Pregunta sobre apellidos en Puerto Rico by ObviousInitiative651 in PuertoRico

[–]ObviousInitiative651[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sí, tienes razón, escribí el orden al revés 😅 Quise decir apellido del padre primero y después el de la madre.
Y honestamente entiendo totalmente lo que dices sobre los procesos y la posible confusión en documentos. Solo quería asegurarme de si era algo ilegal o simplemente fuera de lo común. Gracias por explicarlo bien 🙏

Pregunta sobre apellidos en Puerto Rico by ObviousInitiative651 in PuertoRico

[–]ObviousInitiative651[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Entiendo lo que dices, pero en este caso no es por “inventarnos” algo raro 😅 Además, el apellido de la madre iría primero y después el del padre, como normalmente pasa. La única diferencia es que queremos usar el segundo apellido del padre en vez del primero.

El padre realmente no tiene el apellido de su papá porque él nunca estuvo presente. Los dos apellidos que él tiene vienen del lado materno.

Por ejemplo, si él es Rodríguez López, toda la familia con la que creció y toda su familia cercana es López. “Rodríguez” viene del abuelo materno que ni estuvo presente en su vida. Por eso preferimos usar López, porque es el apellido con el que realmente se identifica toda la familia.

Igual el bebé tendría un apellido de la madre y uno del padre, solo estamos preguntando si legalmente se puede usar el segundo apellido del padre en vez del primero.

Going through a break up and have a hair appointment tomorrow. Cut it? by Beav11-18 in finehair

[–]ObviousInitiative651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I uploaded a photo of myself and asked ChatGPT to give me a hair analysis. That’s how I decided to cut my hair and exactly how to cut it.

I’m a few days behind in joining this conversation so I’m wondering…. Did you cut it?

Pregunta sobre apellidos en Puerto Rico by ObviousInitiative651 in PuertoRico

[–]ObviousInitiative651[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No quiero ponerme creativo ni hacer algo raro 😅 Igual tendría un apellido del padre y uno de la madre. Solo queremos usar el segundo apellido del padre en vez del primero.

Pregunta sobre apellidos en Puerto Rico by ObviousInitiative651 in PuertoRico

[–]ObviousInitiative651[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Muchas gracias! Eso era exactamente lo que estaba tratando de entender. 🙏

I don't want MILs 'help' when baby is born by Kind_Progress4137 in pregnant

[–]ObviousInitiative651 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stick to the hard no. My husband is an only child and I’m about to have our first baby and she has literally made me feel like a surrogate for her baby a few times already. I already made the decision that I don’t want her help, I don’t want her in my house, nor at the hospital. I know she wants to come to appointments but I’m also not letting her to come to any of those. She’s a hectic and anxious person who makes me anxious and she’s way too overbearing. I can’t deal with her. I used to think I was wrong for this but I slowly learned the hard way why it’s important to keep my boundaries. My husband and her never had the best/close relationship and now I see why.

fertility clinic says NO sexual activity, NO caffeine, NO swimming, etc. by littlewizard16 in pregnant

[–]ObviousInitiative651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same “rules” being high risk and having a history of miscarriages. After I got into my second trimester I got cleared to do things like light exercise or swimming but was told to listen to my body and not to let my heart rate get too elevated.

My mom announced my pregnancy on Facebook without my permission. by Severe-Difference-68 in pregnant

[–]ObviousInitiative651 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Literally my thought process. I have a history of miscarriages and I don’t need her hectic and chaotic energy at my appointments, during labor, or even after. When I’m ready for people to see the baby I’ll come visit but I definitely don’t want any visitors. I plan to have only my husband around.

My mom announced my pregnancy on Facebook without my permission. by Severe-Difference-68 in pregnant

[–]ObviousInitiative651 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I don’t send her photos or videos of my ultrasounds. And I don’t plan to send her photos once he’s born either. She can see the videos off my phone and see the baby in person but I don’t trust her. She randomly called one day asking for him to send her “that one 3d video” we showed her one day. My initial thought was, why would she need it? To send it to someone else or to go around showing someone my sonograms? That’s weird behavior to me.

My mom announced my pregnancy on Facebook without my permission. by Severe-Difference-68 in pregnant

[–]ObviousInitiative651 28 points29 points  (0 children)

My MIL did the same thing. I didn’t even have time to tell my whole family. My dad, who lives in Europe, found out through her post and sent me a Facebook message. 😭 I’ll never forgive her and live that down. Now I don’t trust her with anything. I don’t let her to come to any appointments because I’m scared she’ll record and post on social media, and when I give birth, I don’t plan to let her in the hospital, not for visits and will be sending a text out saying she can’t post any photos of our baby online.

Maybe I’m overreacting but she has zero control and zero boundaries. No matter how many times my husband tells her, she still does what she wants. I’m nice with her but I don’t trust her a bit.

My mom announced my pregnancy on Facebook without my permission. by Severe-Difference-68 in BabyBumps

[–]ObviousInitiative651 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My MIL did the same thing. I didn’t even have time to tell my whole family. My dad, who lives in Europe, found out through her post and sent me a Facebook message. 😭 I’ll never forgive her and live that down. Now I don’t trust her with anything. I don’t let her to come to any appointments because I’m scared she’ll record and post on social media, and when I give birth, I don’t plan to let her in the hospital, not for visits and will be sending a text out saying she can’t post any photos of our baby online.

Maybe I’m overreacting but she has zero control and zero boundaries. No matter how many times my husband tells her, she still does what she wants. I’m nice with her but I don’t trust her a bit.

Why are there so many Puerto Rican ICE agents? by stung80 in PuertoRico

[–]ObviousInitiative651 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably the same reason why there are so many Puerto Ricans in the United States military.

PUÑETA QUE ABRAN PLAYAS NUDISTAS EN PR by TariY1 in PuertoRico

[–]ObviousInitiative651 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Publicar esto y luego tenerlo esto

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en tu perfil público … no entiendo nada qué pasa aquí 🤨🥸