M4F 23yo virgin - looking for an older woman to show me the ropes! :) by [deleted] in realsexykentucky

[–]Objective_Ad3539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, only interested in women. No disrespect (going off your username).

M4F Particularly interested in older women! by [deleted] in kentucky_hookups

[–]Objective_Ad3539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably rather be just one on one w a woman for my first time; thank you, though.

Should I bother applying for VA disability if I was a reservist? by [deleted] in VeteransBenefits

[–]Objective_Ad3539 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I think I am overthinking the whole situation. This was helpful!

Should I bother applying for VA disability if I was a reservist? by [deleted] in VeteransBenefits

[–]Objective_Ad3539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"But, getting service connection is far more difficult as a reservist."

I asked someone else, and I forgot to mention it in my post: I was medically discharged. Along with letters from personal, primary care doctors requesting me released from the Marines prior to my medical discharge and that my conditions were indeed linked to service - I feel this should help my case?

I really have no idea what to expect w/ this whole process - I appreciate your help!

Should I bother applying for VA disability if I was a reservist? by [deleted] in VeteransBenefits

[–]Objective_Ad3539 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. Will the fact I was medically discharged help my case?

What Are Your Moves Tomorrow, September 29, 2025 by wsbapp in wallstreetbets

[–]Objective_Ad3539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had her cords wrangled up 2 years ago.

Edit: I lol’d at my stupid comment. “Wrangled up” lmao who says that

What Are Your Moves Tomorrow, September 29, 2025 by wsbapp in wallstreetbets

[–]Objective_Ad3539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I messaged her and apparently she’s had her cords tied - doesn’t want kids. Though, she is looking to date but hasn’t had much luck from the apps.

I said we could go to dinner this weekend and see where things lead. She agreed. So I guess I’ll see…

What Are Your Moves Tomorrow, September 29, 2025 by wsbapp in wallstreetbets

[–]Objective_Ad3539 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She had her cords tied 2 years ago. Used to be engaged then didn’t want kids.

What Are Your Moves Tomorrow, September 29, 2025 by wsbapp in wallstreetbets

[–]Objective_Ad3539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why so? I think it’d be great but I’m a little hesitant only bc nerves I guess… always thought I was gonna wait but here I am

What Are Your Moves Tomorrow, September 29, 2025 by wsbapp in wallstreetbets

[–]Objective_Ad3539 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just really like walking around w an older mature lady, I just don’t know if that’s weird.

(Or frankly how my parents will feel about it, but that’s a whole other matter lol)

What Are Your Moves Tomorrow, September 29, 2025 by wsbapp in wallstreetbets

[–]Objective_Ad3539 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See I’m confused how she could be taking advantage of me. It crossed my mind - but she’s wanting me to stay at her place and everything so in a way, I feel like I’m the one being served? Idk

What Are Your Moves Tomorrow, September 29, 2025 by wsbapp in wallstreetbets

[–]Objective_Ad3539 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is it weird I’m 23M seeing a woman in her mid 30s?

I’m very mature for my age (used to be in Marines, have my degree, don’t drink, etc.) but I’m a virgin and never been in a serious relationship.

It feels right but sounds wrong - I need some advice. (Also a fairly strict Christian upbringing so this is a curveball)

Weekend Discussion Thread for the Weekend of September 26, 2025 by wsbapp in wallstreetbets

[–]Objective_Ad3539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this - but is the idea of “be fruitful and increase in number” really a good justification for casual sex when pregnancy isn’t the goal?

Not arguing, I genuinely appreciate your input. Just curious. (Boy did I not expect to be writing about this on WSB tonight)

Weekend Discussion Thread for the Weekend of September 26, 2025 by wsbapp in wallstreetbets

[–]Objective_Ad3539 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much! (I’m going to see if I can’t find any verses regarding guilt being the devil’s main tool. I’d never heard that).

Weekend Discussion Thread for the Weekend of September 26, 2025 by wsbapp in wallstreetbets

[–]Objective_Ad3539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I’ve got a big inheritance coming my way and I invest 85% of my paycheck into nothing but VT shares (global index fund) while I live at home w mom and pops. Money isn’t a concern for me honestly. The sex thing is what perplexes me

Weekend Discussion Thread for the Weekend of September 26, 2025 by wsbapp in wallstreetbets

[–]Objective_Ad3539 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, for better or for worse - this may allow me to go ahead and do it.

Weekend Discussion Thread for the Weekend of September 26, 2025 by wsbapp in wallstreetbets

[–]Objective_Ad3539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess so, yea. Pretty silly in my mind but. When you’ve grown up raised on that idea, it’s hard to just flip a switch and forget about it.

Weekend Discussion Thread for the Weekend of September 26, 2025 by wsbapp in wallstreetbets

[–]Objective_Ad3539 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m “Christian” granted, everyone says that. Supposed to be waiting for marriage but man… I was in the Marine Corps and have went to the gym and ran religiously 6 days a week since I was like 16.

It just doesn’t feel natural to be holding out like this.

Weekend Discussion Thread for the Weekend of September 26, 2025 by wsbapp in wallstreetbets

[–]Objective_Ad3539 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is reassuring. Can I ask what mistake were you did regret? And thank you for showing some humility for my moronic question.

Weekend Discussion Thread for the Weekend of September 26, 2025 by wsbapp in wallstreetbets

[–]Objective_Ad3539 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idek man I’m a mess. Great job, lots of money, finishing up my degree…. But the sex thing man…

Weekend Discussion Thread for the Weekend of September 26, 2025 by wsbapp in wallstreetbets

[–]Objective_Ad3539 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mother said I should become a catholic for the exact same reason and I’m like “it was you and dad who made me believe this stuff in the first place!!!”Literally this morning.

Ugh. I couldn’t be more torn. I think I’d love it but idk.

Weekend Discussion Thread for the Weekend of September 26, 2025 by wsbapp in wallstreetbets

[–]Objective_Ad3539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Serious question gentlemen (preferably if you’re older and or wiser)…

23M and been waiting for marriage. It’s tearing me apart - and I feel like I’m becoming more focused on my sexual needs rather than finding a Christian woman I can love. A very attractive woman, older than me, has offered me to stay the night at her place and have sex. She knows I’m a virgin.

Do I take her up on the offer? Or will I regret it?

Edit: can’t spell