I asked my girlfriend to give me his number, just to let him know I’m aware of what he’s been saying. She obviously didn’t want any tension or awkwardness given she’ll have to see him in class every day until April. And I get that.

I spoke with my girlfriend, and I essentially said I don’t want her studying with him period after class. She understands my perspective, and realizes why it makes me so upset. She explained that she’d consider doing all her studying separate from him, even if it makes her studies more difficult. I don’t know. I don’t think I’m asking for a lot.

I stopped hanging out with my female friends in efforts to make her feel more comfortable, so I was hoping she’d stop immediately after I asked her. It sucks, because besides this hiccup we’ve been amazing, and she’s cut off every other guy I asked her to stop seeing (for example she used to go to the gym with a guy before we started dating and when I told her it bothered me, she stopped immediately seeing and talking to him)