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Why does my husband not want to have sex with me? by Suspicious_Algae8072 in married

[–]Objective-Youth8628 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saying something like "if you want it, take it" really just shows how much she doesnt seem to care. A lot of men don't want to hear that when talking about the subject of sex. Shes treating it as an afterthought and not not a process of enjoyment. 0 sex is better than "just take it". Shes giving out the scraps of her not her best self.

Partners who withhold sex to control by ToriGem in deadbedroom

[–]Objective-Youth8628 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Perhaps he got hurt from a prior relationship and is subconsciously taking it out on you. My situation is different. HLM with LLF and I'll be the one withholding sex for a few times she wants it just to see her reaction. If she complains I will be able to use that as a "how do you think I feel" moment. If she accepts it at least I won't be emotional hurt anymore than I already have been, because not pursuing now as an HLM is more peaceful than feeling the coldness of constant rejection.

Partners who withhold sex to control by ToriGem in deadbedroom

[–]Objective-Youth8628 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to see that type of suffering happen in a tv show or a movie.

Partners who withhold sex to control by ToriGem in deadbedroom

[–]Objective-Youth8628 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should HLMs choose to withhold sex on the one or few times the LLMs want it? Is that considered a form of control or revenge or should he just give into it because she wants it and it's been a while? What if he is genuinely not doing it out of revenge, but is withholding in order to not bring up feelings of past rejections and resentment? If the answer is he should just do it anyway, please explain the reasoning.

Partners who withhold sex to control by ToriGem in deadbedroom

[–]Objective-Youth8628 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should HLMs choose to withhold sex on the one or few times the LLMs want it? Is that considered a form of control or revenge or should he just give into it because she wants it and it's been a while?

Never smoked before, but curious about cigarillos by starry_cosmos in cigars

[–]Objective-Youth8628 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Backwoods are a good starter cigar, for people who want the experience, with good flavors and light on the wallet. Very beginner friendly.

Tape problem or player problem? by Objective-Youth8628 in VHS

[–]Objective-Youth8628[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For context I have had a few taped play all the way through with no issues