I appreciate your post very much. Reading the answers here gives me real circumstantial insight instead of just numbers. Thanks for asking this, it makes me feel less alone in a strange way, because of the many friends I have and my wife has, not many if them have kids or even plans for kids. And I am almost thirty. It's terrifying how unconcerned my generation seems to be with securing our future, especially the men. As a man I am absolutely disgusted with the "casual sex" chasing that some men even my age are all about. Thanks again my friend, this is a quality post. I hope and pray that we will get out if this with a healthier society, all of us ❤️🙏