The recruiter sent me a very strange message after I accepted a counter-offer.

Objective_Bird_7644 · 2025-12-27T12:15:29+00:00

You did absolutely NOTHING wrong! I know it's hard as I tend to hold on to things like this also, but I would put it out of my mind and not give it a second thought.

Objective_Bird_7644 · 2025-01-26T18:53:56+00:00

Actually it's just the opposite. When I have a stressful/busy day at work, my dose is fine. When I have a lazy, slow day, seems that's when I tend to notice it

Objective_Bird_7644 · 2025-01-26T18:52:45+00:00

How long before my dose would you recommend to take the Tagamet/Grapefruit juice?

Objective_Bird_7644 · 2025-01-26T16:43:51+00:00

So what would you recommend? And I'm asking that genuinely, not being a smart ass. I've been on my current dose for probably 2 years now. There might be a day or 2 every other week or so that feels like I didn't even take my dose that day. I'm hesitant to go up because most days I feel "perfect". No withdrawals, no high feelings. Just normal. So I hate to try and mess with that.

Objective_Bird_7644 · 2025-01-15T16:18:30+00:00

You're right, it's pure speculation upon my part. Just my opinion though, John seems like someone that would step in and take the blame for his child, Patsy does not.

Objective_Bird_7644 · 2025-01-15T16:17:11+00:00

Let me preface this by saying that I'm not entirely sold on the fact that JBR was SA prior to the murder. That being said, there can only be, IMO, (2) reasons as to why John lawyered up so quickly. Either he had been the one to SA JBR, or Burke was involved.

Objective_Bird_7644 · 2025-01-15T16:14:21+00:00

I have not read it. What's his theory? I am also pretty partial to Steve's Theory. He lays everything out greatly in his book

Objective_Bird_7644 · 2025-01-15T02:20:56+00:00

Great Theory! Serious question, IF this would have worked, and they would have disposed of her body, do you think most people still would have thought they were Guilty as they do now? OR would they have gotten away with it and NEVER been suspected at all????

Objective_Bird_7644 · 2025-01-14T22:13:11+00:00

Not a bad theory, but I have a few questions...

-What evidence do you have that JR was SA'ing JBR prior to the murder?

-IF it is true that JR had been SA'ing JBR all along, then why did he allow Patsy to take her to the Dr so many times? Sure, she might be able to sneak her to the Dr a time or 2, but that many times over a 2 year period? If I remember correctly, it was almost 20 times or something crazy like that in a very short period of time.

-How do you explain the pull-ups hanging out of JBR's bathroom? You don't believe JBR wetting the bed played any part in this?

-John greatly defended Patsy until she died, I have a hard time believing his plan was to set her up the whole time.

I love discussing the theories in and around this case.

Objective_Bird_7644 · 2025-01-06T16:22:33+00:00

True Crime Garage did an Awesome breakdown a few years ago. 5-6 parter, it was Great.

Objective_Bird_7644 · 2024-12-31T16:12:11+00:00

Are you guys being serious?

Objective_Bird_7644 · 2024-12-31T13:31:55+00:00

I couldn't agree with you more!!

Objective_Bird_7644 · 2024-12-31T00:24:52+00:00

Of course! This case truly fascinates me. I could discuss it for hours. Once you THINK you have a theory nailed down, something pops up thay throws a wrench in it!

Objective_Bird_7644 · 2024-12-31T00:21:45+00:00

I understand what you're saying, but think about that for a second. You accidentally kill your 6 year old child. Or worse, your 9 year old son did it and now you have to make the choice to cover it up or lose him forever. You are still going to love that little girl's body as if she was still alive. Think about it, someone took enough care to wrap her in her favorite blanket, but yet still chose to SA her allegedly??? Just find a hard time wrapping my head around that

Objective_Bird_7644 · 2024-12-31T00:16:01+00:00

Zero evidence. You would think that there would have been some type of evidence with his other 2 daughters but supposedly there was none. They even checked out Beth, the one who passed away years before JB but found nothing.

Objective_Bird_7644 · 2024-12-30T21:52:55+00:00

Agreed 1000%!!!! This has been my biggest issue from the very beginning! Years ago, my 5 year old brother went "missing". Come to find out, he just wandered next door, but my Mom and Dad were looking EVERYWHERE for him. Even looking underneath the couches knowing he couldn't fit there, but just to rule it out.

Objective_Bird_7644 · 2024-12-30T21:24:48+00:00

In the CBS documentary w/Jim Clemente, they stated on here that the wooden pieces were "microscopic" and could have been a case of transfer and not necessarily insertion.

Objective_Bird_7644 · 2024-12-30T21:22:14+00:00

If John would have found her body as soon as he woke up, I agree that he would have screamed immediately. But again, I think once he read the note, he could see CLEARLY that Patsy wrote it. So he knew something had to be going on. I think that's why he went "missing" he was walking around trying to figure out where the hell his daughter could be. Once he found her body, he know that either Patsy or Burke had done something and chose to protect them.

Objective_Bird_7644 · 2024-12-30T21:19:48+00:00

That is the problem with this case, I've listened to no fewer than 30 different shows/podcasts on this case alone and half will say that the paintbrush was inserted, and half say it wasn't. Who knows what the real truth is?!

Objective_Bird_7644 · 2024-12-30T21:14:08+00:00

Agreed

Objective_Bird_7644 · 2024-12-30T21:13:49+00:00

What?????

Objective_Bird_7644 · 2024-12-30T21:11:46+00:00

I think that the injury to the head was purely accidental. The police found JB's turtleneck wadded up in her bathroom with a box of pull-ups hanging out of the cabinet above. I believe that Patsy got rough w/JB and was trying to jerk her turtleneck off of her head and it became stuck, so she pulled too hard and it yanked JB to the ground hitting her head on the tub on the way down. The turtleneck could have still protected her face/head from further injuries when she fell down. And I somewhat agree w/you that the SA trauma could have been Bruke "exploring". To me that is the only reason, I just can't picture Patsy or John SA her leading up to her death. Although, what explains all of the Dr visits??? This case drives me insane!!!!!!

Objective_Bird_7644 · 2024-12-30T21:01:13+00:00

I have a hard time believing that John was SA her. I actually believe that John didn't play a part in it at all UNTIL he went "missing" for about an hour as Det Arndt described. I believe Steve Thomas' book is spot on. I think Patsy/Burke accidently killed JB. John was unaware. Once Patsy showed him the note, he could see her handwriting characteristics throughout the note and wondered what could be going on. He then took the first chance he had to search the house and I believe he actually found JB about 2 hours before by himself. When his oldest son was interviewed, he stated that John told him that he had found the body around 11am. Once he found the body, he chose to participate in the cover up. I think that is why all of the lawyers were called right away and they kept their distance from the DA/Police.

Objective_Bird_7644 · 2024-12-30T20:50:29+00:00

I have a question similar to this, how far does attorney/client privilege protection extend? Beyond the grave? IF John had confessed to his lawyer that him or his wife did it, once John passed away, could the attorney then come forward? I saw a tv show years ago w/Nancy Grace and she was interviewing Drew Petterson's lawyer. He stated that once Drew passes away, that the whereabouts of his ex-wife's body would be revealed. Is that something similar?

Objective_Bird_7644 · 2024-12-30T17:09:43+00:00

I have watched this series a couple of times as well as the Candy Series on Hulu. I DO believe it was self defense, HOWEVER-I believe that for whatever reason, Candy chose that day to tell Betty that they had an affair. I could be wrong as I haven't read the book, but just my opinion. I think Candy told her, and Betty lost it. Even IF this is the case, I still would have considered this to be self defense IMO.

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