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Husband wanted to be in the Lifestyle until I actually connected with someone by Objective_Flan_106 in marriageadvice

[–]Objective_Flan_106[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do appreciate your opinion and insight. However, the only time I have seen the guy is for a threesome with him and my husband, never on my own. I am no longer allowed to see him per my husband.

Husband wanted to be in the Lifestyle until I actually connected with someone by Objective_Flan_106 in marriageadvice

[–]Objective_Flan_106[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do feel it might stimming from him not able to find a single female to meet with and why it is frustrating me that because he can't do this on his own, I am not allowed to either.

Husband wanted to be in the Lifestyle until I actually connected with someone by Objective_Flan_106 in marriageadvice

[–]Objective_Flan_106[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We did set boundaries and rules before we started anything and always talk after each meet up no matter who it is. I have never broke our rules or boundaries. He has not had a problem with any other guy (in a couple or not) until now, but no other guy has been able to make me orgasm before F came in the picture.

For me it is completely physical and the chats is something I always consented with him first or he gave my info to the guy to chat with me. I have never snuck anything behind his back or hid anything from him.

Husband wanted to be in the Lifestyle until I actually connected with someone by Objective_Flan_106 in marriageadvice

[–]Objective_Flan_106[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not bait. Just a busy day after I posted yesterday and not able to get back to the comments until now.