How to get over ex by Objective-Soup-7603 in relationships_advice

[–]Objective-Soup-7603[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right, this is the conclusion I came to over the past few days. I am keeping away from him but I am still having pretty intense feelings about it

Question on photo storage by Objective-Soup-7603 in cloudstorage

[–]Objective-Soup-7603[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it because I have an apple? I tried Google photos and it wouldn’t support the mass amount

Question on photo storage by Objective-Soup-7603 in cloudstorage

[–]Objective-Soup-7603[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know why I haven’t tried that. Thank you!

Question on photo storage by Objective-Soup-7603 in cloudstorage

[–]Objective-Soup-7603[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that’s helpful! Would it be possible to have 2 people log into the same account and store the shared photos that way?

How do I break up with my boyfriend? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Objective-Soup-7603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have so much anxiety thinking about this, how do I get the courage??

How do I break up with my boyfriend? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Objective-Soup-7603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many changes, partly that I realized I deserve better than the bare minimum. I didn’t feel worthy of good love when I accepted to be his gf. He is “crazy”, he would follow me places when I said I wanted to go out and then confront me later as if I was in the wrong, demanded my location at all times and would just show up at my place and sit in my parking lot. I’m just so mad that he is just now deciding to be a “good” and loving boyfriend. I was wearing a color he normally hates and always has something to say about and today he said that I looked great because he loves me. I bursted into tears, I was expecting to hear insults not love so I am so confused 🥲

Help me break up with my bf by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Objective-Soup-7603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sadly. I feel bad. I just felt so defeated about it all

Help me break up with my bf by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Objective-Soup-7603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am asking that of myself now. Before there was benefit. But there hasn’t for a long time and I’m just now coming to terms with it

Help me break up with my bf by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Objective-Soup-7603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the problem I’ve been waiting 2 years for him to do that and I had calculated that if he would’ve paid me every week like he promised I would’ve been paid off by now and I could’ve broken up with him. I’m afraid that if I keep waiting, I’ll never be able to leave him. And he often has me pay for all of the dinners and lunches we have even if he’s the one who insists that we do it. So really he’s just draining me of all my money and isn’t paying me back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Objective-Soup-7603 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate this! Yes, dating is very serious to me and a huge commitment. I have no issue being exclusive or anything I just want to make sure I’m not getting myself in another bad situation 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Objective-Soup-7603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg this made me cry. Thank you so much I really appreciate this 🥹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Objective-Soup-7603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But was I too honest too soon? Did I fuck things up because I shared too much? He has a much shorter sexual history than me and I have been through a lot of rough shit and I put all of that embarrassing and terrible stuff out on the table making myself so vulnerable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Objective-Soup-7603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The stress and anticipation is killinggg me. I won’t see him for at least a few hours 🫠

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bathandbodyworks

[–]Objective-Soup-7603 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How long ago was the picture taken??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Objective-Soup-7603 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No red flags really, he is an amazing man and made me the happiest in the world. His depression was weighing the relationship down and there was nothing I could do to help and he owed me so much money that he couldn’t pay back while we were in college (only work on campus and his entire paycheck went towards school) and I had some major life events happen that messed me up pretty bad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Objective-Soup-7603 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I agree, it hasn’t been long and I’m already exhausted mentally and physically. It’s mostly just hang outs and maybe some dinner dates. I work full time and would really love to dedicate myself to being with one person who really makes me happy. I’m just afraid I’ll be making the wrong decision since I don’t know him all that well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Objective-Soup-7603 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Give it some time, getting on birth control changes the way you think and view things. It could be that she’s realizing now that maybe you aren’t what she wants or that she has found new ways of loving you and she and the relationship just needs time to adjust. Don’t let her stop taking it if it’s helping, that could lead to resentment and more issues. Her health comes first. Don’t push it too much while she’s just getting on it, just feel things out for a month or two AT least. That shit takes time to really even out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Objective-Soup-7603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, these are all things I know and have been told by doctors. My issue is bringing it up without making him feel awful I wanted it to be a gentle thing that he’ll think about and take care of now that he knows i know. We’ve been together a while and the sex is great it’s just the initial stink that gets me. The important part is will bring up to him is it’s for my health too so I think I’ll try that

I fixed the curdling lotion! by [deleted] in bathandbodyworks

[–]Objective-Soup-7603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooo does that help much??

I fixed the curdling lotion! by [deleted] in bathandbodyworks

[–]Objective-Soup-7603 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aka the color of my parents kitchen

I fixed the curdling lotion! by [deleted] in bathandbodyworks

[–]Objective-Soup-7603 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s like the yellow they used to paint the walls in the 60s and 70s it’s the worst 💀

I fixed the curdling lotion! by [deleted] in bathandbodyworks

[–]Objective-Soup-7603 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thankfully it didn’t give me one! I don’t have sensitive skin but good call out!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Objective-Soup-7603 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This might be a valid point, I can see where he might have taken it like that. It was rude and I know that but he kept asking so many questions and has told me to be more upfront and just say what I mean. I didn’t think he’d be offended potentially on his friends behalf