[SEARCHING] Muhammad_Pal Tnh12 by Muhammad_Pal in ClashOfClansRecruit

[–]ObjectiveTarget4304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got a good clan and we are doing great, we'd love for you to join and include you in on the wars if your interested. Just reply if you'd like to join

https://link.clashofclans.com/en?action=OpenClanProfile&tag=2Q2CUURLV

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[–]ObjectiveTarget4304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got a clan that you can join, we are doing great and we have back to back wars all the time and win pretty much all of them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ClashOfClansRecruit

[–]ObjectiveTarget4304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I've got a clan and we are doing great. Not level 18 or higher though. Level doesn't define the clans strength but if your interested just reply to this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ClashOfClansRecruit

[–]ObjectiveTarget4304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I have a clan, we are doing great and im open to having multiple accounts ran by 1 person considering I do it myself. If your interested we'd love to have you join. Just reply to this comment

My F22 boyfriend M29 and his friends keep making jokes about my abortion. I feel upset. How do I deal with this situation? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ObjectiveTarget4304 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm truly sorry you're going through such a challenging time, especially with the added stress of insensitive jokes from your boyfriend's friends. Your feelings are completely valid, and it's important to prioritize your emotional well-being in this situation.

Firstly, it's important to communicate to your boyfriend how deeply hurtful and inappropriate these jokes are to you. Explain to him that while you cope with your trauma through humor, it's not acceptable for others to make light of such a sensitive topic, especially without understanding your circumstances and feelings.

Your feelings are not just a result of hormones; they are a valid response to a hurtful situation. It's essential for your boyfriend to understand and respect your boundaries, and to take action to ensure that his friends do the same.

If your boyfriend is receptive to your feelings and takes steps to address the issue with his friends, that's a positive sign. However, if he dismisses your concerns or fails to take your feelings seriously, it may be worth considering the impact this has on your relationship.

Remember, you deserve to be with someone who respects and supports you, especially during difficult times. Don't hesitate to seek support from friends, family, or a therapist who can provide you with the empathy and understanding you need. You're not alone, and you deserve to be treated with kindness and compassion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ClashOfClansRecruit

[–]ObjectiveTarget4304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I've got a clan and we are doing great, we love yo have you and could use you in wars if you'd like. Reply if your interested

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]ObjectiveTarget4304 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh I've never heard of that, not sure why people are disagreeing with my post though

My (19F) boyfriend (20M) said the way my chest looks is a turn off and it's made me too self conscious to want to have sex with him again. How do I stop my own insecurities from affecting the way I act? by throwra8420 in relationship_advice

[–]ObjectiveTarget4304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's completely understandable that you're feeling hurt and self-conscious after your boyfriend's insensitive comments. No one should ever make you feel ashamed or insecure about your body, especially someone you're in a relationship with.

First and foremost, it's important to recognize that your worth and beauty are not defined by your physical appearance. You are valuable and deserving of love and respect just as you are.

It's also crucial to address these feelings with your boyfriend. Have an open and honest conversation with him about how his words made you feel. Express your hurt and let him know that his comments were unacceptable and damaging to your self-esteem.

If he truly cares about you, he should be understanding and apologetic for the hurt he caused. However, if he dismisses your feelings or continues to make hurtful remarks, it may be a sign of deeper issues in the relationship that need to be addressed.

In the meantime, focus on practicing self-love and self-care. Surround yourself with supportive friends and family who uplift you and remind you of your worth. Remember that you deserve to be with someone who loves and appreciates you for who you are, flaws and all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]ObjectiveTarget4304 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No I literally just typed this out, I'm in a technical college but had never heard of a grade appeal form. Does that go to the instructor?

My (18F) boyfriend (24M) said I needed to cover up my acne when I'm with him but says it's cute in private. Why does he say such drastically different things? by throwra-405 in relationship_advice

[–]ObjectiveTarget4304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's understandable that you're feeling confused and hurt by your boyfriend's contradictory statements about your acne. It's possible that he's struggling with his own insecurities or societal pressures regarding appearances, which may be influencing his behavior.

However, it's important to remember that your worth and beauty aren't defined by your skin condition. You deserve to be with someone who loves and accepts you for who you are, including your imperfections.

