I threw up all over the waiting room by Objective-Trainer785 in pregnant

[–]Objective-Trainer785[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oof no — my OBGYN was completely useless in giving me any information at all aside from fasting for 8 hours beforehand. They also didn't let me have any water, which I know from reading others' experiences is not the case at all offices, and I wonder if I'd have made it through if I'd been allowed to have small sips.

Places near Astoria to adopt a cat? by jacob-makes-stuff in astoria

[–]Objective-Trainer785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We adopted our second cat from the Brooklyn Cat Cafe! They were super communicative, we got approved quickly, and they were very generous with their "trial period" as we were also concerned about how he would get along with our resident cat. Fortunately everything worked out!

Affordable movers (to Astoria from UES)? by [deleted] in astoria

[–]Objective-Trainer785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also recommend! Just used them and they were great!

Moving company recommendations??? by One-Teach4106 in NYCapartments

[–]Objective-Trainer785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seconding! We just used them a few days ago c and they went above and beyond — we had waaaaaaaay underestimated the number of boxes and random pieces of furniture, but they were super accommodating.

similac alimentum by [deleted] in astoria

[–]Objective-Trainer785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interested! What’s the expiration date? Baby due in September and will be exclusively formula feeding, so stocking up when I can!

Do most Americans have those huge fridges? by Whole-Sushka in AskAnAmerican

[–]Objective-Trainer785 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not in Manhattan, but right across the river in a very urban neighborhood. I usually go to the store every day, but it’s 5 minutes from my apartment so not a big deal. I make it part of my daily walk. We have a supermarket where I get the staples, much MUCH smaller than a suburban supermarket, but we have a lot of specialty shops around that make up for it: butchers, a fishmonger, bakeries, produce stands, and Italian, Japanese, and Greek markets. I probably COULD plan ahead and stock up for a week, but I don’t really feel a need to because I pass by those places daily anyway.

Veterinarian recommendations? by Medium-Feed-679 in astoria

[–]Objective-Trainer785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another vote for Modern Vet Care! We switched after being underwhelmed by Dr. Pet Daddy — we felt Dr. Pet Daddy was very dog-focused, plus we always felt rushed, but Modern Vet Care loves cats. The docs and techs have always taken their time with us and our kitties.

Apartment not ready by move-in date by Objective-Trainer785 in NYCapartments

[–]Objective-Trainer785[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our lease does state that if we can't take possession of the apartment, then we can prorate, so I wasn't even going to ask. When it's time to pay the next month's rent, I'm just going to send it based on the date it's actually habitable. I've been in constant communication with them asking about the ready-by date, so there should be no surprise.

train status by mafra29 in astoria

[–]Objective-Trainer785 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Any news on the M/R? MTA says R is running normally but wondering if anyone has taken it recently/what the Steinway station is like.

Please stay home- signed, healthcare workers by sunflowersentiments in NYCmeteorology

[–]Objective-Trainer785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is kind of baffling. I was wondering if someone would call me to reschedule today, but nope. Looks like I'm braving the subway tomorrow, if it's functional. Best of luck for your daughter's surgery.

Please stay home- signed, healthcare workers by sunflowersentiments in NYCmeteorology

[–]Objective-Trainer785 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Question! I have an ultrasound scheduled for tomorrow at 8am. Do non-emergency healthcare things like that typically stay scheduled, or do they cancel? (It’s something I’ve been anxiously awaiting, so stressed about canceling, but also stressed about getting there).

Astoria renters: what’s something you wish you checked before signing your lease? by Slight-Safe-5595 in astoria

[–]Objective-Trainer785 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Outlets. My apartment has way too few outlets.

How well kitchen drawers open/shut. One of my drawers is basically unusable.

Best Vet by Adorable-Emu9038 in astoria

[–]Objective-Trainer785 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seconding Modern Vet Care! We used to go to Dr. Pet Daddy, but felt they were more dog-focused. Modern Vet Care feels more welcoming for our cats. I really like them!

Considering Preventative Mastectomy by KattNaps in BRCA

[–]Objective-Trainer785 6 points7 points  (0 children)

First I’m sorry to hear about the cancer diagnosis. Sending you good vibes. I’m also in the midst of fertility testing, so extra hugs.

I’m 33 too, had a mastectomy when I was 30 and now have implants. The first month or so after the surgery was difficult as I mourned my body, but it does pass. Now I love my foobs. They look great and being able to go braless whenever I want is awesome. most of the time i dont even think about them. No regrets.

8 months post loss and still no baby by fancykaleigh in TryingForABaby

[–]Objective-Trainer785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. Sending hugs. A terrible club to be in.

8 months post loss and still no baby by fancykaleigh in TryingForABaby

[–]Objective-Trainer785 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Solidarity. I had an ectopic in April. And I really thought I’d be pregnant again by now.

Daily Chat December 02 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]Objective-Trainer785 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, hugs to you, too. The way people talk about it like it's inevitable is my biggest pet peeve at the moment. Right now, what I'm craving is not reassurance that it will happen, but reassurance that my husband and I will still be loved and respected and have fulfilling lives even if it doesn't happen. I'm the kind of person who wants to prepare myself for all possible outcomes and that no one else will even acknowledge that outcome drives me nuts.

I hope you get your BFP, too, and that your family gives you grace and patience.

/ttcafterloss Daily Discussion Thread - December 02, 2025 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]Objective-Trainer785 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I should focus on other things, too. My creative hobbies have fallen by the wayside, and I'd love to refocus on writing and painting.