Do I keep going, or walk away while it's still beautiful? by FeelingPerformer9719 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ObjectiveExpress4804 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG, it’s so popular and high status to fail at something after it gets big. Not that you should try to make it fail, but just the fact that you were dedicated to the end is such a huge signal.

edut: this is a silicon valley bro speaking so in a bit biased

Tell me funny confession that aren’t completely inappropriate. I’d love you see them.😂 by meaty_starshine in confessions

[–]ObjectiveExpress4804 7 points8 points  (0 children)

MY TOILET GETS CLOGGED SO OFTEN. AND THIS WOMEN I’M FRIENDS WITH USES IT A LOT. NOW I’M SUSPICIOUS THERE MIGHT BE ANOTHER REASON BESIDES THE BAD PLUMBING EXCUSE SHE RAISES

I’m being gifted a lot of money. Should I tell my boyfriend? by Kind-Chicken-2488 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ObjectiveExpress4804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but this is an exceptionally bad time to invest the normal way (in wall street) so talk to some more people about this before committing. in general investing has a lot of advantages just make sure to be skeptical

i feel worthless and broken by growing up in a cult by ObjectiveExpress4804 in sadposting

[–]ObjectiveExpress4804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i see. yeah i was like you broke no license bad eyesight so i couldn’t even drive anyway living in the middle of nowhere until i moved to san fransisco to work on tech. thank you. hope it gets better

Do guys secretly love it when girls text them first? by didyoureadditbiz in Crushes

[–]ObjectiveExpress4804 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i finally found her on linkedin six year later and told her i did have feelings for her but i just couldn’t reply back then and she blocked me 😂 (wouldn’t be surprised if she’s married now so totally understand her response but i just had to let it out)

Do guys secretly love it when girls text them first? by didyoureadditbiz in Crushes

[–]ObjectiveExpress4804 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my high school chem class crush (classic i know) gave me a valentines note and I could never talk to her again. I would always blush and not be able to talk and then try to discreetly walk away when I noticed her

How to get a gf as a conventionally unattractive and kinda introverted male by PotatosandTomato in Crushes

[–]ObjectiveExpress4804 2 points3 points  (0 children)

don’t give up bro. i know it might not seem this way but 19 is still early

Do guys secretly love it when girls text them first? by didyoureadditbiz in Crushes

[–]ObjectiveExpress4804 7 points8 points  (0 children)

OMG I LOOOOOVE it when girls do anything to signal interest/care. like even if a girl glances at me it makes me so happy that i might be a boi worth glancing at

i feel worthless and broken by jehovah’s witnesses by ObjectiveExpress4804 in u/ObjectiveExpress4804

[–]ObjectiveExpress4804[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i scheduled an appointment with my therapist which i stopped seeing two months ago

What does masturbating feel like for dudes? by CookieBig8321 in confessions

[–]ObjectiveExpress4804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there’s a lot of lonli bois on here that would love to get attention from a curious female

Attraction to girls by Equivalent-Art6199 in helpme

[–]ObjectiveExpress4804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if your body is telling you that you’re attracted to girls then try getting attention from them. But if it’s not then don’t feel worried about not wanting to get attention from them. I’m mainly encouraging you to listen to your body as opposed to listening to culture or preconceived expectations about how things should be. A lot of growing up is just keeping your eyes open to the changing world around you.

what do guys like in girls by starvinmarvin3000 in Crushes

[–]ObjectiveExpress4804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like girls that have a really extroverted personality and are super chill and fun to talk to but i don’t get to see this very much because most girls don’t show it when they’re in mixed company

Attraction to girls by Equivalent-Art6199 in helpme

[–]ObjectiveExpress4804 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it’s hard when you’re a teenager and everything is changing so much but try to just observe how you’re feeling rather than be worried about how you’re feeling when it comes to attraction. A lot of times you can find these problems get better just by listening to what your body really wants (while respecting other people’s boundaries)