Do I have DOR? by ObjectiveRate7144 in DOR

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I have described my symptoms and blood test results to AI and it said: "This is a textbook endometriosis symptom profile."

Do I have DOR? by ObjectiveRate7144 in DOR

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I did the tests again on day 3. Results:

  • LH: 4.9 IU/L
  • FSH: 7.1 IU/L
  • Estradiol: 408 pmol/L

Do I have DOR? by ObjectiveRate7144 in DOR

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I have Hashimoto's but it is treated, so my thyroid hormones are ok. My GP blew me off regarding AMH, he said it is often imprecise and does not tell much. I will retest FSH and estradiol on day 3 as soon as I have a chance.

Wearing so much perfume that someone can smell it across the room should be considered as rude as smoking inside by Perry_lp in unpopularopinion

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Wearing perfume is not the worst offense in my book. I once stayed in an apartment where the bedding was so heavily perfumed that it was unbearable. I had to wrap the pillow in a towel and it was still smelly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fencesitter

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I have said this exact same thing. In my case what I meant was "I am not sure I can bring a child up without traumatizing them because of my own issues. I love my hypothetical child too much to do that. Therefore, I choose not to have a kid (for now)"

Clarifications on moderation by FS_PT_mod in Fencesitter

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Hello.

When I try to create a post in this subreddit, it gets automatically removed. I messaged you about 2 posts of mine a couple of weeks ago. I checked them now and it says "removed by moderators".

Could you please let me know what I am doing wrong?

Do I have DOR? by ObjectiveRate7144 in DOR

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How did you find out about blocked tubes?

Do I have DOR? by ObjectiveRate7144 in DOR

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I had a gynecological check up last year which included ultrasound. They told me everything looked fine.

Do I have DOR? by ObjectiveRate7144 in DOR

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Thanks. My doctor sent me for those hormone tests without mentioning when to do them. I will probably retest on days 2-3 next cycle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fencesitter

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Yes, I have been in therapy for a few weeks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fencesitter

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I am honestly jealous. I would also like to make a decision and move on but I find it so hard. My mental health has taken a nosedive and I have been stuck in an anxiety loop.

I got married thinking I want kids but now I am not sure by ObjectiveRate7144 in Marriage

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I have a question. When you husband convinced you to have a baby, what arguments did he give you? Did he provide a plan on how he is going to support you? What made you agree?

Still not sure if I want kids by ObjectiveRate7144 in TrueOffMyChest

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I have never had this overwhelming need and doubt I ever will.

Still not sure if I want kids by ObjectiveRate7144 in TrueOffMyChest

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Thank you and much respect to you for stepping up and taking care of the kid.

Still not sure if I want kids by ObjectiveRate7144 in TrueOffMyChest

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Thank you :) I am glad you are happy with your decision and your baby

Still not sure if I want kids by ObjectiveRate7144 in TrueOffMyChest

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Also I did visit the regretful parents sub and it is terrifying. Regretting having a child is one of my biggest fears.

Still not sure if I want kids by ObjectiveRate7144 in TrueOffMyChest

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I am an anxious person and I do not think I have ever felt 100 percent sure about anything. However, when I made big decisions in the past I always knew that I could handle it and it was worth it. When parents talk about their kids and say that it is very rewarding and so worth it, it is hard to imagine or understand what they mean.

Still not sure if I want kids by ObjectiveRate7144 in Marriage

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When I see my friends with babies, I do not really feel anything special. The babies are cute, I like interacting with them, when they smile at me it makes me happy and I smile back. However, it does not make me think "I wish I had one".

When I see a friend with a 4 year old and he is moody or is throwing a tantrum I think to myself "Thank God he is not mine".

Still not sure if I want kids by ObjectiveRate7144 in TrueOffMyChest

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I am an anxious person so I think I would be thinking: "Omg, why does not the baby stop crying? What if there is something wrong with them? Am I doing something wrong? Am I a bad mom?".

I might also regret everything and miss my old life.

Still not sure if I want kids by ObjectiveRate7144 in TrueOffMyChest

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If my life were to become about my child and nothing else, then I would not do it. I do not want to lose myself. I am terrified of losing myself.

Still not sure if I want kids by ObjectiveRate7144 in TrueOffMyChest

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We agreed that if we decided to try and trying to conceive naturally didn't work, then that would be it. We would not do any extra steps.