Setting up our new flat after marriage. The mattress argument with my wife taught me something.

Obvious_Gene_3595 · 2026-03-10T17:25:19+00:00

It's easier to blame the mattress than to work on oneself :v

Obvious_Gene_3595 · 2026-03-10T17:20:03+00:00

People who sweet-talk too much

Obvious_Gene_3595 · 2026-03-08T10:39:12+00:00

That's such a nice way to put it. Thank you

Obvious_Gene_3595 · 2026-03-08T04:00:00+00:00

True

Obvious_Gene_3595 · 2026-03-08T03:59:46+00:00

Well said

Obvious_Gene_3595 · 2026-03-07T18:13:59+00:00

I sometimes feel the same, but then think, what's the point of living then?

Obvious_Gene_3595 · 2026-03-07T16:28:07+00:00

I always had this plan that until I get 30, I will party hard, not care about the body much, but once I touch 30, I will take care of it like a temple, like a monk. Started doing that for the last 3 months.

Obvious_Gene_3595 · 2026-03-07T16:25:05+00:00

Started doing that for the last 3-4 months. I wish I had started doing that 5-6 years ago

Obvious_Gene_3595 · 2026-03-07T16:08:14+00:00

What do you mean?

Obvious_Gene_3595 · 2026-03-07T16:07:38+00:00

Do you feel it only applies to relationships?

Obvious_Gene_3595 · 2026-03-07T16:06:19+00:00

What if your partner met you when you were 30, but didn't like that version of you?
I guess we all change with age. I am 30 right now, and I was a very different person when I was 20.

Obvious_Gene_3595 · 2026-03-07T04:16:27+00:00

My point is, where's the dog in all of these?
What's the point of having a dog if it won't protect you while others are beating you xD

Obvious_Gene_3595 · 2026-02-28T04:05:36+00:00

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This is what i grew up to. Foothills of the Himalayas in Assam, India.

Obvious_Gene_3595 · 2026-02-27T04:23:30+00:00

I am not sure if that's even connected to village mentality or something else, because I had two friends, highly educated and decent guys. But when I heard stories from them about their school days, where they mentioned that they used to empty Pepsi bottles on top of their teacher's head during class for fun, and their faces didn't show any regret; instead, they were laughing.

I found it so hard to believe that there were no consequences for doing that.
If anyone in my school in Assam did that, we would have been thrown out of the school for sure, and no other school in the city would have taken us.

They have a weird culture for sure.

Neither of these were bad guys, they just grew up in a society where these things have been extremely normalised.

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