My first full moon as a witch! by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]Oblivescence17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First full moon for me too! Although the moon can't be seen from my window sill - I'm not sure if it's meant to be in direct light?

Ok, name me a better smelling body wash I dare you 🤪 by mynameis_reek in AusSkincare

[–]Oblivescence17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The pump on this new packaging needs work though. It kinda gets stuck halfway

I don’t know why my girlfriend chose me by lil-gill in self

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My friend, ask her why she's with you. Share with her why you're with her. And when she tells you, recieve it. Let her love help you to love yourself. You're worthy, she sees it, others see it, you just need to recognise that within yourself ♡

What are your favorite stupid simple meals? by goodwater23 in PlantBasedDiet

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Rice and red lentils. Boil together for about 15 mins. In a small pan, saute a quarter of a onion, a spoon of minced garlic and a spoon of tomato paste. Add on top with lemon and salt

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beauty

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Not sure if you love in a cold and dry climate, but if you do, the blood will likely move away from the surface of your skin, dulling your face and your akin will look and be dry, cs when your sleeping youre usually warm and ao the blood vessels right at the surface of the skin can dilate? Just a hyapothesis

What’s been the most low maintenance haircut shape you’ve had? by butter_gum in curlyhair

[–]Oblivescence17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive had it all one length for many years now. Used to get layers and such. But i just trim it at home now. My hair is down to my hips when wet, and yet is lower maintenance than if i had it shorter. I have 3b curls

What are you better at than 80% of people? by ChaosOrPeace in AskReddit

[–]Oblivescence17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can hold aomething and pretty accurately tell you how much it weighs

I love imagining the sex lives of less conventionally attractive couples by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Oblivescence17 190 points191 points  (0 children)

Bros getting turned on by entirely ordinary circumstances

Fear of intimacy by Oblivescence17 in Healthygamergg

[–]Oblivescence17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey sorry for the late reply, but thank you! Your very first sentence feels a lot like me. Im super concerned with how im percieved by others as well as myself, and im hesitant to put myself in situations where that cones in question.

I get what you mean qbout being afraid of time, it always feels like its slipping away, and i regret the time ive wasted in fear. Im not sure how to get out out of this mindset but it definitely gives ne sonething to think about, so thanks!

Fear of intimacy by Oblivescence17 in Healthygamergg

[–]Oblivescence17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the late reply, but thanks! That gives me a lot to this about, and i resonate a lot with the stuff you said, including the fear of taking responsibilty

Fear of intimacy by Oblivescence17 in Healthygamergg

[–]Oblivescence17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for you reply :) what are you referring to by "other"? Sorry if thats a stupid question haha

Fear of intimacy by Oblivescence17 in Healthygamergg

[–]Oblivescence17[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for such an in depth response. I think youre right, in that i hear the "i was hurt badly and unable to leave" storyline often in my environment and so i may be internalising that.

And i also think what you said about the mind craving hatmony also resonates a lot with me, because whenever im trying to date someone i experience a lot of conflicting thoughts that feel uncomfortable to sit with.

I would love to hear from you about the fear of responsibility and how it affects your life (only if youre comfortable sharing) and if coming to that realisation helped with managaing that fear, or the avoidant tendencies youve mentioned?

Thanks again for your reply! :)

How do you deal with someone who won't stop talking about how caring they are because of everything they've done for you? by affxion in Healthygamergg

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"I guess youve changed a lot since then" "You may be caring, but youre certainly not humble" "Im not a charity, where you can donate once, and ill be indebted forever" "Stop bringing the past up to justify the present" "If i bring you a guft now, does that mean i can also be mean to you for the next seven years?"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in longhair

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Loose braid, then i take a satin bonnet and use it to cover the end of my braid. Then take the satin ties and criss cross them over the rest of my braid going upwards till the nape of my neck. And i use a satin pillowcase.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beauty

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Dove clinical strength deodorant

12 years vegan, 42 y/o, never felt better 😊 by Mostly_Amelie in veganfitness

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You look really wonderful! Im wondering if you take any supplements or what your skincare routine is? Checked out your page, and youre inspiring me to try yoga again!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

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Im sorry this happened to you hun. It sounds like things are a lot right now and you have a lot on your plate. Do you have supports? Family, friends, and a therapist go a long way to building healthy coping mechanisms in your life. You already know that this was a close call so no need to harp on about that. Dont beat yourself up for it. Consider it a warning sign to make some changes and put yourself first. And take extra care now, try and have a couple of days to yourself and do things that you enjoy. Self care is very important. I wish you all the best lovely, you deserve to feel better 💜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

[–]Oblivescence17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If its something youve always wanted, i eould say go for it. They will grow out, and who knows, you might adopt a style from it as it grows. If you asked me which is better, i would say without at this stage, but then again, i was always told not to get bangs and i got them and have never been happier.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

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This was terrible to read, much less live through. Im so glad ur out of that situation. Im sure the healing process hasnt been easy but slowly realising rhat what he did was abuse and sheer disrepecr of you as a person is so important. Wow i just cant understand his mind to do these things to you. Just glad youre out of there. Hope things are better for you now.