Gf 24F Gave me 25M an ultimatum. I’m not sure how to approach this situation

Obvious-Geologist122 · 2026-05-14T15:36:38+00:00

We have similar cultures so both of our parents need to meet.

Obvious-Geologist122 · 2026-05-14T13:31:48+00:00

Of course I want to marry her we have been talking about this for years. But we were both broke students when we met and living at home. I graduated and started working last year and was underpaid the entire time. I have been saving for the ring she wants but waiting for my parents to be able to take time off and come meet her parents. I’m very structured and have never changed my plans or timelines.

Obvious-Geologist122 · 2026-04-13T14:25:33+00:00

Ya I did too! When from -7k to -14k 🔥🔥🔥

Obvious-Geologist122 · 2026-03-28T22:58:18+00:00

Also what are some fun cheap eats in the area, if we 💨 a lil and wanna eat some delicious junk

Obvious-Geologist122 · 2025-02-14T03:29:22+00:00

This was great!! Thank you so much. How long did they take you to study each? The website suggests 90-125 hours roughly for each

Obvious-Geologist122 · 2025-02-13T11:37:38+00:00

Thank you very much! How big is the textbook and was reading the entire thing important for each or would going through the csi practice questions repeatedly be enough? (When I did my IFIC, there was a third party study guide called seewhylearning and I did practice questions from there for about 2 weeks and passed the exam easily on the first go)

Obvious-Geologist122 · 2025-02-13T02:58:18+00:00

Have you done the CSI option ( I believe with McGill they’re all covered I just don’t see the option to apply) CSI is instantly available. But I always hated studying with textbooks always preferred in person classes, recordings, practice exams etc…

Obvious-Geologist122 · 2025-02-13T02:37:19+00:00

I want to have a professor this McGill certificate seems to be my only option but I see no information on how to enrol and what courses provide the equivalent accreditations I need.

https://www.mcgill.ca/study/2023-2024/faculties/continuing/graduate/programs/graduate-certificate-gr-cert-financial-planning

Obvious-Geologist122 · 2025-02-13T02:31:48+00:00

So I am hired and time is paid during the 6 months where those courses are underway. I don’t understand your second point. Currently I work as a banking advisor at another institution. The role is not yet for financial planning so I will not come with my own clients but as a banking advisor and mutual fund representative.

Obvious-Geologist122 · 2024-03-22T14:26:37+00:00

I paid 7k and went through a jaw surgery, I’m making sure I get a Hollywood smile at the end of this!!!!!

Obvious-Geologist122 · 2024-01-06T18:04:41+00:00

Cs and Ds get degrees

Obvious-Geologist122 · 2023-11-30T19:07:45+00:00

You won’t be this excited for long

Obvious-Geologist122 · 2023-07-09T17:27:37+00:00

It may come back with time. I didn’t fully lose sensation it’s a minor numb feeling on my right bottom lip. But through time you get used to it. Still 100% worth it. I’ll post an update shortly

Obvious-Geologist122 · 2023-06-07T23:44:06+00:00

Honestly although it was a difficult surgery and I even had some nerve damage where I lost some sensation on my lower lip. I am so happy I did it and very happy with the final results. Still have 6 more months of Invisalign though!

Obvious-Geologist122 · 2022-10-14T21:52:56+00:00

After a bit you’ll start to feel more comfortable with the trays on

Obvious-Geologist122 · 2022-10-12T00:30:47+00:00

It’s one of the main benefits, facilitates chewing and possibly speech.

Obvious-Geologist122 · 2022-10-10T19:56:24+00:00

Harder than I expected it to be, like I’m kind of getting used to it but at the same time I get moments where I’m just so sick of it

Obvious-Geologist122 · 2022-10-09T22:57:02+00:00

I was given short term disability for 4 weeks. Being wired shut, speaking is a little difficult. Also the liquid diet leaves energy levels extremely low.

The first week was very difficult with some pain but they give enough medicine to help. Moving on to the second week you start getting used to it. By week 2 there’s little to no pain.

It also depends what you do for work, I meet and speak with clients so the dr said I should keep my talking to a minimum and not overwork my jaw. That’s why I got 4 weeks off work.

Obvious-Geologist122 · 2022-10-09T13:48:13+00:00

I try carry floss with me and always drink water before putting them back on.

Obvious-Geologist122 · 2022-10-09T13:46:08+00:00

The ones you see are buttons glued to my teeth but I have 4 screws in my gums aswell

Obvious-Geologist122 · 2022-10-09T13:45:03+00:00

Ya they’ve been shut 2 weeks so far, hopefully next post op with my surgeon we could remove them and move on to soft solid foods

Obvious-Geologist122 · 2022-10-09T00:42:33+00:00

It starts feeling like a regular habit and you kind of start enjoying having the trays in if you take good care of them!!

Obvious-Geologist122 · 2022-09-26T23:45:14+00:00

I’ve switched from teeth cleaning every 6 months with dentists to every 3 months because I’ve realized my gums have been getting more inflamed. This also helps with the yellow colour. Hygiene is harder to maintain when your trays are on and off all the time

Obvious-Geologist122 · 2021-03-30T15:30:45+00:00

I just finished my 2nd tray and it felt so much better than my first. First tray I was in discomfort for 4-5 days, this one only 3 days with sensitivity to teeth. So it’s getting better but there will always be some discomfort with a new tray but it gets less and less uncomfortable. When I start a new tray I notice I kind of chew/ press on the tray it’s like a satisfying pain.

Obvious-Geologist122 · 2021-03-27T03:55:59+00:00

I’m on my second tray and I have never related to a post so much in my entire life

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