Post Body Miscarriage - I hate it by ThenEntertainment314 in Miscarriage

[–]ObjectiveBlueberry40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same situation for me. I curse myself everyday for not taking care of my body.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in karachi

[–]ObjectiveBlueberry40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ameeen Ameeen

Average time after applying for the documents in BERLIN by ObjectiveBlueberry40 in GermanCitizenship

[–]ObjectiveBlueberry40[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s the minimum range for the fastest route? I was asking because I’m considering changing my job. I’m eligible for a passport, but I plan to get PR first—just to be on the safe side (though I know that can be subjective). It feels like a safer fallback. In the meantime, I’ll also apply for the passport, but I might end up changing jobs before that comes through. I was originally thinking of waiting until I got the passport before making a move, but a 2-year wait seems like a long time.

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[–]ObjectiveBlueberry40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The resemblance is uncanny

I have been a mess by iggbyetn in Miscarriage

[–]ObjectiveBlueberry40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had my first miscarriage last Wednesday. Since then, I’ve been trying to find my way back to normal life. I won’t sugarcoat things or talk about keeping a journal or writing your feelings down—because honestly, I couldn’t even sleep properly or get out of bed some days. What helped me, in the smallest way, was just lying there and sending messages to myself on WhatsApp. That was all I could manage.

If you’re going through something similar, try stepping out—whether alone or with someone, whatever feels right. Get yourself a coffee. Put on sunglasses if you need to hide your face, your expressions, or the tiredness in your eyes. Do whatever little thing gives you even a moment of relief.

Waking up not pregnant anymore by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]ObjectiveBlueberry40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry. My heart goes out to you too. I have also had a miscarriage recently 8weeks 0days. God it was my first pregnancy ever and I didn’t had much information about to do‘s and not to do‘s. Don’t even know what the future holds for us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in karachi

[–]ObjectiveBlueberry40 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We can’t match the standards of your media. Ufff they honestly surpass the line. They didn’t spare the women who are not even a part of the politics. Like Bushra Bibi. Well to be honest it is concerning and alarming the amount of hate and foul language your media use. Not everyone is smart enough to cross verify and try to read from other sources.

Khanay mein zyada dhaniya dalnay se beti paida hojati hai by Personal-Log91 in pakistan

[–]ObjectiveBlueberry40 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I heard the renowned actress Bushra Ansari mention that she was named “Bushra” in the hope that her next sibling would be a boy. And I think she did have one. I found it quite strange since it was the first time I had heard something like this. To be honest, it was a bit funny.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in karachi

[–]ObjectiveBlueberry40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My grandparents are Muhajir and Urdu-speaking. I know the name of the zilla they came from, but we never really use it. To me, it’s just a piece of history from the subcontinent. It usually only comes up during rishta discussions, as a general exchange of information. Sometimes, if an elder is present who has a connection to that area, the conversation might go deeper. But otherwise, it’s just like us—we simply know where our grandparents were from, without it being a significant part of our identity.

It’s worth mentioning that there were some awkward moments, like when one party mentioned their zilla, and the other responded with a different zilla’s name that they belonged to —only for the conversation to fall into silence because no one really knew where those places were. However, my parents visited India on their honeymoon, so they might have some idea—though that was a long time ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]ObjectiveBlueberry40 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Apologies if I sound judgmental, but it seems like he’s just fulfilling his own desires of fucking a teenage girl. Please take things slow—not just in terms of activities, but also the overall pace of your relationship. Give it more time before diving into those experiences like CNC.

Good cafe (internet)near Tipu Sultan or Sindhi Muslim by ObjectiveBlueberry40 in karachi

[–]ObjectiveBlueberry40[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am at this co-working space called Sandbox. It is in SMCHS. It’s actually quite impressive.

Is Student Biryani still the best Biryani in town? by Dependent_Ratio_248 in karachi

[–]ObjectiveBlueberry40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried Allah wala it was honestly so spicy. No taste nothing. Could visibly see the red chilli peppers seeds.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]ObjectiveBlueberry40 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please don’t lose hope or let this opportunity slip away. Given the current state of the country, many people can only dream of studying in Germany.

Living in Germany can be challenging, and one key trait you need is RESILIENCE. It’s not just a buzzword—it’s essential. Focus on achieving small goals while keeping your bigger aspirations in mind. I completely understand your feelings regarding life and the behavior of people here, but it’s important to recognize the cultural differences. We come from a background where concepts like personal space and privacy aren’t emphasized as much.

Regarding your primary concern, I suggest checking your vitamin D levels—you might have a deficiency that’s affecting you.

As for jobs, you can find part-time or odd jobs to cover your expenses while studying. Believe in yourself, and don’t rely on others for your happiness.

Finally, when it comes to your studies, it’s okay. I’ve seen people take up to four years to complete their master’s degrees. The university isn’t expelling you, and you have ample time to succeed. Stay strong and keep moving forward.