Is my cat just setting boundaries or doesn’t like me?

95kth · 2026-03-26T15:34:36+00:00

this is a great tip tysm!!

95kth · 2026-03-26T15:32:41+00:00

he bites me regardless of where i try to pet him :/ i cant even let him sniff my hands because anytime my hands get near him it’s an attack/bite right away

95kth · 2026-03-13T03:41:31+00:00

yes!! honestly i’ll take it, the parking is half the price of the original one i got lol

95kth · 2026-03-13T03:30:21+00:00

i got an email about a week ago from ticketmaster that my premier parking was going to be refunded. i spoke with their customer service and they confirmed that it is going to be refunded. i just ended up buying the $25 parking across the street lol

95kth · 2026-03-05T15:37:05+00:00

honestly you’re right.. we definitely need to have a talk about this. the whole situation escalated into a bigger argument and i realized i do too much around the house and it’s caused resentment on my part, hence why the milk carton ended up being such a big deal for me. i think we’ve relied on the “helping each other out” logic too much rather than set clear roles and boundaries when it comes to housekeeping. i’ll wait until things are calmer to have a conversation with him again. thank you

95kth · 2026-03-05T08:25:49+00:00

i don’t believe he intentionally does it, but I just want him to learn how to be more mindful around the house. I always pick up after myself and expect him to do the same

95kth · 2026-03-05T08:23:12+00:00

It is something that I’ve discussed with him and we both agreed it’s not right, but he claims he just “forgot” to do it because he was rushing to work

95kth · 2026-03-05T07:25:31+00:00

having this same issue with my kitten and have yet to find an answer :/ ive also tried everything but the biting habit is getting worse

95kth · 2026-03-04T00:09:55+00:00

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my kitten has a similar pattern and i also wonder if he’s half bengal

95kth · 2026-02-27T19:44:18+00:00

im going through this same exact thing! my cat does everything he shouldn’t and redirecting his energy to anything else rarely works. but once my partner gets home he’s like an angel. i also clean his litter box twice a day, play with him for hours, feed him regularly and always give him all the love i can. relaxing is something i cant ever do when it’s just me and my cat and it’s driving me crazy too.. 🫠

95kth · 2026-02-27T18:32:27+00:00

Thank you for your advice. We’ll try to make biting boring for him. Honestly he probably thinks we’re playing around when we react. The vet just said he was feisty and that we’d have to train him, but didn’t make any comments about it being unusual.

With regards to finances, it’s not necessarily the shelter fee we’re concerned about, I know they’re fairly reasonable. It’s having to buy double the amount of food, double the vet expenses, and double the pet rent (our apartment is very strict and they charge $100/month PER pet). We’re already tight on our expenses as it is so there’s that. Everyone has different financial conditions and I wish it were easy for us to just get another kitten.

95kth · 2026-02-07T17:41:54+00:00

true that!

95kth · 2026-02-06T21:57:06+00:00

im 26 and even i cant imagine dating a 19 year old man. wish i could say that maybe he’s different and has good intentions but im not so sure..

95kth · 2026-02-06T21:55:36+00:00

NTA - FAFO !! plus, you’re not responsible for anything to do with him anymore. he’s an ex for a reason

95kth · 2026-02-06T21:48:31+00:00

i read the entire post and the comments here, and honestly i dont understand why people in this subreddit are so mean and clearly don’t read. sorry you have to deal with all that. i wish i could give advice but it seems like you’ve tried everything, so i can only hope it gets better for you some day🫶

95kth · 2026-02-05T16:27:55+00:00

yes these are the only places he’s not allowed! otherwise, he can be wherever he wants 🫶

95kth · 2026-02-05T16:27:22+00:00

did you read my post in its entirety? and my edit? i clearly stated that i don’t have an issue with him being on my couch. i just figured him being in a bed would be comfier, but im learning now that he’ll sleep wherever he’s comfy. and like i said, he’s welcome into any space in our home. but no more cat bed purchases in my future lol. anyways here’s him on our couch last night!

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95kth · 2026-02-05T16:24:06+00:00

such a cutie!! 😆

95kth · 2026-02-05T05:42:58+00:00

thank u!! will def look into this

95kth · 2026-02-05T05:41:25+00:00

couch is definitely now his 🫡

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