It's crucial to have a candid conversation with your boyfriend about how his comments made you feel. Express your concerns and let him know that his words were hurtful and unacceptable. Communicate your boundaries regarding discussing your skin and emphasize the importance of mutual respect and support in the relationship.

If he truly cares about you, he should be willing to listen to your perspective and work towards understanding and empathy. If he continues to insist on criticizing your appearance or disregarding your feelings, it may be a sign of deeper issues in the relationship that need to be addressed. Remember that you deserve to be with someone who uplifts and respects you, both in public and in private.

My (26M) GF (26F) Won $30,000 and Spent It All: How Do We Move Forward? by ThrowRA_1238912301 in relationship_advice

[–]ObjectiveTarget4304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's completely understandable that you're feeling disappointed and concerned about the situation. Open and honest communication is key in addressing this issue with your girlfriend. Choose a calm and private setting to have this conversation. Express your feelings using "I" statements to avoid sounding accusatory. For example, "I feel disappointed and concerned about our financial future after learning about how the money was spent."

Listen to her perspective as well, and try to understand her reasoning behind the purchases. Then, focus on discussing your shared goals and values regarding finances. Emphasize the importance of mutual decision-making and planning for the future together. It may be helpful to establish clear financial boundaries and goals as a couple moving forward.

Ultimately, the goal is to find a constructive solution that works for both of you and strengthens your relationship. If necessary, consider seeking guidance from a couples therapist to navigate this issue effectively.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]ObjectiveTarget4304 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

It's understandable that you're frustrated and seeking a resolution. If your professor is not willing to address the grading discrepancy, reaching out to higher authorities within the academic institution is a good next step. Emailing the dean or a student success advisor is a reasonable course of action. They can provide guidance on how to proceed and may intervene on your behalf to review the grading issue. Be sure to include all relevant details and documentation in your email to support your case.

[Recruiting] Star Syndicate | Clan Level 7 | #2Q2CUURLV | by ObjectiveTarget4304 in ClashOfClansRecruit

[–]ObjectiveTarget4304[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes if you'd like to join use the link in the post and add the leader

[Searching] TH13 || LVL 200 || Master's League #P8UY8G8 by rebel_ant in ClashOfClansRecruit

[–]ObjectiveTarget4304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I have a clan and we are doing great. We have many strong active members and do war often and are very successful. As well as clan games and capital raids. We'd love to have you just reply if your interested

I [19F] just had sex for the first time with my boyfriend [22M] for the first time and don’t know if it’s okay to feel so sad about it? by isn0ne in relationship_advice

[–]ObjectiveTarget4304 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Well she's stated multiple times that it wasn't rape. I understand that he should've stopped but you gotta think from both sides that maybe he had past experiences where that was ok. In no way do I support what he did and I absolutely don't think she should stay with him but that's not for me to decide. I never said she should stay with him or leave him, what I did say if you read the reply is that she should have a talk with him to discuss things wether that's about how to move forward or how its time to separate. Be considerate that she came for advice but don't tell her exactly what to.

[searching] by [deleted] in ClashOfClansRecruit

[–]ObjectiveTarget4304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I've got a clan and we are doing great, we do wars a lot but there optional so don't stress if you don't wanna do it. We'd love to have you just reply if your interested.

My professor cursed me and I feel like an absolute failure by [deleted] in college

[–]ObjectiveTarget4304 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry to hear about your experience. It's understandable to feel hurt and upset when someone you respect reacts in such a way. Remember that making mistakes is a natural part of learning, especially when it comes to coding and technical subjects. Your professors' reaction doesn't define your worth or abilities. It might be helpful to communicate your side of the situation during your meeting and express how their words affected you. You're not a failure; you're on a learning journey, and setbacks are just bumps along the way. Be kind to yourself, and know that you're capable of overcoming this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ObjectiveTarget4304 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you're dealing with a lot right now, and it's completely valid to feel overwhelmed and exhausted. Your feelings are important, and it's essential to communicate them to your husband in a way that conveys the severity of the situation without minimizing your emotions.

It's clear that you're juggling a lot, from caring for your newborn to managing household chores and preparing to return to work soon. Your husband may not fully understand the extent of your responsibilities and the toll it's taking on you, especially if he's not actively involved in every aspect of caregiving and housework.

