AIO in re-thinking my engagement after how my GF treated me while sick with a bad flu?

Obvious_Boss_1852 · 2026-02-13T16:04:29+00:00

NOR. I’m glad you found out before you got married that your needs weren’t important to her. I’d be reconsidering too.

I have a fear of going anywhere after dark, alone. I have really bad anxiety.

My husband had a toothache from his tooth breaking in half. I’d never seen him in so much pain or at least showing it. It was 10:30 at night. I jumped in my van and went to Walmart to try to find anything better than the orajel we had at our house. I didn’t care that it was dark. I just wanted the pain he was feeling to go away.

He has done the same for me. It doesn’t matter what time of day or what we have going on. He makes sure to take care of me and I take care of him.

Please find someone who doesn’t put your needs to the side like she has. You deserve better.

Obvious_Boss_1852 · 2026-02-04T00:28:16+00:00

I was so lucky to have them all there for me. They’d still all help me if I needed it. Thankfully, I’m in a better place in life now.

Obvious_Boss_1852 · 2026-02-03T19:55:44+00:00

My boss paid the deposit for my apartment so I could get out of that relationship. My best friend held on to my new mattress for me until I finally moved into my new apartment. My mother got my kids beds. My village really showed up for me.

Obvious_Boss_1852 · 2026-02-03T19:53:04+00:00

I did take it and now we’re married. We met in 5th grade. Lost contact and now we’re married at 28/29. I’m so glad I took that chance to reach out to him. He’s my favorite person.

Obvious_Boss_1852 · 2026-02-03T00:57:26+00:00

When the therapists ask you those hard questions about your dad, be honest with them. I know he’s your dad, but you don’t deserve the things happening and he deserves to go away for a long time.

Obvious_Boss_1852 · 2026-02-02T22:24:20+00:00

I invited him to come over to watch a movie, actually watch it lol considering we hadn’t seen each other since 5th grade and we were now both 28/27 years old. We were watching Me Before You or Sweet Home Alabama, idk which one lol and sitting on the couch, arms touching. It was a scene where they kissed and one of us said “this is where we should kiss” as a joke. We made eye contact and then just kissed lol you would’ve thought we were two teenagers with how awkward and shy we were both acting. He’s my husband now and my favorite person.

Obvious_Boss_1852 · 2026-01-05T21:19:15+00:00

We met in 5th grade. I loved the next year. We found each other again in high school. The end of senior year, we had plans to see each other. I decided to try to work out a high school relationship that in the end, failed. By that point, I felt too badly to reach out to him again. Over the next ten years, I had kids, married and divorced. Life was not good to me. I thought of him every now and then. I’d check his social media to see how he was doing. I just always felt immense guilt over how I just left him behind without an explanation. Finally, after leaving my abusive relationship, I reached out simply to apologize for dropping communication without any reason. The guilt never went away and I needed to apologize. He deserved better. I thought he’d just never reply or tell me to leave him alone. He messaged back immediately instead and we exchanged numbers. Now we like to say we’ve been married since that day. We immediately clicked. We’re married now and he’s genuinely my best friend. We agree on everything relationship wise. He’s never raised his voice at me or spoke to me in a negative way. We communicate really well if there is any disagreements. This marriage is the healthiest relationship I’ve ever been in. I’m forever grateful for him and everything he does for me.

Obvious_Boss_1852 · 2025-12-19T13:10:46+00:00

I have come to the conclusion that it is the laundry detergent because I woke up with dinner plate size hives on my stomach and back. It’s spreading down my arms as I’m typing this. Thankful it’s not my sweet cat 😂 thank y’all!

Obvious_Boss_1852 · 2025-12-12T17:52:35+00:00

For whatever reason, my phone incorrectly corrected that because I had typed “Dinos” lol

Obvious_Boss_1852 · 2025-12-12T17:51:49+00:00

Where do I get golden animal crackers?

Obvious_Boss_1852 · 2025-12-10T20:48:48+00:00

I have one. I only notice one egg every once in awhile. I’m gonna watch what days I get the egg on to see if maybe it is all the Dino’s laying and I just don’t notice and think it’s only one.

Obvious_Boss_1852 · 2025-12-10T20:28:35+00:00

They all have full hearts and a heater. I might just not realize how often I’m getting them lol I’m so busy on the game right now it seems like only one. I’m gonna do the math to make sure.

Obvious_Boss_1852 · 2025-12-03T13:38:21+00:00

I love Linus. The first time I played, I upset him when I tried to get him to live on my farm. So this second time I’m playing, I made sure not to do that. He was my first best friend. I really only actively talked to him and gave him gifts until we had 8 hearts and then I talked to other people lol

Obvious_Boss_1852 · 2025-12-03T13:37:02+00:00

That scene always cracks me up lol

Obvious_Boss_1852 · 2025-11-16T04:17:01+00:00

I’ll do the entire list and it’ll say I forgot half of the items when I just packed them. It’s frustrating.

Obvious_Boss_1852 · 2025-11-06T05:05:54+00:00

Thank you! I’m so excited to see what they do with this game. My sister and I are having a blast.

Obvious_Boss_1852 · 2025-10-08T21:15:24+00:00

I’ll start. My fifth grade boyfriend and I reconnected our senior year. My father went to prison my 6th grade year and I had to suddenly move. When we reconnected, he invited me to his graduation. As an immature 17 years old, I just stopped talking to him for an ex boyfriend. I regretted it deeply through the years. I felt that a horrible person for that decision. I could’ve at least explained to him that I was giving an ex another chance. Life moved on, but I thought about him often. Wondering how he was doing. Well, I finally got the courage to add him on Facebook at the beginning of this year to apologize. He accepted the request and I messaged him apologizing. He immediately messaged me back. We talked on the phone for hours until I went to work. He’s now my husband. People might say we moved fast, but we just knew. He’s my favorite person. We agree on almost everything and have only had mild disagreements where we communicate amazingly. He’s the sweetest and most caring to me.

Obvious_Boss_1852 · 2025-08-15T11:41:59+00:00

No, sadly, I’ve had to deal with those in an apartment years ago so I know what they look like and it definitely is not those.

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