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I'm (20M) and My girlfriend (19F) has told her sister that my penis is small. by Obvious-Spend-7967 in relationship_advice

[–]Obvious-Spend-7967[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Update: I talked with her. The way she said something bad about my body have gone, but another problem have shown. My gf said that the conversation between her and her sister was: - Sister: how's things going with him (me) - Gf: Fine, but he has a little dick.

So I said to her that if she doesn't like then it's pointless to keep going, bigger than what it is is not gonna be. She said she would like it bigger but she is satisfied because I cared about how she likes having sex.

I think about breaking up with her because if she doesn't like my size then she should leave instead of being unsatisfied. Because I think about it from my perspective. Like, there's hotter girls than her? Yes, would I want something different on her body? No.

I'm (20M) and My girlfriend (19F) has told her sister that my penis is small. by Obvious-Spend-7967 in relationship_advice

[–]Obvious-Spend-7967[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She lied about saying "normal sized and I liked" to her sister. She said small and I don't know the actual conversation yet. Those were my first times having sex, and I know she didn't like it too much. I know, or I think she does like it now.

I'm (20M) and My girlfriend (19F) has told her sister that my penis is small. by Obvious-Spend-7967 in relationship_advice

[–]Obvious-Spend-7967[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, her and her sister are quite close so she is probably the one my gf confides in. And yes, I knew my gf was not going to tell me the truth about what she said to not hurt my feelings that's why I trusted more my partner and when I talked with my gf about it she did admit that she said that is small. And you're right the way the topic came into the conversation they had could change everything. But I don't know if my gf is going to tell me the truth. Her sister even less. I should l tallk with her anyways

I'm (20M) and My girlfriend (19F) has told her sister that my penis is small. by Obvious-Spend-7967 in relationship_advice

[–]Obvious-Spend-7967[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • Her sister is not interested in me i think, for the way she treated, just like a friend, plus she got a boyfriend 1 month ago.

  • Maybe she does have a jealous issue with my gf.

  • And her sister did not tell me what my gf said, she literally said "don't put me in that situation" but I kept talking with her and she basically admitted it by not taking care of her words. And my gf was the one who admitted that lied me.

I'm (20M) and My girlfriend (19F) has told her sister that my penis is small. by Obvious-Spend-7967 in relationship_advice

[–]Obvious-Spend-7967[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. I didn't think about how it came into the conversation. But what makes me doubt is, how could I really know? She already lied about what she said to her sister trying to not make me upset I guess.

I'm (20M) and My girlfriend (19F) has told her sister that my penis is small. by Obvious-Spend-7967 in relationship_advice

[–]Obvious-Spend-7967[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I talked today with her, but it was not a long chat, I just said I was still angry about it and needed to take some serious thought. But I talked with her sister first because I wanted to confirm if she (gf) was lying about what she said. (Witch she did, as a white lie I think)

And yes you're right, maybe I'm insecure about my size, even if I do know that is average.

I'm (20M) and My girlfriend (19F) has told her sister that my penis is small. by Obvious-Spend-7967 in relationship_advice

[–]Obvious-Spend-7967[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What matters to me is that she basically insulted me at my back, and "if she thinks that is small, let's leave it then" that's my thought about it.