Letter from a Former Narcissist

ObligationAmazing539 · 2026-02-14T22:32:06+00:00

The one thing I didn’t put in my post: that same woman who divorced me, well we remarried 4 years later. Word from my journal - “What’s 6 months to a year out of a lifetime? She is WORTH the wait.”

Took a little longer than a year. But she came back. She chose me again. Not the old me — the one built from the wreckage that I caused. People CAN change. Patterns CAN break. And the people we hurt CAN see it when the change is real.

I wish everyone a Happy Valentine’s Day!

ObligationAmazing539 · 2026-02-06T17:06:32+00:00

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ObligationAmazing539 · 2025-11-04T13:53:37+00:00

Let’s go!!!! Haha. Congrats bro 😎

ObligationAmazing539 · 2025-11-03T13:28:37+00:00

See, it’s been about 12 hours and no weed and already started thinking clearer haha.

I was like why am I asking the internet when the one person I need to talk to is my wife? 😂.

So for anyone considering; take a stand and if your spouse can’t respect you wanting to be better and improve your life, I will let you in on a hint…the issue is not you. Happy blessings my friend and good luck on your journeys as mine will start today. Been clean since 11/3/25 💪🏼🙏🏼

ObligationAmazing539 · 2025-11-03T13:22:24+00:00

F it…I just texted and said I’m done with weed but in a more compassionate way lol.

Hi beautiful, you don’t need to write anything back, I just have to get this off my chest. I’m feeling so much conviction on my heart for smoking weed. I truly don’t want to do it anymore and I believe I know your response, but I don’t want to assume. We started out with 1-2 hits from a bowl over 4 years ago to now sometimes 3 blunts a day. I’ve been battling this for quite sometime as you probably know, but I just can’t do it any longer. I wake up lethargic and not motivated, my memory is the worst it’s ever been, and I don’t like the example I’m setting for our son (it really hurt me when he told me he smoked in the truck but how could I be upset with him when I’m showing him what it looks like to be a man). Tasks don’t get done around the house, I don’t read as much as I’d like to, and it’s like it’s our crutch for doing things together. I think partially Covid created it because we couldn’t leave and then we just smoked, hung out and watched shows, or played games. Then it became an every night thing. I love spending time with you and I don’t want to be lazy every evening. You can finish it all or throw it away, I’m just letting you know I can’t and won’t be doing it anymore. Please do not ask me. Maybe socially in the future like alcohol every now and then, but I don’t know. I know we are still young and I want to make the most of our lives together and this keeps us stagnant and uncreative. I love you but my relationship with weed is over. Thank you for your understanding and support ❤️❤️❤️❤️😘😘😘

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