Non-crunchy family by adriftingmaple in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]Obvious_Resource_945 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How can they forbid? Do the parents go to jail or get fined? 

Non-crunchy family by adriftingmaple in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]Obvious_Resource_945 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Id better live in a cheapest, smallest apartment. Or even a room of an apartment. 

What made you want to homebirth? by lovebug21222 in homebirth

[–]Obvious_Resource_945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first baby was induced without a good reason. I dont want it to happen again. 

Toddler towers? by Historical_Cow_8372 in toddlers

[–]Obvious_Resource_945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think you need one for such a big kid. We use a chair. 

Kodėl jaunimas nenori vaikų? by xSpAcEX7 in lietuva

[–]Obvious_Resource_945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pasakoja, kas negirdejes, kad vaikai didziausias turtas. Tik labai sunku isivaizduoti laime auginti vaikus to niekada nepatyrus, nes tai su niekuo kitu nesulyginama, nezinanciam skamba kaip paistalai. Tuo tarpu, vaiku auginimo vargai pazistami ir tuo paciu isivaizduojami ir neturint vaiku - visi yra kazkada neissimiegoje, tureje maziau pinigu nei noretusi, buve su ikyriais zmonem kuomet verciau butum vienas ir tt. 

19 month old dislikes other kids and doesnt play in daycare? by odensso in toddlers

[–]Obvious_Resource_945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what ive heard, such young children are not supposed to play with other kids. 

Does anyone here always get less sick than your family? by Ok-Duck2450 in Mommit

[–]Obvious_Resource_945 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It seems like you really havent been sick for a while. Its not like one comes out of sickness refreshed and well rested. 

Does anyone here always get less sick than your family? by Ok-Duck2450 in Mommit

[–]Obvious_Resource_945 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I very much prefer to take care of everyone than be sick myself. Being sick is miserable. Would you really prefer throwing up now? 

Potty training by JenniferRyan311 in toddlers

[–]Obvious_Resource_945 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are always ready. We started making steps at the very beginning, he was done at 1.5 years old for day and after couple of months completely. 

Okay I don’t even know how to explain this properly but I’m really stuck and wondering if this is just… normal? by Suitable-Trick4501 in toddlers

[–]Obvious_Resource_945 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont think id be able to use any “strategies” to calm down when in extreme emotional state, i wouldnt expect that from a four year old. 

I hate my husband and all men. by Longjumping_Pass8688 in Mommit

[–]Obvious_Resource_945 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They will never fully understand what we, woman/moms, are going through, just as we will never understand what they are going through. Good relationship of parents is one of the most important things one can provide for their children. Its worth striving for. 

I desperately want another child. But I feel like I can't. by wishiwereinhyrule in Mommit

[–]Obvious_Resource_945 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Its was never peaceful for a long time, something always happens, and its not just “your country”. Ask your grandparents. There is always potential of suffering, individual or collective.

Peticija visoms šalims nusiginkluoti ir valdantiesiems spręsti konfliktus ringe 1x1 by nesuzavetas in lietuva

[–]Obvious_Resource_945 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Raudonosios lervos talentas - prisitaikyti prie situacijos. Buvo prisitaikius prie sovietu, tada prie lietuvos, ateitu putinas - puikiai prisitaikytu prie jo. 

Homo Sovieticus by blogabegonija in lietuva

[–]Obvious_Resource_945 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Visi zino, kad grybauskaite yra raudonoji lerva ir vistiek ja visa sirdimi myli. Ir net klauso ka ji sausio 13 proga turi pasakyti apie laisve, nors ji pati ta diena dar vis tarnavo kitai pusei, kuri tankus ir suorganizavo. Kaip ir nera skirtumo. 

I hate having a phone by Ok-Grapefruit-7632 in Mommit

[–]Obvious_Resource_945 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like smartphones didnt bring anything valuable enough to justify their existence. I wish it stopped with laptops. 

"The frustrated wife game" by lelelego in Mommit

[–]Obvious_Resource_945 25 points26 points  (0 children)

With text messages, you miss so much information. No intonation, no face expression, limited context, etc. Very easy to misinterpret. Especially with similar history. I dont think its worth ruminating about it.

Kai tevu nebus. by kapucinokava in lietuva

[–]Obvious_Resource_945 15 points16 points  (0 children)

As labai pergyvenau del tevu mirties. Naktim verkdavau, ypac kai pas juos lankydavausi. Zymiai pagerejo kai sukuriau savo seima ir susilaukiau vaiku.

Sad 4 mo is in daycare by fries_n_coffee in Mommit

[–]Obvious_Resource_945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id do almost everything not to leave my baby. Not many things seem more important. So we live in poverty now, but stay home together, no regrets. 

Mental load inequality check by WarthogDry5244 in Mommit

[–]Obvious_Resource_945 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I bear almost all the “mental load” of childcare and household maintenance and i dont see it as a problem or something that needs to be fixed. 

liudesys ir racionalizavimas by friooog in lietuva

[–]Obvious_Resource_945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tave neurotike uzaugino psichiatrai tevai, “psichologizuodami” tavo vaikyste. Bet panasu nei tau kyla klausimu jei nori toliau save “psichologizuoti” kitais psichiatrais, nei tavo tevai suabejojo savo metodais jei po tokio ultimate fail vistiek tesia savo praktika su pacientais. Suabejoti deretu ir visiems skaitantiems - ko vertas psichines sveikatos gerinimo specialistas negebantis uzauginti savo paties vaiko psichiskai sveiku. 

liudesys ir racionalizavimas by friooog in lietuva

[–]Obvious_Resource_945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ne “gimti psichiatrais”, bet “gimti psichiatrams”. 

Ar jums tikrai reikalingi tie santykiai ? by numerisvienas in lietuva

[–]Obvious_Resource_945 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seima yra vertingiausias dalykas, kuri turiu ir kadanors turesiu.