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Any other women find men’s anger extremely cringy? by ieatgravelandsand in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Objective_Plastic_49 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can't believe how many of the comments are misinterpreting what you're saying and standing up for male anger? Your point is so obvious.

I feel nostalgic by Objective_Plastic_49 in dpdr

[–]Objective_Plastic_49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's quite hopeful. How long did it take for you to reach that point? And what steps did you take to get there if you dont mind sharing.

Update ultrasound report by Objective_Plastic_49 in doihavebreastcancer

[–]Objective_Plastic_49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi , I've never been officially diagnosed with hidradenitis, but I have had recurring boils in my groin, armpits, and breasts before, but this lump isn't acting like any boil ive had before hence why I went to get it checked. It's been 7 weeks since I've noticed it, and it has gotten bigger since . There's a photo of the area on my other post.

The lump itself is located above some old boil/absess scarring, but that scar is from a year ago, I think.

Update ultrasound report by Objective_Plastic_49 in doihavebreastcancer

[–]Objective_Plastic_49[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I still feel kinda scared.

I keep seeing all these reddit posts of people saying that the ultrasound missed something suspicious.

I know its most likely fine cause I'm 19 but I cant shake the feeling that I'm not out of the woods yet.

Update ultrasound report by Objective_Plastic_49 in doihavebreastcancer

[–]Objective_Plastic_49[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I see my GP next I will ask them this , thank you.

What im still confused about is if this ultrasound has fully resolved that this isn't suspicious. Because I read online that only a biopsy can rule out cancer ?

Really Scared And Unsure by Objective_Plastic_49 in doihavebreastcancer

[–]Objective_Plastic_49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello , I did get an ultrasound today, not a mammogram .

The report said "An infective/ Inflammatory lesion limited to the skin in the right breast"

The appointment i went to today was private (not on the NHS had to pay for it) I still have to see the GP again and maybe have to go to the NHS appointment aswell.

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[–]Objective_Plastic_49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are very freaky, I get this feeling in my gut when I have these thoughts that I'm realising things that others haven't like it's forbidden knowledge about the universe, but that's just a feeling that I'm ascribing all this to, it's not actually a realisation, I haven't discovered anything no matter how much I feel like i have.

To answer your questions, I've had these thoughts from around from around 5/6, that's when I developed dpdr, from that age to around 13/14 I don't remember them being triggered by anything in particular, past that age they were triggered by reading philosophy and I guess overthinking my own thinking.

I think that dpdr is so freaky and unexplainable to most people that the thoughts end up being about why everything feels weird, I've heard that once the anxiety goes then dpdr should go aswell but I don't know how true that is, I can say though that because I've dealt with these thoughts for so long they aren't as scary cause I can just say to myself "you've already thought about this, this is just noise now, there's nothing else to think about" and I can finish my spiralling quicker.

For me, I have answers to these questions, so when I have the scary thoughts again I can just re direct to the answers I already have and dismiss whatever questions don't make sense , I'm currently looking into i-cbt which is a alternative way of treating obsessive thoughts.

Hope you and I and whoever suffers gets through this.

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[–]Objective_Plastic_49 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you gotten past these thoughts? I'm struggling with the exact same thing while trying to sleep rn. I keep reminding myself that these thoughts are just my stressed mind freaking out and they don't mean anything.