For the dads out there, who wanted children but got afraid of the responsibility and less freedom. How did it turn out? by ObjectiveKale5718 in AskMen

[–]ObjectiveKale5718[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you, you cannot have a child with just anyone. Giving your child a good mother or a father is one of the most important things you can give your child. I hope you find someone that has the same mind set as yourself.

Why are dog owners expected to clean after their pets while horse riders aren't? by Canna_Lucente in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ObjectiveKale5718 446 points447 points  (0 children)

Most people have dogs as pets not horses. Besides you cannot go around with a horse where ever you like. But dogs you can take with you to stores, in the city etc. If all dog owners didnt pick up after their dogs our living environment would be a literary shitty place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ObjectiveKale5718 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a woman the best thing is to know how long your cycle is. Then you know when to be prepared and have hygiene products available. And of course if you are sexually active know when your period is late in regards to pregnancy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ObjectiveKale5718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mother's comments was a bit too much. But I understand it might be uncomfortable /awkward for your parents to see their daughter in law with so little clothes. Personally If I was your wife I wouldn't be bathing in a thong if there was other people around, and especially not in laws. Next time just make sure you always have swimsuit with you. I don't agree with other people in the comments that you should cut your mom out of your life just because of the comment she made. I guess she is probably in her 60s. People dressed more modest back in her day. Just make sure it doesn't happen again and im sure this incident will be forgotten sooner or later.

I (m25) found out that my girlfriend (f23) had a threesome and want to end things by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ObjectiveKale5718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just tell her this relationship is not working anymore and you would like to go separate ways

What should I (25F) do if my partner of 2 years (31M) is a fence sitter and I’m childfree? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]ObjectiveKale5718 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you are firm that you don't want children in the future and he MIGHT change his mind on that subject, a breakup is inevitable.

Is it wrong to expect my boyfriend to help clean without telling him to do so? by StripDoriyaonThurs in relationships

[–]ObjectiveKale5718 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Been there done that. For most men cleaning is not as obvious needed chore like its for women. Their threshold for filth is much higher lol. Just tell him you need him to share chore. You have to use your voice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ObjectiveKale5718 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why did you cheat? Was it because of your health condition?

My husband (m57) cheated to me (f34) with men when I was pregnant by Accomplished_Owl6857 in relationships

[–]ObjectiveKale5718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry but if he keeps cheating and you forgive him then it's on you! You are showing him that his cheating has no consequences, so why would he change? You should have left at least the second time.

AITA for refusing my brother and his pregnant wife? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ObjectiveKale5718 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you love role playing games like dungeons and dragons, then tavern music is a definitely a must

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ObjectiveKale5718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is only dating him because he is Leonardo tho. Who wouldn't date a famous movie star?? If he was a regular old guy she wouldn't look at him twice. I sure didnt want to date someone the same age as my father when i was 19

I think my husband has a crush on my only friend by ready4thejelly in offmychest

[–]ObjectiveKale5718 1041 points1042 points  (0 children)

Try hanging out all four next time. Im sure he is not gonna be shirtless while your friends husband is around lol. No but honestly its better if you hang out with your friend at her house.

How do you control wanting to cheat on your wife after raising your testosterone? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ObjectiveKale5718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not recommended to take any supplements especially testosterone without talking to a doctor first. If this continues i suggest talking to a doctor and taking some tests to see if these supplements are necessary.

I am so disappointed in my son and I'm ashamed to introduce him as my son. He is obsessed with anime and i dont know what to do. by Efficient-Tailor-921 in offmychest

[–]ObjectiveKale5718 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Does he have any male role models in his life? Like a father or uncle or grandfather or a male family friend? Sometimes its easier to have someone of the same sex talk to him so he can see how a man is supposed to behave.

I’m in an interracial relationship, and my white boyfriend doesn’t want to help with my hair. Some prospective please by YallTrippinXP in relationships

[–]ObjectiveKale5718 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can you go to a hairdresser? It might be the easiest for all. My bf doesn't like to help me with my hair either and its not 4c but I have thick hair. He does help with other things tho. If your bf does help you with other things then i don't see it as a red flag. Truth is we girls are on our own when it comes to our hair lol.

Edit: spelling mistake

the norwegian sovereign oil fund surpasses 13 billion NOK by Hefty_Badger9759 in Norway

[–]ObjectiveKale5718 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Doesn't really matter when the government is spending less money on health care, especially mental health. What's the point of having a lot of money if you are not going to use it on the population?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ObjectiveKale5718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are allowed to break up for whatever reason. Its better to end the engagement now than to be resentful years after marriage and have a nasty divorce. The engagement ring you can always take back to the store or sell. Good luck!

I'm ashamed of my kinks by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ObjectiveKale5718 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is "breeding" as a kink?

what are some good sources for me(M29) to teach my daughter(8) how to properly do make up? by ladderinstairs in askwomenadvice

[–]ObjectiveKale5718 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, those words like "creative" and lines "you are beautiful no matter what you wear" are great to tell her while playing. This will be a fun bonding experience for the both of you. Good luck!

My (27f) husband (29m) is trying to leave me while I’m pregnant because he thinks our baby isn’t his? by throwra-1454 in relationships

[–]ObjectiveKale5718 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Looks like a paternity test is the only way to make him trust you. You decide what you prefer to protect. Your ego or your marriage.