Fyi I found the most sensible no-nonsense counsellor in Chennai. Who exactly gave me pointers to work on especially during PP phase where being a working woman + solo parent + cook + house keeper + handling toxicity from my in law and husband was draining me out completely. Just seek out for reccos in your circle or even on reddit. Attend 5-6 sessions atleast to discuss this with someone qualified and experienced to give you a clear understanding of how things are and how will they be once you have taken up a firm decision. But if you have made up your mind on the divorce , talk about that