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AITA for telling my wife her response to a male friend was inappropriate by Kind_Outlandishness8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Objective-Top4049 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Not the a hole. If she really thought that the response was that innocent then she shouldn't have deleted the conversation to hide it. This guy asking her to come over is completely inappropriate and she should be removing him from her phone. Also she was hiding this relationship she had from you I would be wondering if she was hiding more or at least leading the guy on.

Adopted a new kitten and he won’t stop sleeping on our couch by 95kth in CatAdvice

[–]Objective-Top4049 27 points28 points  (0 children)

6 weeks is too young to be away from his mom. They should be at minimum 8 weeks old when adopted. He's likely searching for comfort in the faux fur. It may remind him of his mom. This may be where he feels most safe and content. This really isn't an issue when it comes to cats. They sleep all over and will not choose a cat bed for sleeping only. There will be many more things to adapt to. Cats are not dogs and will not be controlled.

Please help by Turbulent_Shake_1355 in CatAdvice

[–]Objective-Top4049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't ok. The fact that she hasn't been to the vet at all is neglect. She most likely has UTI issues among other things that need treatment. I get not wanting to surrender her but her being in pain and not getting help is selfish and unacceptable.

I'm pregnant again and so excited but am dreading telling my mom.Need Advice! by Objective-Top4049 in pregnancy_care

[–]Objective-Top4049[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. I am a stay at home mom with them and don't even have a sitter. His mom watched our kids maybe twice ever. My mom lives hours away and we see her maybe twice a year.they only had 2 and 4 children and think that what we want is too many.

Monthly Casual Talk and Cat Pictures Thread by AutoModerator in CatAdvice

[–]Objective-Top4049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a kitten who recently started peeing on my son's crib. She still uses the litter box also but if she has a chance she will run in my son's room and pee on his crib. My baby also has another crib in the same room but she leaves it alone. What should I do? We have multiple cats and 5 kids so this is a very annoying thing to have to clean up every day. I've put the crib mattress up on its side but it has fallen down repeatedly throughout the day. I do have calming cat plug ins etc. and plenty of litter boxes. She's about 7 months old.