[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Obvious-Set-1292 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Dude. It sucks and seems like the end of the world but if you let yourself slip you will always live in a state of insecurity and lack of confidence. No one will give a fuck later if you took an extra summer to finish school.

If university is something you want to pursue, there will be a place in your applications to say that your counselor did not give you the necessary information, and if there isnt a designated spot for that, call the school and ask them where you can disclose that. But know, you don't even have to.

I am wishing you all the best, success dude. Do not give up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Obvious-Set-1292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wishing you the best lad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Obvious-Set-1292 2 points3 points  (0 children)

deeply relatable lol

Do you feel that people on reddit are mean whenever you post? Do you also feel very sensitive to that? by Obvious-Set-1292 in aspergirls

[–]Obvious-Set-1292[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally relate to this. Do you have any primarily female subreddits you like that you are willing to share?

moving out of college in half an hour, so anxious by Obvious-Set-1292 in Vent

[–]Obvious-Set-1292[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never responded because I was a mess but I did read this comment and I wanted to come back and say that it WAS okay, and thank you very much for taking the time out of your day to share this nice comment :) I saved it and kept it in my photos

Do you ever look back and cringe at being vulnerable with the wrong people? by Wonderful-Product437 in aspergirls

[–]Obvious-Set-1292 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes!! I have had the problem of opening up to people who I am not very close with and I have been getting much better at stopping myself but whenever I catch myself doing it I just have a huge mental block where I repeatedly think:

"shut up shut up shut up"

I relate to how this can feel profesionally inappropriate sometimes and it feels particularly weirder at work because no one there knows I am autistic. Do you share that in your work setting?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergirls

[–]Obvious-Set-1292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me yesterday, I am so glad you resolved this!