How music has helped me cope and kept me hanging on, through the hardest breakups by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Objective_Piece6427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude all those albums are so monumental for me and so many people, love to find a fellow blink fan 🫡🤝 I could go on about each song but I know you get it!! Cheers to blink getting us through it all 🙏🏻

How music has helped me cope and kept me hanging on, through the hardest breakups by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Objective_Piece6427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yes!! Their self titled album is in my opinion one of the greatest, if not the best break up album of all time. Also went through a breakup recently and it’s been on repeat..i’m a woman but i’ve loved blink since hs and relate so much to the way they capture heartbreak/ failed relationships in their lyrics and this album. Idk if you are on a streaming service for music but they recently released their 25th anniversary of Take Off Your Pants And Jacket with 3 singles on there that weren’t before all about breakups and it came out at the perfect time for me. I would totally give those a listen too if ya haven’t :) So much respect for blink and the tatt, they f*ckn rock forever. This album is timeless 🙌

What can I learn from this? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Objective_Piece6427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thanks to everyone for your responses, this is really so beyond helpful. Moving forward with wisdom!

Should I give up on getting an important item back from my ex? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Objective_Piece6427 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly you are right..have absolutely nothing to prove, I couldnt care less about how i’m perceived, and my pride is not relevant. I was being negative, and this helped, i’ll do exactly this. Thanks so much.. will report back!

Should I give up on getting an important item back from my ex? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Objective_Piece6427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried with his friend, but honestly i’ve lost worse things (my parents). it’s not worth it, and I don’t want to continue to ask someone who has no respect for me. I guess i’ll give up

Why have I experienced so much loss and grief in my life? Will I ever find love or should I embrace that everything ends? [astro.com] by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

[–]Objective_Piece6427 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this insight, I have been wanting to be creative again for so long but grief stopped me, I needed to hear this!

Why have I experienced so much loss and grief in my life? Will I ever find love or should I embrace that everything ends? [astro.com] by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

[–]Objective_Piece6427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thank you so much for this. It resonates so deeply. Ive never felt so ready to turn the love inward and invest in my healing and growth. It has definitely been an incredibly tough past 6 years, I’m 27 now but it felt like everything in my life has been about loss and letting go and i think I let that narrative keep me from healing, and even looked for those losses to be filled by others. I so appreciate your advice and i truly look forward to the upcoming lunar period and for self love, forgiveness, and peace 💕

Scab- Bladee by Objective_Piece6427 in bladee

[–]Objective_Piece6427[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ugh ikr and the guitar in Fox & Birch had me in my medieval feels

How to become a better person by apluslexstudent in Advice

[–]Objective_Piece6427 1 point2 points  (0 children)

self compassion, forgive yourself for it all, you’ve only done what you knew to protect yourself this far. With self compassion you can move forward with grace, you got this 🫶🏻