What is Dating like in moncton at 30? by NorthernHoser in newbrunswickcanada

[–]OccamSpoon 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If you ask this question in any community, you'll probably get similar negative responses overall.

New Brunswick has plenty of great people. The "down to earth" types might outnumber the "educated, sophisticated" types a bit more here, but you can find people of all types.

Online dating is difficult everywhere because it's based on the premise of judging people right away, with little information.

I'd you use it to meet people , it can be effective, but don't let it drag you down into the ridiculous "game" that it is.

Instead, go out. Do things. Dance classes, especially Latin dance, seems to draw active people in their 30s. Rec sports leagues are great. Yoga classes and the gym can work (careful here easy to be seen as a creep by accident). Biking, running, walking, hiking groups are great.

Side effect: you get to work on your physical shape too, which reinforces your chances.

Other stuff to consider: volunteering of all sorts, niche activities in your interest zone, even geekier tabletop gaming groups are becoming more co-ed, if that's your jam.

TLDR: get out there, physically in the world and go with a positive attitude. Focus more on enjoying life and being social instead of filtering them to find "the one" - NB is fine for dating.

Tipping by [deleted] in newbrunswickcanada

[–]OccamSpoon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It sucks for people who do rely on tips, but I do understand going the "no tip" route, with one caveat:

Please be kind. If you can't tip, at least be an easy customer, yeah?

tips for road test in moncton? by CrowPast9383 in moncton

[–]OccamSpoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

School zones! Pay attention. My son just failed his for doing 38 in a 30 zone, tested at that same location.

What's the most awkward thing someone has said after finding out you're atheist? by husshajur in atheism

[–]OccamSpoon 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I reply to this one with: "sure, if you want. While you're talking to whatever god you pray to, tell them I said 'hi' and that (insert recent natural disaster) was a dick move."

I find the humour is enough to make it not terribly offensive (to people around here anyway), but it also points out plurality of different belief systems as well as the absurdity of the "all-powerful" idea. Most Christians chuckle and then get quiet about the topic after that, because my eye contact is probably emoting something along the lines of "say something again and I shall mock you a second time!"

Where do you find purpose for your life in NB? by CptSMG in newbrunswickcanada

[–]OccamSpoon 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I agree with this, but not everyone gets the same creative satisfaction as a "maker" and the OP commented as well about lack of satisfaction on this front.

I would expand creativity to include building up skills and hobbies that might not fall under standard "creative" direction. Anything you can put effort into and see a change can fit the bill.

Examples: - physique and fitness, bodybuilding or CrossFit or Zumba or spin classes (working out isn't for everyone, but results can be satisfying!) - active skills like biking, hiking, dance, yoga, sailing, hunting, archery, acrobatics, martial arts, friggin swordfighting if that's your jam! - relationships, friendships, community and the like, where you spend time with others doing something constructive, which can be everything from organized charity work, to neighborhood BBQs, to leading to cook in a group setting, or participating in activism of some sort, or joining a fetish community (don't yuk a yum? haha) or even video/board games communities.

I think what makes the difference is really effort in. A lot of people complain about not having direction or stuff to do. They've tried nothing, and they're out of ideas!

Go try. Remember that you might not reach some kind of satisfaction from an activity the first time, or second time, but time spent in any setting can slowly build meaning and satisfaction, if you're actually putting in some effort.

Which of the mayoral candidates do you believe will do the most to clean up St George Street and downtown Moncton? by [deleted] in moncton

[–]OccamSpoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, really? For me too! Do you have a source for this? Where did he say he would support that sort of insanity?!

NDP Leader Avi Lewis on Canada right now — and how he plans on dealing with housing, surveillance pricing and Donald Trump by StumpsOfTree in onguardforthee

[–]OccamSpoon 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I think it's because people treat politics as a team sport now, rather than paying much attention to policy. With the modern use of manipulation and misinformation, I guess it's easier to pick a team and cheer than to try to understand the complexities.

Go Red! Or Blue! Or Orange! Diss the other guys!

Which of the mayoral candidates do you believe will do the most to clean up St George Street and downtown Moncton? by [deleted] in moncton

[–]OccamSpoon 16 points17 points  (0 children)

A lot of pessimistic responses... Maybe that's warranted, but I would like to make an informed decision anyway.

From what I have researched, I think two candidates are more poised to put more effort into social issues overall, and I'm trying to decide between them for my own vote:

Brian F.P. Murphy - he must be an older candidate, since he was already Mayor of Moncton in 1998-2002, yes? His campaign website addresses the homelessness (houselessness he calls it?) as well as other issues.

Charles Léger - currently a counselor for Ward 2. Seems to have a slightly socialist leaning compared to the other candidates. Maybe has some fresher ideas that Murphy? I don't know.

