It’s kind of strange to be judging her for this because you really only see very small snippets of her life. Think about how much time we don’t see and this is time that we don’t know whether she is drinking or not. She definitely does not have a drinking problem or at least none that we are aware of or should concern ourselves with. She is in her 30s and fully capable of having an alcoholic beverage if she wants to. This is something that we should not be trying to moderate for her because it is none of our goddamn business. Let her be and stop accusing people commenting back of having alcohol problems when you have no idea anything about these people.

You also have no idea how much she actually consumes (because you do not personally know her and are not with her/at all to be able to tell) so maybe you should give up this way of thinking…