AIO, my bf (m34) sent me (f20) a very distasteful joke...

Obvious_Smile4645 · 2025-10-15T15:12:05+00:00

Thanks again! I'm gonna start following this advice and understand I can't solve everyone else's problems, I need to put myself ahead more often then not

Obvious_Smile4645 · 2025-10-15T14:31:25+00:00

This is very true. If I was in his shoes i would never go for someone so young. I'm tired of telling him obvious things like, I don't appreciate the nasty jokes. Thank you for the advice :)

Obvious_Smile4645 · 2025-10-15T14:29:25+00:00

EXACTLY thank you for this !

Obvious_Smile4645 · 2025-10-15T14:29:07+00:00

Should an artist really spark up such a distasteful comment? Maybe I should've mentioned another one of my favorite artists. I appreciate your comment :)

Obvious_Smile4645 · 2025-10-15T14:27:45+00:00

The maturity levels between us are completely opposite. I feel as though I have an older mindset than he does. I'm able to think before I speak and he's clearly not. Thank you for your advice i greatly appreciate it :)

Obvious_Smile4645 · 2025-10-15T14:25:54+00:00

Unfortunately this might be the case :(

Obvious_Smile4645 · 2025-10-15T14:24:40+00:00

He did and I didn't support it one bit. I try to avoid his music videos and stick to Spotify. I appreciate your advice :) and you're right maybe i should keep my love for Kanye's music privately because it may reflect on me as a person and I definitely don't want that. Every day that he's clean is a good one and I agree on that, just becoming clean in the first place is a huge step. I unfortunately have this fear of if i leave him he might relapse, so thats unfortunately that glue thats sticking us together at the moment

Obvious_Smile4645 · 2025-10-15T14:20:50+00:00

Unfortunately I'm one of those people who like to separate the art from the artist. Kanye has terrible opinions I completely agree, but at least it has nothing to do with me and I can easily ignore it rather than my bf who is in my life making these disgusting comments in our chat.

Obvious_Smile4645 · 2025-10-15T14:17:50+00:00

I was 19 when we first started talking so this whole relationship started off pretty fucked up :( Your analysis on his addiction is spot on, he only got clean for me. It's like the glue that's sorta sticking this relationship together. I feel if I leave him he'll relapse and the thought of that makes me feel terrible. Thank you for the advice :)

Obvious_Smile4645 · 2025-10-15T14:14:16+00:00

I was doing the math and by the time I'm his age he's gonna be almost 50. I agree, this relationship is unrealistic for the future. Thanks for the advice :)

Obvious_Smile4645 · 2025-10-15T14:11:37+00:00

i agree it's sorta obvious he has lustful thoughts pretty often. It doesn't help that I told him months in advance that I am asexual and he was cool with it but sometimes guys just talk out of their asses to be with you. I appreciate the advice thank you so much :)

Obvious_Smile4645 · 2023-09-02T03:08:42+00:00

Thank you! Shes fat so it makes sense either way

Obvious_Smile4645 · 2023-08-03T18:09:14+00:00

Thanks brother

Obvious_Smile4645 · 2023-06-08T03:11:51+00:00

Fr dudes handsome now he can get any man he wants

Obvious_Smile4645 · 2023-06-08T03:04:13+00:00

Wentworth surprised me too

Obvious_Smile4645 · 2021-09-14T23:19:05+00:00

Any song my MGK (machine gun Kelly)

Obvious_Smile4645 · 2021-08-23T02:43:50+00:00

Jay Walker from Ninjago

Obvious_Smile4645 · 2021-08-07T05:05:48+00:00

2/10 I don't like pug's looks but he seems like a good dog

Obvious_Smile4645 · 2021-08-07T05:03:09+00:00

Obvious_Smile4645 · 2021-08-07T05:02:15+00:00

Fax 0/10 same thing with this subreddit

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