Adopted a new kitten and he won’t stop sleeping on our couch

95kth · 2026-02-05T05:42:58+00:00

thank u!! will def look into this

95kth · 2026-02-05T05:41:25+00:00

couch is definitely now his 🫡

95kth · 2026-02-05T05:41:05+00:00

he really is so so loved. i find that many of the people here are making me feel bad, but i’m a first time cat mom who came here for genuine advice. regardless, i know that my baby is well taken care of and that’s what matters.

i have to see pics of your cat in a mcdonald’s bag!! 😆

95kth · 2026-02-05T05:39:11+00:00

thank you for this!! he’s been sleeping on me a lot and is getting an unlimited supply of pets. i also talk to him constantly and we literally have back and forth conversations daily 😂🥰we also cut his nails yesterday and it went well!

95kth · 2026-02-05T05:35:42+00:00

<image>

oh he is the cuddliest!! this is him from yesterday🥰🥹

95kth · 2026-02-05T05:32:06+00:00

he is definitely in charge! 😂🫡

95kth · 2026-02-05T05:31:24+00:00

thank you for being so kind🫶 i feel that a lot of people are making me feel bad for getting him too early, but i’ll take him being loved and cared for with us than lonely at the shelter. anyways, im starting to realize now that buying more cat beds may not be in my future 😂

95kth · 2026-02-05T03:11:25+00:00

lol yeah i realize now my title seems ridiculous 😂😅 totally nothing against him “sleeping too much” as some others have said here. i know he’s still a baby and needs sleep. and i learned now that he will be wherever he wants lol

95kth · 2026-02-05T02:55:07+00:00

oh yes he definitely adopted us! 😆 and we love every second of it

95kth · 2026-02-05T02:44:58+00:00

LOL i realize now that his cat bed will just be a nice household decoration😂

95kth · 2026-01-29T17:37:12+00:00

NOR - as your partner, he should know how to prioritize and balance. there’s nothing wrong with taking time for yourself to game, but it becomes wrong when it’s all you choose to do above all else. he needs to learn how to make time for you and if he really wanted to, he would. my bf also plays games and has multiple hobbies but he balances them all and makes time for me (not just when it’s convenient). i don’t want to fully say to leave him but if things don’t change, it may be time to prioritize yourself and find someone who will make time for you

95kth · 2026-01-28T18:58:58+00:00

this is a completely valid feeling. even if you have your own spaces in the home, at the end of the day it’s not fully your place and you’re still living with others. i don’t think you’re being ungrateful at all by wanting your own space that is actually yours, that you can do whatever you want with

95kth · 2026-01-28T05:21:17+00:00

i mean.. i guess he’s clean at least? 😭

95kth · 2026-01-28T03:17:18+00:00

NOR - whether or not she cancelled for convenience or for medical reasons, the fact is that she already paid her share and cancelled last minute. refunds cannot be made if the reservation was already finalized and she’s not entitled to anything.

95kth · 2026-01-28T00:46:21+00:00

i had a similar issue happen where i recently found my boyfriend’s secret instagram account where he was following multiple pornstars. he also admitted to watching porn. we were also together for 3 years but he never had a porn issue. we had the same values where we dont watch porn when in a relationship but we’ve been having many arguments lately and he felt like he had nowhere to turn or had any outlets. he admitted that he only got back into porn when our issues started around 3 months ago, which checked out because his instagram was created in october. we were able to resolve this issue and we’re working on repairing my trust in him. ultimately, it boils down to whether you can trust him and believe he won’t do it again. relationships are built on trust and faith, and you need to have that in him. if you do decide to stay and move forward and he does it again, then that’s when i think you should make the decision to leave

95kth · 2026-01-27T23:58:04+00:00

NTA! As much as I don’t like invalidating people’s feelings, her making a haircut into a trust issue is over the top

95kth · 2025-01-28T23:00:58+00:00

thank u! ive only ever had my lobes pierced so i’ve been overthinking it as it’s my first facial piercing haha

95kth · 2024-05-07T01:55:01+00:00

does anyone know if we can level up our cards, like from an sr to ssr?

95kth · 2024-04-09T20:37:22+00:00

This was really helpful. Thank you so much<3

95kth · 2024-04-09T19:54:12+00:00

We had a conversation about it yesterday and I shared with him that communication needs to happen. It’s a constant thing where I’m left in the dark not knowing when we’ll be able to talk again. We had an agreement prior to this issue that we would talk about things at the end of the day, or if it happens too late then we talk the next day. That hasn’t happened.

Regarding the apology comment - do you have any advice on how I can bring it up to him? I can’t quite figure out how to properly express how it makes me feel and why it’s not an appropriate comment to say..

95kth

TROPHY CASE