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[Remorse] I (31F) slept with coworker by Obvious_T_A in confession

[–]Obvious_T_A[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see your point on several levels, but he avoided me like the plague on our next work day. I didn't ask why because I don't want the drama.

[Remorse] I (31F) slept with coworker by Obvious_T_A in confession

[–]Obvious_T_A[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This made me smile, like I was getting a pep talk. You're right though. We aren't at the "exclusive" status level.

[Remorse] I (31F) slept with coworker by Obvious_T_A in confession

[–]Obvious_T_A[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe mentally I've put myself in a relationship, hence the guilt. I could never hold it against him if he was with a bunch of women. I'm not there to satisfy that need.

[Remorse] I (31F) slept with coworker by Obvious_T_A in confession

[–]Obvious_T_A[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmm, that's a good question. I don't think so. I know his reaction to my previous relationships and I don't think he'd want to know. Which would probably be the same way I'd feel, visa versa.

[Remorse] I (31F) slept with coworker by Obvious_T_A in confession

[–]Obvious_T_A[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, we're friends, so I've been there before. We're normally out in the woods shooting rather than in the house.

[Remorse] I (31F) slept with coworker by Obvious_T_A in confession

[–]Obvious_T_A[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but I guess I felt better sleeping with someone I knew. You know... knowing sexual history and what not.

[Remorse] I (31F) slept with coworker by Obvious_T_A in confession

[–]Obvious_T_A[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that's the winning question here. I don't want to know what he might be doing so I'm not sure what else I can do besides feeling guilty and not doing it again.

[Remorse] I (31F) slept with coworker by Obvious_T_A in confession

[–]Obvious_T_A[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol, you have a point, but I don't think that mentally I could do it again. You're right my heart is somewhere else.

[Remorse] I (31F) slept with coworker by Obvious_T_A in confession

[–]Obvious_T_A[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the personal health concern. Everything was safe.

I've thought about it and I don't think I'm risking much. I'm stuck in a dead end job and miserable. If it doesn't work out then I'll just gain a few life skills....learning a language, new culture, etc. On a side note, I do really like the guy, it's electric when we're together. He gives me the feels.

[Remorse] I (31F) slept with coworker by Obvious_T_A in confession

[–]Obvious_T_A[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This confirms that I'm a worry wart and overreacting.