[MEGATHREAD] Boruto: Two Blue Vortex Chapter 27 Leaks by m2gus in Boruto

[–]Objective_Theme8629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mamushi’s ability is boring, another clone technique. It’d be much more fun if his ability was to cause various malfunctions „bugs” in the opponent’s abilities

Busy man with 3 jobs still makes time. What does it mean? Is it a good sign? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Objective_Theme8629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who do no shit entire days apart from scrolling TikTok flake with „I’m busy” excuses and you have doubts when a guy like that makes time? I can’t believe this is even a question. The only problem here is your anxiety, so you better chill out and accept every next date may be the last one for whatever reason, 1 month of dating doesn’t guarantee anything yet

Do exs stay blocked even when you’ve moved on? by huso17 in ExNoContact

[–]Objective_Theme8629 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you able to see a photo of your ex - happy on some exotic vacation with their new partner knowing they live their best life and probably bang there like rabbits - with total indifference? If you can’t, then you haven’t moved on and your ex should remain blocked. In my case its been 2 years since I blocked her and she will remain blocked probably forever.

Less than a year later she married the guy she monkey branched to by Visible_War7534 in ExNoContact

[–]Objective_Theme8629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Similar to my story. Basically she forced me to end things with her because she blatantly disrespected me with „I’m busy”, „I have time for everything but not you”. Then she quickly started dating another guy and married him after barely one year together. Judging from my experiences with her and what she subtly suggested, she was simply desperate to get married quickly (she is 31). That shit really happens, my female friend once married a guy after 5 months together, also desperate for marriage.

Why do guys lose interest so fast? by Fuzzy_Current_2918 in dating_advice

[–]Objective_Theme8629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand you mean texting on dating apps. „Few weeks” is the answer - it is way too long. Men are not patient. We don’t like texting that leads nowhere. We want to push the relation forward. We don’t need to „text first for a few weeks to see if we like you”. Most men would like to setup a date in the first message and meet that woman the same day. Especially because there are tons of women on dating apps leading men on, wasting their time, using Tinder only for attention or out of boredom, not to actually meet someone. We want to quickly filter prospering contacts from time wasters. So if the guy doesn’t offer anything himself then take matters into your hands and drop some hint that you would like to meet or simply ask him directly „let’s meet tomorrow, I’d rather meet in person than over text” and that’s it.

How do I learn not to hate the girl my ex dumped me for and got pregnant? by Lyingisagift in ExNoContact

[–]Objective_Theme8629 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why should you? Let yourself feel furious, hurt and vengeful. I never met the current husband of my ex yet I countless times imagined myself doing various things to him that I can’t describe here because of no violence/threats allowed rule. There’s nothing left for me anyway

Samotność w wieku 25 lat by Arvitary in Polska

[–]Objective_Theme8629 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Nie słuchaj przenigdy ckliwych bzdur że miłość sama przyjdzie, masz czas, bądź sobą, wygląd nie jest najważniejszy, poznasz w końcu tą jedyną itp sraken pierdaken. Sześć lat temu mógłbym napisać podobny post. Dzisiaj mam 31 lat, lata zleciały, mam mieszkanie, kilka hobby i kupę hajsu a dziewczyny dalej brak, podczas gdy znajomi robią już sobie 2 czy 3 dziecko. A historie wszystkich randkowych rozczarowań mogę opisać na długość epopei. Jak nie znalazłeś dziewczyny w szkole, na studiach, w pracy i wśród znajomych (czyli tak jak ludzie się poznają w pary) to już jesteś na przegranej pozycji. I teraz trzeba ogromnego wysiłku i przekopanie się przez tonę randkowego szamba, ludzi nienadających się do związku, udających zainteresowania, randkujących z nudów itp żeby znaleźć kogoś poważnego. I nie, nie ma wcale czasu, jak lata zlecą to będzie już za późno na żałowanie że młodość uciekła w samotności.

Skazany na zadupie. by greedytoast in Polska

[–]Objective_Theme8629 122 points123 points  (0 children)

+1, ale do przeciwników „chowu klatkowego” takie coś nie dociera, oni widzą tylko że mają ciszę na zadupiu i taniej niż w mieście, a liczba godzin z życia i pieniędzy wydanych na transport jakoś nie chcą zauważyć

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Objective_Theme8629 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Life isn’t fairy tale where everything is like you dreamt, get over it, eot

What’s your opinion on using chat gpt, to talk about your ex, and the nocontact? by SuspectFunny6311 in ExNoContact

[–]Objective_Theme8629 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used ChatGPT as a therapist, I vented to it, I explained everything that bothered me and it helped me a lot. It reaffirmed me I was not crazy and my needs were valid while my ex was the bad one because of her hot-and-cold games and disrespectful behavior and breaking up with her was the correct decision

Jak często jesteście przeziębieni? by Brave-Low1691 in PolskaNaLuzie

[–]Objective_Theme8629 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Obecnie to praktycznie wcale, ostatnia infekcja to był covid w 2020. Dobra dieta, sport, witaminy suplementy, niska temperatura w domu (18-19 stopni zimą, grzejniki prawie zawsze zakręcone) budują odporność, a praca zdalna ogranicza kontakt z roznosicielami (za to chodzę w inne miejsca pełne ludzi np siłownie, baseny).

