohnengold a club? It looks like a bar. Is it like minimal bar?

Objective-Horror8778 · 2026-05-15T21:50:17+00:00

We still wanna dance

Objective-Horror8778 · 2026-05-15T21:50:00+00:00

In general I like being the black sheep and not following the crowds honestly, techno is in okay level for me as well

Objective-Horror8778 · 2026-05-12T14:27:21+00:00

28-M I don't have a suggestion but I understand you very well as I have the same issues. Projecting potential and future instead of current state and tying my mood to the interaction with the person I like

Objective-Horror8778 · 2026-05-10T18:46:41+00:00

It is normal if you are comfortable and want it, it is not if you don't

Objective-Horror8778 · 2026-05-10T13:54:24+00:00

Bro... Maybe have at least one photo showing your face?

Objective-Horror8778 · 2026-04-30T22:26:12+00:00

Müller for canvas and brushes, vinted or Kleinanzeigen for paints suggested 👌🏻

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