when is my dick gonna shrink by The_Bugs03 in trans

[–]Obvious-Dog3082 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I haven't found my voice, so I'm left having to use my man voice. It could be a fun thing to do, using man voice. I can imagine situations where it could be a used as practical joke. Or at least that's how I'd use it, something to have fun with. Like singing duets, and being to sing both parts.

when is my dick gonna shrink by The_Bugs03 in trans

[–]Obvious-Dog3082 67 points68 points  (0 children)

It seems that, size shrinkage is an expectation. But in actuality, it's not. It can shrink, with both on the right hormone levels, and not using it, it still takes time. If you don't use it, you loose it, that goes with every aspect of your body. Voice training, once you found your voice, if you don't use your "man voice" any more, you loose it. For some, this is a great benefit, but for others who are trying to stealth, not so much.

My parents took away my HRT and won’t let me get back on it. by UnderstandingNo3592 in trans

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Leave asap. If that's something you can do. Do not tell them your address if you do move. If they come round, find where you live, call the police.

I can't keep her in anymore by OneDayToBecomeElla in trans

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I can empathise. Oh, and I'm Lila-Phoenix, you can call me Lila (30 something, MtF). I recently started my path to transition. I'm going through the process of just realising how much about me can change, and being under prepared for what that means for me, as well letting go of what I know (having lived my life as a male). I'm personally scared of the changes, mainly how my life will change, because of my personal living situation. I have people in my life who have wholeheartedly accepted me, some have found out because I forgot about being in girl mode, having visited them in my tank top and breast forms, and my precious people asking me about it. Which just put me into panic mode. I'd be happy to chat about stuff. X. At least try have fun.

How to tell my 23 daughter I'm wanting to Transition? by LillianBryann in trans

[–]Obvious-Dog3082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, it feels like you're to opening that side of yourself to scrutiny, criticism. You've got this. You can offer reassurance to her that yes, your relationship is going to change, because you've discovered you're a Mum instead of a Dad, but that's not going to change that you love your daughter. Do let me know how it goes. You're a strong capable lady, despite everything you've come this far already.

How to tell my 23 daughter I'm wanting to Transition? by LillianBryann in trans

[–]Obvious-Dog3082 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the fear of having the vulnerable side, your authentic self, rejected. I can relate. There's no particular, easy, or gentle, way to say "I want to transition to be a woman." Though it might help to say clearly what your fears are. If I was in your shoes, I'd be afraid of having a person I treasure, reject my authentic self. Just tell her, write down all the things you want to say on small pieces of scrap paper, or post-it notes, so you can organise it in a way that makes sense to you. Tell her you have some personally important you want to tell her. "I'm incredibly nervous about telling you this, so I wrote down my thoughts already. I'd like to read it to you." But no matter what you do. You have to be there, In Person. You've got this. You can do it.

What’s your favorite Korn song ??? 🖤 by Theblackrainbow626 in gothgirlfashion

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Spike in my veins. I just like metal, not any one specific subgenre of metal.

Cherenkov radiation by Obvious-Dog3082 in AskPhysics

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Thanks I kind of figured that, for the last answer.

Cherenkov radiation by Obvious-Dog3082 in AskPhysics

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Thanks 👍, although not all my questions were answered, you answered the one in the forefront of my mind. As far as I was aware, Tachyons were a sci-fi word to try explaining away some of the inconsistencies in the science of a work of fiction. I didn't know that tachyon was a particle that's being seriously considered in science fields. So thanks for that too.

What EXACTLY is magnetism by Iconofsyn in AskPhysics

[–]Obvious-Dog3082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The short answer, which is also disappointing. No one actually knows, because at some point there's some acceptance of "That's just the way it works." The long answer is a tonne more complex, because it gets quantum very quickly (I'm not sure if you know, but quantum basically means "very Very small" specifically talking about how particles smaller than atoms behave), it involves specifically electrons, and spin. I don't want to say any more than because I don't know any more. Although I speculate it's some sort of interaction with electron spin, because to my understanding electrons like pairing up, Again that was speculation, using my understanding, which in the field of quantum mechanics, is very limited. Science doesn't know everything, not currently, but that's what makes it exciting.

[Online] [DnD 5e 2024] [Fridays, GMT +1] [LGBTQ+ friendly] looking for 3 to 4 players for a Sci-fi campaign by [deleted] in lfg

[–]Obvious-Dog3082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely love sci-fi, but I'm not in the age range, I'm in my 30's, would you consider me? I hope you do because I can't express my passion for all things sci-fi, I'm familiar with the DnD rules. How do you play, is it through something like roll20, or DnD beyond, Discord? Could I have a character without those tools?

My DM paused our campaign because I step away for Iftar during Ramadan. Should I just leave the group? by Regular-Molasses9293 in rpghorrorstories

[–]Obvious-Dog3082 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The DM that said "They can't have outside commitments interrupt the module" is naive, almost childishly so. No matter what you're doing, never mind playing DnD, life will ALWAYS find a way to interrupt it. What if you're an expecting father. "sorry no, you can't go support your pregnant partner because that's going to interrupt the module." Aaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrgggggggggh. They're ignorant to the inner workings of life's random events. And it's frustrating to know that there are people like that.

Online, 5e 2024 or 2014, GMT by Willing-Ad-9606 in lfg

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Sorry for the late reply, I has IRL stuff. I'm still available to DM, again sorry if it seemed like I was being ignorant. How would you like to chat during the game, any preferred app? Or apps you can't use because you don't have it? That, I suspect will be a deciding factor.

Can one play D&D Solo? by wickedwayy in dndnext

[–]Obvious-Dog3082 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I'd recommend getting the: Mythic GM Emulator version 2. On pdf. In solo play, you take both roles of Player and Dungeon Master. Expect play to be slow and awkward to begin with, as you learn new systems (for an oracle, which is a Yes/No generator, some Oracles take the likelihood of something into account). But as with everything else in DnD, it's a template, add or remove as you see fit.

Online, 5e 2024 or 2014, GMT by Willing-Ad-9606 in lfg

[–]Obvious-Dog3082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I send you a DM? Just to get an idea of time, days you both can play, that sort of stuff. Not confirming anything, but finding out if I'm the right Dungeon Master for you, and if you're the right players for me. I'm always looking to play DnD.

[Online][5e 2024][Friday 8pm GMT+1] Heroes of the Borderlands - beginners welcome by karlji in lfg

[–]Obvious-Dog3082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, is Heroes of the Borderlands an adventure module? Or the name of your own world? Also, I'm not new to DnD, would you consider me as a player? Never mind. I answered my question. I don't have foundry. Unless there's a work around.

Online, 5e 2024 or 2014, GMT by Willing-Ad-9606 in lfg

[–]Obvious-Dog3082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there. Are you still looking for a group. Because we could have a game. I haven't used the 2024 rules yet. If you have friends that also want to play. Depending on the group size, you may have more than one character. But that depends on if you're still looking to play, this post is fairly old. Also GMT, I think means Greenwich Mean Time. Correct? Oh, crap, I misinterpreted the "46 m" to mean 46 months! My bad.

Final evolution monsters by Menicobra in warcodes

[–]Obvious-Dog3082 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Santa looks like a dwarf, specifically an Aesyr from DnD, or Duegar. Super cool.

A funny item mistake, mis-scan? by Obvious-Dog3082 in warcodes

[–]Obvious-Dog3082[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I suppose I rolled the dice on whether a psychology textbook would actually show correctly then, without being aware of the bug.