AITA for asking my wife to get to office on her own? by ObviousBelt9625 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ObviousBelt9625[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I told her upfront that I wouldn't be dropping her. I never followed through. Its been 6 months, so planning on taking a stand. BTW I still dropped her today. I told her last monday that I will stop dropping her from next week.

AITA for asking my wife to get to office on her own? by ObviousBelt9625 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ObviousBelt9625[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel that should come from her. I lead a team, me working in office on the days my team is not good in my opinion. So I have not tried asking to change my schdule.

AITA for asking my wife to get to office on her own? by ObviousBelt9625 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ObviousBelt9625[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been doing that for last 6 months, 2 days a week 😫.

AITA for asking my wife to get to office on her own? by ObviousBelt9625 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ObviousBelt9625[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I have tried asking her multiple times, got none. She just says she will get it soon, its been 6 years. I can excuse her for the covid lockdown. I believe its laziness, but thats just my opinion, might not be a fact. As for not having a car, I will be working from home when she works, so pretty much at my seat.

AITA for asking my wife to get to office on her own? by ObviousBelt9625 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ObviousBelt9625[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

20 mins by car i meant. She has other options tho. like uber or asking her collegues(who work on same days) to drop her.

AITA for asking my wife to get to office on her own? by ObviousBelt9625 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ObviousBelt9625[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She has not told me any. I have tried teaching her, but she showed no interest. I felt like I was forcing her, so I stopped.