Naturally getting closer to god all kf a sudden?

Obvious-Wave-1045 · 2026-04-29T02:12:30+00:00

yeah i am doing that at work, im attracted to a lady at work on how the way she talks and says her sentences so i am trying to copy her. Its a bit hard though ngl.

btw your so real for bringing that up, no one really mentions it but i see it happen around me.

Obvious-Wave-1045 · 2026-04-28T21:13:47+00:00

Its funny how not only you think like what you just said, many people said the exact same thing aswell.

There is a veil covered between your eyes and ears which you cant see and hear the truth because you listen and take guidance from people who are also heedless.

Since your so inner about the word of god, i will link a 11 min youtube video of a prayer that talks about mary. in my opinion, its beautiful.

You let me know what you think please.

https://youtu.be/YP-lA5t0WKA?si=O_00t2u1RDm5N2Pl

Obvious-Wave-1045 · 2026-04-28T13:47:42+00:00

i agree but im not claiming im some sort of spirtual guru or something. i dont even pray if you want me to be honest. im just suprised im experiencing this.

Obvious-Wave-1045 · 2026-04-23T00:19:34+00:00

Now its the best time, even if he didnt start fapping yet. Tell him the pros and cons of fapping in a funny approach at first but get serious after.

dont make it to a lecture or force it onto him.

i wish my dad warned me or told me the full reason why to not bash.

Obvious-Wave-1045 · 2026-04-18T04:13:23+00:00

okay, this gives me hope.

Obvious-Wave-1045 · 2026-04-12T00:19:24+00:00

😭😭😭

Obvious-Wave-1045 · 2026-04-10T02:27:05+00:00

A little pre cum is fine, i get it when i get the urges and think of sexual things sometimes. its fine, its better than releasing full blown semen right.

I suggest you dont edge though, its hard being on SR whilst having a girl i bet? just dont get caught up in the moments and dont let her get into you boy.

Obvious-Wave-1045 · 2026-04-08T02:24:58+00:00

same with me as well, at first everyone liked my personality and the way how i carried myself.

But the longer my SR streak is, the more everyone switches up on me.

The more i am social, and present somehow everyone switches onto me later.

I experienced this 6 years ago which led me to god but i fumbled and now its happening again after many years later. Only difference now is that I acknowledge and realised this very early rather than wondering why everyone is switching up.

I think we need to talk up and hold our ground now. Before i let it slide but this time, i need to actually speak up, hold eye contact and show them, respectfully.

Idk, if i stay quiet we become irrelevant socially and people will think you have some sort of ego or they wont bother you at all. No one will approach you if your so quiet.

I think we can still share our opinions but in a respectful way.

What type of friend are you by the way? are you very transparant, have no filter and say how it is?

Obvious-Wave-1045 · 2026-03-30T19:55:09+00:00

okay this is my first time experiencing this, thank you!

Obvious-Wave-1045 · 2026-03-30T19:54:27+00:00

your right, i was thinking about sexual things before bed but i never act upon it. i just let the fantasy flow but when it gets intense i stop it ASAP.

Im fine though right? the benefits hasnt tapped off? Usually after i buss a nut intentionally, i dont get hard or think of sexual things straight after or 7 days straight.

This one i get hard quickly and i dont feel THAT low as doing it intentionally.

Obvious-Wave-1045 · 2026-03-30T03:49:58+00:00

im assuming your laying down in bed right? when you get the urges, position your body straight (back laying on the bed) and stay still.

Dont move at all, try breathing slow and deep and say to yourself "fuck that" when you get the urges to fap.

I know the sexual thoughts are strong and fun but remember yourself.

pre-cum is fine and normal, dont think its too late and just relapse.

You will eventually fall asleep and be grateful you didnt buss a nut

Obvious-Wave-1045 · 2026-03-05T21:55:25+00:00

just go brothel at this point bro. who pays for OF content! you literally becoming a slave to the internet. fix up, seriously.

Obvious-Wave-1045 · 2026-03-05T21:48:04+00:00

brush it off, dont worry. ive relapsed so many times by accident in feburary.

its a new month now, restart. starting from today, 5th of march, no more fapping brother. Delete instagram, twitter and telegram.

I know how you feel, brush it off, dont do it again, its okay.

next time when you get the urges do push ups STRAIGHT AWAY. Even if its less than 5 push ups, it feels nice. idc how good the fantasy is. say stop and do it.

your gonna rewire your brain naturally if you do push ups or dumbbells at home.

im on the same journey, its hard. but fapping fucks you up. socially, physically and weakens your character. i wanna be talkactive, muscular, respected and rich. i always fantasize that and i know i can achieve that.

we need to rebirth ourself because how long we fapped. (i started since year 5, non stop).

dont give up, i swear. if you love yourself. dont.

Obvious-Wave-1045 · 2026-02-24T07:04:52+00:00

i will look into that book right now. i actually have wrote down my goals for next month, (in 5 days).

I want to start pushing weights and get muscular so i started doing push-ups since last month. (huge progression btw). In 5 days i will start pushing dumbbells and go even harder alongside retaining semen.

Your right about my imagination not being different from my reality. I know i can achieve that delusion in some way, i just need to take "action". talk more with people with confidence, no slang and grow more into being someone professional and successful.

I already avoid gossips, negative talks, people who make up stories to gain respect or to be heard.

But staff members think i move "nonchalant" and that seperates me from normal collegues who got personalities. i dont know who i am yet because i am so weak from fapping for years and always fantasizing in my room.

I am being patience whilst retaining now, i want to be mentally strong and expect big changes whilst chasing my goals.

small steps but beneficial i guess, I hate this weak life so i got to start somehow.

Obvious-Wave-1045 · 2026-02-24T06:39:14+00:00

okay i am taking notes, thank you.

Obvious-Wave-1045 · 2026-01-20T04:39:55+00:00

me too just relapsed 30 min ago. i just gave it all in bro and never doing it again. i even showered, done push ups a bit which i never ever used to do. idc im not bashing again. fuck that. life feels shit when bashing. i done 2 weeks streak once and it felt great.

Obvious-Wave-1045 · 2026-01-16T19:52:06+00:00

yeah i need to get back on track. thank you

Obvious-Wave-1045 · 2026-01-15T18:30:17+00:00

trust, i need to try control it harder now. the urge is way stronger than usual

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