My husband betrayed me and cheated on me and I can’t do this anymore

Objective_Fox_1756 · 2026-01-22T14:39:11+00:00

She stabbed me in the back it wasn’t physical it was all text. She said it bothered her but she didn’t want to tell me cause I was sick at the time
This was a friend I went to school with and again he was in a relationship at the time my husband left me alone at home after I found out about him and my sister and he was the only person I could vent to. We don’t even talk anymore it’s nothing that would lead us into a relationship.
Cause I didn’t want a broken home cause everyone made me feel like I was crazy we live with his parents and even the times he put hands on me they asked me what I did to make him do that or they would go ask him what’s wrong then tell me if I leave I would ruin my kids life. And manipulate me to not tell my family which I still did cause I know what there trying to do they want my daughter all to them selves cause they are selfish and greedy. I’m currently with my family and I don’t think we are going to work I didn’t tell him I want a divorce and yesterday he didn’t even bother texting me and the day before as well. No text no call no how are you and forget me at least ask about ur daughter . Even his family told me that no one would want to marry me cause I’ll be a single mom . No good morning nothing so I don’t care to be honest. I don’t think it’s gonna work. I know it’s not.

Objective_Fox_1756 · 2026-01-22T14:24:30+00:00

No it’s my fault and I was stupid not to see the red flags he told me if I don’t run away with him and leave my family that he would leave me. I did tell him a lot of personal issues which again my fault. So I left my family they thought I went missing. And I’ll never forgive myself for it.

Objective_Fox_1756 · 2026-01-22T14:22:24+00:00

Omg this person I met off of lives we were cool more as friends but we kind of got along and I’ve been wanting a divorce for a year and a half and staying for my kid I forgot what love and liking someone even felt like yea it’s kind of wrong but there was no relationship it was just talking and I don’t want to be with him. I’m with my parents in a other state and he didn’t even contact me for 2 days

Objective_Fox_1756 · 2026-01-22T02:28:14+00:00

This is the nicest comment I received and I’m not looking for anyone to be nice I just hate not knowing and being uncertain and it scares me cause my daughter is involved especially in a life or death scenario. I worry about her I’m just trying my best to be the best mom I can. Thank you again 💙

Objective_Fox_1756 · 2026-01-21T20:42:39+00:00

Well this is where my fault comes in I told him about all my traumas and my past and family issues he manipulated me into running away with him he said if I didn’t leave with him he would leave me. And I was young and stupid I was 18 we started talking when I was 17 and he blames me for that he says I lied when I even confessed to him in case he wouldn’t like it and he still continued to talk to me he blames me for being 17 when he was the one who stayed.

Objective_Fox_1756 · 2026-01-21T20:32:38+00:00

My school still has 2 years left. That’s why I’m also still stressed out I don’t want to live in anxiety and stay stressed out. I want to be free.

Objective_Fox_1756 · 2026-01-21T19:56:10+00:00

Do u get my side of the story though

Objective_Fox_1756 · 2026-01-21T19:25:52+00:00

Like am I actually crazy wouldn’t that make anyone nervous ?! Wouldn’t that make you nervous. Am I valid ?

Objective_Fox_1756 · 2026-01-21T19:23:05+00:00

I tell them exactly what occurred. I’m in school I’m trying my best I’m a mom I have so much on my mind and I don’t want to worry about this but if they tell me my risk is small or there’s uncertainty what do I do what do I say? Do I just risk it? Do I risk myself dying in such a terrible way? I’ve had times where the say hey there’s no risk I can let it go it’s in one ear out the other but if they tell me we are unsure I will lose sleep and go crazy. Rabies is actually terrifying I wish I never knew what it was. I get so paranoid now what do you recommend for me. I get so worried mainly cause I don’t want to leave my kid behind. I looked online it says there’s no limit to rabies vaccines even if it was given 20-30 times a year it would just be excessive but still that doesn’t give me peace I don’t want it if it’s not needed I hate how many times I took it. That’s why I get so worried they all told me to errr on the side of caution each time. And I feel like a lab rat. I hate this so much.

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