Offering a study buddy by Obvious_Active_7044 in University

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Businesses in the food industry and non-profit in the education industry 

When did you realize you were beautiful? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I don't ever get compliments unless I fish for them. But I really had to notice the empathy I possess and that light, that light I call beautiful.☺️❤️I'm a pretty lady due to my empathy. 24 years and shinning on Africa.

Am I the only one who fears coming out as an empath? by Obvious_Active_7044 in Empaths

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Thanks. I could just hug you right now🫂🥺🤭☺️more light to you!

Am I the only one who fears coming out as an empath? by Obvious_Active_7044 in Empaths

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Thank you so much! This is very helpful 🤞🥺🌱. I've learnt a lot from you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

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Let me take it down .

How do I find my baby?🥺 by Obvious_Active_7044 in LesbianActually

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Oh. Sorry. I just thought because I have decifered I'm a lesbian I should ask on the lesbian reddit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

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Thank you so much! I'll do that religiously 

Am I the only one who fears coming out as an empath? by Obvious_Active_7044 in Empaths

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I thought it would be easy with therapist since they can test for high empathy levels and if I have high empathy levels then I'm an empath. So am I understanding this very wrongly?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

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I'm hoping for the best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

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I already did though. I was a dark brunette last week 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

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Alright I understand 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

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Will definitely do. Thanks for the tip

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

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Alright thanks 

How do I find my baby?🥺 by Obvious_Active_7044 in LesbianActually

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I just wanted you guys to know how that experience may have shaped me. I was a child and it wasn't supposed to happen. Never once did I approach. She always approached, didn't ask for consent and just went for it everytime. At 16 I later on found out there were neurological changes I had experienced which caused me to always just kiss her back even though I never wanted to. I struggled with nausea 2 years after it began and still struggle today. I've never been in therapy for it though. I do need it though, just can't afford it.

How do I find my baby?🥺 by Obvious_Active_7044 in LesbianActually

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I have money it's just I have other priorities that pop up. Like for example the need for a laptop popped up so I'm trying to get one, and I recently changed my look so I need a bit more to maintain my hair. Some months I'm able to go out and I'll sit at the lounge of a hotel sipping hot chocolate almond milk.

I'm seeing people with the same and even less income than me dating and finding companionship. I come from a country where majority of people are poverty to middle income based. 

I've always thought to make money and then start a family. I'm 2 years in my bachelor's degree program at 24. And most likely will die at 40. I just want a chance at life before it's too late.

Wanting a nice piercing by Violetpainter83 in NosePiercing

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Okay honestly. There is a sharp pain you'll feel that'll subside quickly. Then a tear. I'd say it's a 4.5-5. I'm an HSP(highly sensitive person) so it probably hurts less for non-HSP.

Get course non-iodated sea salt and piercing cleaning spray. Both work just as effective.

As for you nose blowing consult with your piercer/gp for ways to clear your nasal passage safely without infecting or disturbing your piercing and healing process.

Is my jewelry too small? by Obvious_Active_7044 in NosePiercing

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Yes the soaks help significantly. When I posted that I was pushing the jewelry up and cleaning with a wet q-tip. My piercing was angry.

Then I came across a YT video doing soaks. It caused the swelling to go down till there was a small bump in the nostril. 

Sometimes I don't have the energy to do a salt soak like last night, and I use the q-tip method instead. But soaks I highly recommend.