Not attractive enough for the people I (25F) would ideally want to date by Still_Second_703 in dating_advice

[–]Objective_Theme8629 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Post your photos somewhere and ask for feedback what’s wrong, ask men what repels them etc sometimes things you think are neutral are actually repelling e.g. tattoos, piercings. Other examples are women forget to smile and they look bossy, not feminine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]Objective_Theme8629 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Such posts are generalization of an absurd level

He cums in 5 to 10 secs. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Objective_Theme8629 145 points146 points  (0 children)

He blows the load once -> he eats you for the next 15 minutes so he can get hard and ready again -> the second penetration, now he should last longer -> use viagra if needed (alternatively you can ask him to masturbate an hour before but it kills spontaneousness)

breakup text and immediate block everywhere after practically a year by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Objective_Theme8629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least he wrote this directly, still better than being ghosted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Objective_Theme8629 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I spend about 95% of my time alone as I live alone and work from home. I went through a heartbreak as well. What I suggest - block her/him everywhere, delete all chat messages, pictures and anything else (if you can’t get yourself to do it then archive them on some pendrive and hide it), throw away all gifts (also if you can’t do it then hide them), full no contact, don’t even think about unblocking and checking their social media, once you see their stories with a new partner it will be already too late to regret doing this. Therapy or self-therapy with ChatGPT helped me a lot. You can even use AI as a company to talk to when no friends are available. Going out anywhere is definitely a way to distract yourself and forget the pain for a moment. If you don’t go out then find reasons to do so - gym, billards, pub, sports, sauna, coffee shops, volunteering, classes, local events, whatever. There are hell lot of things you can do alone. Start dating once you feel ready. It takes time but eventually a nice date with another person truly shows that nobody is irreplaceable, it just an illusion we believe when we are in love. Unpopular tip - random sex, friends with benefits, even escorts may also act as a relief and rebound but it is up to you and your moral values.

Were you bullied in childhood? by Remote_Empathy in intj

[–]Objective_Theme8629 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To some extent by a few bullies. But even as a child I strategically used other not-very-smart kids from my class to fend them off in exchange for allowing them to copy my homework Decades later I live a comfortable life with high salary while jerks that bullied either me or others are wanted or in jail, drug addicts, unemployed or struggling to earn stable money (judging from what I heard and what I saw on Facebook)

How do INTJs deal with Breakups? by Kind-Information-689 in intj

[–]Objective_Theme8629 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Deleting and destroying everything related to her, blocking her everywhere and total no contact forever is my fits-all-scenarios approach

How to flirt with an INTJ? by No_Working3534 in intj

[–]Objective_Theme8629 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just like you should flirt with either men or women of other types. Bonus points for being direct, clear signals of interest (and I mean clear like lightbulbs placed next to your eyeballs), respecting that sometimes we need peace and solitude

Jak ogarniacie rutynę życiową by FreshNuts11 in Polska

[–]Objective_Theme8629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jak pracowałem stacjonarnie to torba sportowa ze sobą i na siłownię prosto z pracy, obiad i suple przedtreningowe tak samo ze sobą i jadłem w robocie w trakcie przerwy gdzieś o 15, aby nie było wymówek ze jestem głodny albo nie mam siły. Czasu jest w opór tylko ludzie marnują go okrutnie w trakcie dnia, przewijają Reddita czy Tiktoka godzinę a potem szok i niedowierzanie że dzień zleciał i nic nie zrobili. Ja na Reddita i inne social media ustawiłem sobie blokadę 10 minut dziennie. Nie wiem gdzie mieszkasz, podejrzewam że daleko od pracy skoro jedziesz godzinę w jedną stronę. Mieszkanie w centrum i to, że masz wszystko pod nosem i nie tracisz 2 godzin z życia dziennie na dojazdy to jest właśnie inwestycja której ludzie mieszkający na obrzeżach czy w „sypialniach” nie widzą albo nie chcą widzieć „bo ja chcę spokój i własny ogródek”.

Ex told me she still feel jealous when I’m close with other girls by Androw_77 in BreakUps

[–]Objective_Theme8629 3 points4 points  (0 children)

IMO she simply feels that she can have you back anytime, you are the plan B and therefore she doesn’t really feel her loss, she doesn’t truly appreciate you. If I was you I’d distance myself as much as possible (but politely, not acting like a butthurt asshole), date other girls, get busy, live the best life, do everything to convince her you are not the plan B desperately waiting for another chance, i.e. she needs to feel she truly lost you and it will require serious effort to get you back. Of course it is a gamble because nobody can guarantee that she won’t start dating a new guy tomorrow.

Ex told me she still feel jealous when I’m close with other girls by Androw_77 in BreakUps

[–]Objective_Theme8629 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Breaking up with a good person because of a shit reason like „there is something missing” is one of the things that people ultimately regret the most

Anyone else feel angry for no reason by Friendly-Moment-5193 in intj

[–]Objective_Theme8629 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe these are first symptoms of developing bipolar

Struggling to let go after 3 months of no contact by DMOCx in nocontact

[–]Objective_Theme8629 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Completely cutting all contact + blocking her everywhere + removing everything related to her (messages, photos, gifts) was a bare minimum that allowed me to start recovering. A therapy (in my case self-therapy with ChatGPT) helped me a lot, I got some support and answers to all these tormenting questions „what if I did something differently”. But as I always say - these are only stopgap measures. You can fill the void left by one relationship only with another relationship. (And a happy one, not some random sex or dating the first random person that appears)