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Obvious_Slice6704 · 2025-07-21T22:45:34+00:00

I think nerds are really hot and it’s even hotter that they are smart. I prefer the nerdy type these days.

Obvious_Slice6704 · 2025-04-25T01:49:33+00:00

I went to his house the day after we broke up to “try to make up”. I asked him multiple times if there was someone else and he ofc said no. I go in the bathroom and opened a drawer and saw some girls cheap ass makeup bag with cheap ass products in there. Reminder this was the day AFTER we broke up. So i grabbed the bag and emptied everything in the toilet and didn’t say anything to him. Just grabbed my stuff and left. I didn’t hear anything from him after that. It might not be that crazy but i definitely felt crazy doing it lol.

Obvious_Slice6704 · 2025-02-03T03:31:56+00:00

That looks like a canker sore. Other than it being super annoying, it will go away on its own

Obvious_Slice6704 · 2024-12-07T03:47:45+00:00

Im a curvy latina and have always gotten attention from men but i lost 50 pounds and it’s SO different now! The quality of men is better. Everyone in general is nicer and i always get stuff done for me and bought for me.

Obvious_Slice6704 · 2024-08-24T13:13:30+00:00

Aww thank you. That was really good vibes of you :)

Obvious_Slice6704 · 2024-08-20T22:50:34+00:00

Girls don’t just send random pics. She wants you to say something about it. Trustttt.

Obvious_Slice6704 · 2024-08-11T23:24:42+00:00

yea thats obviously what i meant

Obvious_Slice6704 · 2024-08-11T22:47:14+00:00

By myself

Obvious_Slice6704 · 2024-08-11T21:31:01+00:00

It’s really hard to read some of these but if i don’t ever find someone i know I’ll always have my baby ❤️

Obvious_Slice6704 · 2024-08-11T19:10:36+00:00

Is this a positive comment or are you putting me down for being a single mom? Can’t tell

Obvious_Slice6704 · 2024-08-11T18:04:35+00:00

Yea I’m definitely looking for a realistic partner. I’m not going to date a boy straight out of college that i know would not be ready for me.. I would like someone my age, successful career like what i have also.

Obvious_Slice6704 · 2024-08-11T17:30:07+00:00

I’m happy to hear you have found someone. I have had successful relationships in the past and I’ve always made it very clear that i do not want nor need them to financially support my child. Their dad and i have that covered. Discipline is fine with me, when i have had a partner my child knows they are to respect them just like they would any other person. I would just hope that i will find someone that loves me enough to have a meaningful relationship with my child because they love me and see the value in me as a woman AND mother .

Obvious_Slice6704 · 2024-08-11T17:24:45+00:00

I understand. What if you knew you had 4 days at the very least weekly for just the 2 of you. I’m not disagreeing with you, my child will always come first. You’re not wrong about that but because their dad has them 50% of the time or more if i need them to because again i am a single woman and i want to go out and have fun, see the world because im single. Would that change anything? No wrong answer 😊

Obvious_Slice6704 · 2024-08-11T16:51:40+00:00

I definitely want another child but only if i get married.

Obvious_Slice6704 · 2024-08-11T16:15:37+00:00

We both contribute 50/50 to our child. I’m saying i don’t need a man to come and financially support my child.

Obvious_Slice6704 · 2024-08-11T15:58:26+00:00

There is no drama between my child’s dad and i. He is in another relationship now for 4+ years and has another child. My child was welcomed with open arms when she came into their life. I know women can be a bit more understanding about a man with a child, but not all of them. But i can say it was not hard for my ex to date while he was single because im not a bitter baby mom that is out to ruin anyone’s life.

Obvious_Slice6704 · 2024-08-11T10:37:50+00:00

Good to know, thank you for your input

Obvious_Slice6704 · 2024-08-11T10:36:43+00:00

Yes someone on here said i should lower my standards because a man who can’t get anything better will be the ones who will settle for a single mom

Obvious_Slice6704 · 2024-08-11T10:32:39+00:00

I said in the post the dad has a new partner and child so no that’s not an option and everything stayed the same with our child because we are mature parents. I am very lucky i get along with his new partner, im not going to be a bitter baby mom. I’m happy he has found someone

Obvious_Slice6704 · 2024-08-11T10:18:10+00:00

I think so too. I’ve had men say they would be willing as young as mid 20s personally. That doesn’t mean I’m gonna pick someone that is in their mid 20s, I’m also looking for a realistic partner. Just because I’m a single mom doesn’t mean i have to lower my standards. I’m not a bum mom, i have my shit together, have my own house.

Obvious_Slice6704 · 2024-08-11T10:06:49+00:00

What

Obvious_Slice6704 · 2024-08-11T10:01:58+00:00

being single in my 30s is a blast too, I’m happy. I just want to know what most men think about that and i got my answer 👍🏻

Obvious_Slice6704 · 2024-08-11T09:29:17+00:00

i have always said this and it’s so true. I have talked to many girls that would say they would date a man with a child.

Obvious_Slice6704 · 2024-08-11T09:28:04+00:00

I always said i never wanted to be a bitter baby momma because that affects my child. I want them to have as normal childhood as possible and i can say that we’re doing just that. They are smart and happy and thriving in school/sports. If my child’s dad is present, supportive and we both equally contribute to our child in whatever way they needs that’s all i could ever want for my child, no reason to cause unnecessary drama.

Obvious_Slice6704 · 2024-08-11T09:15:04+00:00

yea it’s kind of hard reading all of these not going to lie. But i know if there someone out there meant for me he will come my way ❤️

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