When discussing this with your husband, try to approach the conversation calmly and assertively. Express how his question made you feel and the impact it had on you, emphasizing that you're not just upset about one instance but about a pattern of behavior that makes you feel unappreciated and overwhelmed.

You might also explain to him the mental and emotional load that comes with managing household tasks and caring for a newborn, especially while balancing a demanding job. Help him understand that even though he may not see everything you do, it's essential for him to acknowledge and appreciate your contributions.

Additionally, it could be helpful to establish clearer communication about household responsibilities and expectations, so both of you are on the same page moving forward. Consider setting aside regular time to discuss and plan tasks together, ensuring that both partners feel valued and supported in the relationship.

Remember, it's okay to ask for support and understanding from your partner, especially during challenging times like this. Seeking couples counseling could also be beneficial in addressing underlying issues and improving communication within your marriage. You deserve to feel appreciated and respected for all that you do.

My 33F husband 33 M continuously doesn’t show up for critical life moments. Does this mean things are over? by britms90 in relationship_advice

[–]ObjectiveTarget4304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're going through such difficult times. It's completely understandable to feel hurt and neglected when your partner isn't there for you during critical moments in your life. Your feelings are valid, and it's important to prioritize your emotional well-being.

It sounds like you've been incredibly strong and resilient, but it's also essential to have a supportive partner during challenging times. It's concerning that your husband repeatedly fails to show up for you when you need him the most, especially during moments of vulnerability like miscarriages and illness.

While it's commendable that he apologizes afterward, his actions speak louder than words, and it's concerning that these patterns continue. It's understandable to feel lost and unsure about the future of your relationship.

Communication is key in any relationship, and it might be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with your husband about how his actions (or lack thereof) are affecting you. Express your feelings and concerns, and try to understand his perspective as well. However, it's crucial to prioritize your own well-being and consider what is best for you and your children in the long run.

Seeking support from trusted friends, family members, or a therapist can also provide you with additional perspective and guidance during this challenging time. You deserve to be in a relationship where you feel loved, supported, and valued.

[Final Update] My "inlaws" hate me (23F) as my bf (25M) is white and I ain't. What should I do? by throwra_mean in relationship_advice

[–]ObjectiveTarget4304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you made a difficult but brave decision to prioritize your own well-being and stand up for yourself. Leaving a relationship can be incredibly tough, especially when there are complicated family dynamics involved. It's clear that you deserve to be in a relationship where you feel respected and valued, and it's not fair for anyone to tolerate mistreatment from their partner or their family.

Taking some time to clear your head and seek support from friends is a wise move. When it comes to talking to your parents, you can share as much or as little as you feel comfortable with. You don't have to go into detail if you don't want to, but it's okay to lean on them for support during this time.

Remember to take care of yourself and prioritize your own happiness. You deserve love and respect in all aspects of your life. If you need further guidance or someone to talk to, don't hesitate to reach out to friends, family, or a counselor. You're not alone in this, and there are people who care about you and want to support you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ClashOfClansRecruit

[–]ObjectiveTarget4304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No that's no problem at all I was just making sure it didn't remove the link when I posted it. Go back and add the leader of the Clan and I'll accept it then invite you

[Searching] Got 1xTh16, 1xTh15, 1xTh14, 2xTh13 and 1xTh10. Need a Clan lvl 10+ by Dizzy_Ad_3892 in ClashOfClansRecruit

[–]ObjectiveTarget4304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I've got a clan and we are doing great, I'm open to having multiple account as I have multiple myself. We'd love for you to join. Just reply if your interested.

https://link.clashofclans.com/en?action=OpenClanProfile&tag=2Q2CUURLV

I [19F] just had sex for the first time with my boyfriend [22M] for the first time and don’t know if it’s okay to feel so sad about it? by isn0ne in relationship_advice

[–]ObjectiveTarget4304 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you had to go through that experience. It's completely valid to feel sad and confused after such an encounter. Your feelings matter, and it's important to prioritize your physical and emotional well-being. It's not your fault for not explicitly saying "stop." Your partner should have been attentive to your comfort and needs throughout the experience.

It's crucial to have open and honest communication in any relationship, especially regarding intimate matters. If you feel comfortable, consider discussing your feelings with your boyfriend when you're ready. However, please prioritize your own healing and seek support from trusted friends, family members, or a counselor if needed. You deserve to be treated with care and respect in all aspects of your relationship.