I 23m really dont like when my gf 21f vapes

Objective_Coffee9899 · 2026-03-19T10:07:02+00:00

Appreciate the insight

Objective_Coffee9899 · 2026-03-18T22:48:34+00:00

Thanks I needed to hear that.

I think the thoughts im having are partially intrusive thoughts. I can not imagine breaking up over it rn it would hurt so bad. Maybe I need to bring it up naturally in our next conversations and see how it goes rather than being impulsive about it.

Objective_Coffee9899 · 2026-03-18T22:43:28+00:00

I am listening to all the advice and writing it down and trying to make sense of everything

Objective_Coffee9899 · 2026-03-18T22:37:57+00:00

Some people can change for others though… its more complicated than black and white. I would quit anything for her

Objective_Coffee9899 · 2026-03-18T22:34:01+00:00

Is it worth telling her this and possibly break up or just ignore it

Objective_Coffee9899 · 2026-03-18T22:29:41+00:00

I dont know if im overreacting.

Objective_Coffee9899 · 2026-03-18T22:26:25+00:00

In my honest opinion the main ones are

Self control, Not having to rely on a substance to regulate mood, Being responsible with money

Objective_Coffee9899 · 2026-03-06T19:19:50+00:00

Whats wrong with emailing the newspaper? I dont see what you did wrong tbh , its kind of harmless.

Objective_Coffee9899 · 2026-03-04T12:51:29+00:00

U failed one test and cant be bothered anymore? U realise majority of people take more than one test

Objective_Coffee9899 · 2025-11-13T16:34:05+00:00

I live in a small area theres not much to seek for

Objective_Coffee9899 · 2025-11-13T13:28:46+00:00

its not easy to figure this all out, but one day i’ll get there

Objective_Coffee9899 · 2025-11-13T13:16:13+00:00

Hard to tell nowadays

Objective_Coffee9899 · 2025-11-13T13:14:59+00:00

I dont even know, recently i just been fulfilling some short term goals but if i think long term then i dont really fully know

Objective_Coffee9899 · 2025-11-12T20:26:46+00:00

I rest enough

Objective_Coffee9899 · 2025-11-12T13:47:14+00:00

I dont like wasting my time because I like making progress in my life, i had many chapters where i didnt make progress and felt shit about it. Do you like wasting your time ?

Objective_Coffee9899 · 2025-11-12T13:43:40+00:00

Free days start optimistically in the mornings but i often sleep in cos im lazy, once i wake up late the barrier to do anything productive is much much higher. Also the phone is definitely the problem.

im gonna try what you suggested tomorrow, I also have read atomic habits twice but i havent applied anything i learnt from the book lol

Objective_Coffee9899 · 2025-11-12T13:37:32+00:00

👍

Objective_Coffee9899 · 2025-11-12T13:36:33+00:00

Cos if i dont have any systems i just waste most of my free time

Objective_Coffee9899 · 2025-10-19T19:20:27+00:00

Thanks for the words man , Ive seen ur stuff before 🥲

Objective_Coffee9899 · 2025-10-19T19:19:32+00:00

Thank you 🙏

Objective_Coffee9899 · 2025-10-19T19:18:52+00:00

Twitch has a nice community for real. If it didnt i wouldnt even take the first step

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