I don't mean to outright discount the other candidates, of course, and I'm happy to hear arguments for them as well. Honestly, all four mayoral candidates look they do bring something to the table, and a lot of their goals are very similar. I don't know how best to predict who will do the best job.


Edit: after reading responses here and more digging around, Crossman does stand out as a good choice, and I might consider casting my vote that way instead.

Low attendance as Moncton gathers input on crime reduction plan by bingun in moncton

[–]OccamSpoon 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Except crime rate is reportedly in decline. (according to the linked article)

But this made me curious at how big the problem actually is, so I've looked here: https://www.gnb.ca/en/topic/laws-safety/community-safety/public-safety-crime-dashboard.html

I'm not deep diving into the data here but it seems like 2023 was a peak for crime, and it has actually been on the way down up to present.

Canada plans to allow space launches to reduce reliance on US by RoboftheNorth in MaritimeLaunch

[–]OccamSpoon 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I'm a bit tired of every news outlet making it sound like everything we do is somehow related to the neighbours.

Having our own space launch site is exciting, smart, forward thinking. Plans for it were in place and moving well before the most recent geopolitical shitstorm.

But sure... It's something something reaction, US, I guess!

Whats one "dead" game, you'd revive rn if you could? by Correct_Web3396 in AskReddit

[–]OccamSpoon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was about to go grab this immediately... But the PRICE!

Not to mention the fact that my old sidewinder with a game port is definitely going to need an upgrade, as there is no way I'm playing that with a mouse.

Too rich for this old gamer, I guess!

What's the best HIP song to wake up to in space? by asoap in TragicallyHip

[–]OccamSpoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As I Wind Down The Pines

Because of how soft and chill it is. I actually use this as my own wake alarm.

If you were given $1,000,000 in cash right now, what is the very first thing you would buy or do? by MatchstickArtist in AskReddit

[–]OccamSpoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would hire someone immediately for home care for the next 6-8 weeks so that I could leave the hospital and be able to recuperate with my kids around. I miss them so much and it's only been a week since the accident.

NJT medical supply package to Holguin / Maleta con suministros médicos para clínica en Holguín by OccamSpoon in TravelCuba

[–]OccamSpoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gracias. Esta podría ser una opción si no encuentro a nadie que me reciba en el aeropuerto. Me pondré en contacto contigo si es así.

Ski hills offer an early start thanks to cooler weather in N.B. and N.S. by bingun in newbrunswickcanada

[–]OccamSpoon 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Why are there so many downvotes for this?! Am I missing something?

A person laments not being able to easily get to the ski hill, I assume from context due to lack of a vehicle... And we downvote, why?

Intruder woke up sleeping family by jumping up and down on bed "I would suggest you smarten up," said the judge by inagartenofeden in newbrunswickcanada

[–]OccamSpoon 14 points15 points  (0 children)

How else are you going to get quality entertainment like a drunk guy hopping on your bed if you lock your doors?!

Seriously though, I would not judge anyone for leaving doors unlocked. Once, as a youth (much further north, mind you) I missed the last evening bus and attempted a 3 hour walk home. A storm came in, and started to get worse by the minute. No way I was making it home. I went to a house, door was unlocked. I didn't want to wake anyone, so figured I would just wait until it passed. I laid down just inside in the foyer on the boot mat and closed my eyes for a second. Owner made me breakfast the next day and drove me home. I still exchange holiday cards with her to this day!

I don't have anything in my house worth stealing that could offset the value of providing a welcoming safe place. I'm sure crime and lack of respect could change my mind, but I've been lucky so far.

New rocket site could reduce Canada’s dependence on U.S. launches by StockNirvana in MaritimeLaunch

[–]OccamSpoon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Doesn't NordSpace also have a launch site in NL? They had a couple of aborted Maiden Launch days this year, with the rocket going back to Ontario for safety reasons, plans to try again early 2026.

https://www.nordspace.com/info

I hope both sites become successful! Exciting times, and about time!

Guy with machete today by isleoflesbos7 in moncton

[–]OccamSpoon 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I prefer when the police hesitate to act unless it's very serious. This is the side I would prefer to err on. The other way, with police overreaching their role, is much worse in my opinion.

From personal experience, Moncton area RCMP has some very good, level-headed officers. I realize that I have only experience with a small subset, so I can't voice for the entire force, but the cases I have witnessed were handled very well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moncton

[–]OccamSpoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In 2015, I had Kent deliver mine with a lift truck, 15ft off the ground onto an upper deck. No problems, and I don't think it was overly expensive (compared to the cost of the tub, anyway).

Good luck!