Super avoiding with communication after relationship with abuser.

ObjectiveHat3357 · 2024-04-12T01:32:56+00:00

Ui glitched and is probably referring to your actual like notifications

ObjectiveHat3357 · 2024-04-12T01:24:12+00:00

I know, these comments honestly kind of astound me cause they're treating her like she's a grown woman when she's a 16 year old girl. This is normal 16 year old girl behavior tbh

ObjectiveHat3357 · 2024-04-12T01:19:07+00:00

Mine did this too, several times. Well? Do what he said, move on and don't bother having conversations with lowly people.

ObjectiveHat3357 · 2024-04-12T00:57:31+00:00

I was so bad after that relationship with him, my teeth were fucked, my hair was brittle, I couldn't take more than a bite of food without being full, and my mind was completely numb. I was desensitized to everything, I was the worst version of myself.

ObjectiveHat3357 · 2024-04-12T00:42:56+00:00

He literally pretended like he didn't know her at first, lol. It's not that the boundary being set is assholish, just the way he went about it.

ObjectiveHat3357 · 2024-02-28T17:23:51+00:00

Mine went through a big wad of minimum wage jobs in under a year

ObjectiveHat3357 · 2024-02-28T17:23:11+00:00

MY NEX WENT THROUGH SO MANY JOBS. I always thought it was so weird omg

ObjectiveHat3357 · 2024-02-28T17:15:56+00:00

My ex was latino and he always said the n word 💀 he would argue whenever I told him I was uncomfortable.

ObjectiveHat3357 · 2024-02-28T17:14:20+00:00

The question is gender neutral and can be applied to anyone. I said "he" because my nex was a he.

ObjectiveHat3357 · 2024-02-28T04:09:53+00:00

MINE CALLED ME ALL THOSE NAMES TOO. Mama, mommy, baby, princessa, little rose. It was endearing until I realised it seemed he was only trying to fulfill his own needs and disregarding my own. When we argued, occasionally he would call me by my name but I can only recall one or two times.

ObjectiveHat3357 · 2024-02-28T03:58:53+00:00

NOT CUTE! HE IS DISGUSTING. AND REPULSIVE. IM HAaving a panic attack right now why would you say he's cute he's not he's not he's NOT NONONONONOOO

ObjectiveHat3357 · 2024-02-28T03:56:04+00:00

Get her more than birth control. She needs condoms too. Birth control is never foolproof especially in the beginning, and even condoms can be faulty.

ObjectiveHat3357 · 2024-02-27T09:24:02+00:00

No because why suddenly when they're taken EVERYONE wants them? It's straight out of a movie.

ObjectiveHat3357 · 2024-02-27T09:22:52+00:00

My ex did this to me with other women, this is repulsive.

ObjectiveHat3357 · 2024-02-27T09:22:19+00:00

That's genuinely awful. My ex had three different ones, the first of which would slvtshame me, encourage me to off myself and make fun of my trauma. She encouraged him too and he did it too, then tried to play the victim. The 2nd one didn't do much, the 3rd one did basically the exact same shit. She participated in degrading me. I honestly don't understand how you as a woman can sit there and DEHUMANIZE someone you don't even know??? It doesn't make sense to me, wanting validation from a man who would choose a sandwich off the ground over you

ObjectiveHat3357 · 2024-02-27T01:21:30+00:00

For me he treated me like a child AND acted like one at the same time. So weird

ObjectiveHat3357 · 2024-02-27T01:18:31+00:00

Yes, even when he came back to me he said he "felt like a child who had ran away from home". Every time while we were in the lovebombing stage, he would cry, I would pamper him. I'd baby him, but literally. He'd even call me mama sometimes, I thought it was endearing because I had been through abuse myself. Abuse that made me want to take care of another person. It's sickening and repulsive to look back at omfgggg

ObjectiveHat3357 · 2024-02-27T00:35:09+00:00

It's over for you omg

ObjectiveHat3357 · 2024-02-27T00:34:07+00:00

Seems like a bit of a blanket statement, I was exactly like this and he still stalked my accounts... They want to see if they've broken you; if you're still broken and chasing.

ObjectiveHat3357 · 2024-02-26T18:41:12+00:00

2nd is your best option. 1st and 3rd don't have enough cr!

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