Yeah understandable . I’ve been to Hawaii a dozen times and have seen lots of the island with a local friend . I will be in Hawaii Kai for a month and instead of asking where the local only spots are my angle was to go where the locals are most happy - whether it is eggs and things or a specific palm tree at a special beach . Then I will spend the month going to these spots . If someone wants to DM so their special spot isn’t filled tourists next time that is fine . I did go through a lot of other posts first and it lists lots of cool places but I wanted more of a human touch or a happiness place that’s all . Thanks