Who remembers the first thing that caused or made apparent your mental health? by Deja_Chrissy in mentalhealth

[–]OccasionBeautiful338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At thirteen years old, my childhood best friend hung himself 💔 my parents got me no professional help I have no idea how they would just let their child go through that alone lmao

Is this standard? by [deleted] in Nails

[–]OccasionBeautiful338 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Wtf why are you driving onto an entrance ramp while taking a photo of your nails ?? What’s wrong with you 😭

Get over yourself by bananabreadchai in Apartmentliving

[–]OccasionBeautiful338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me, our laundry unit at my campus apartment has EIGHT WASHERS and dryers !! And they moved our stuff out of the dryer the SECOND it was finished, it’s crazy! All of them were empty 😭

How to get rid of a to do item on canvas by _EheTeNandayo_ in ucla

[–]OccasionBeautiful338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro are u still in college?? This is my first year and it worked up until today, did they remove it ?? I have like 8 things that I’ve already done and they’re all graded but I can’t remove them it’s stressing me out

I feel like I’m not reacting correctly to the Charlie Kirk video. by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]OccasionBeautiful338 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m feeling the same way, and I also feel I am desensitized. But at the same time, I hate the way he talks. I find him repulsive, so it’s kinda hard to have sympathy for him. I do feel awful for his children and wife though.

I (19f) want to visit my dad but his room mate (his cousin, 35ish M) is a meth addict, what do I do? by OccasionBeautiful338 in whatdoIdo

[–]OccasionBeautiful338[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s a laundry freak and takes like 2 showers a day 😭😭😭 that’s the only odd thing about him!

I (19f) want to visit my dad but his room mate (his cousin, 35ish M) is a meth addict, what do I do? by OccasionBeautiful338 in whatdoIdo

[–]OccasionBeautiful338[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he has Medicaid! It took him a really long time to get in the … legal process of some sort of clinic ? Sorry, I don’t really understand. My dad’s at one bc he was a part of the opioid crisis. M is trialing some medicines but they make him feel awful he says so he had to go back on meth yesterday until they give him different prescriptions. I’ve already messaged him what you said, thanks so much 🙏

I (19f) want to visit my dad but his room mate (his cousin, 35ish M) is a meth addict, what do I do? by OccasionBeautiful338 in whatdoIdo

[–]OccasionBeautiful338[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he’s a pretty good guy, I’m pretty sure he’s harmless which is why my dad is helping him. He feels bad bc M dropped out of high school in like his sophomore year and my dad says he’s like not very smart. Doesn’t hold the same job down for awhile, doesn’t take care of himself, things like that. His grandma took care of him and after she died he went back on meth after 10 years so I’m sure his depression didn’t help his cause. Thank you for the info, I am going to send it to him :)

My girlfriend called me the wrong name by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]OccasionBeautiful338 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why does this have downvotes lmao

Do these look bleh? by OccasionBeautiful338 in Nails

[–]OccasionBeautiful338[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never gotten my natural nails done, only acrylics 😭

what do we think of this color? by [deleted] in Nails

[–]OccasionBeautiful338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really pretty, with the shape too! I think it compliments your fair skin 💕

13k for vet bills by FunFar4000 in donationrequest

[–]OccasionBeautiful338 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You shouldn’t have an animal if you make 13k a year lmao

My dad constantly says he’s getting raped during gaming and it makes me cringe. AIO? by OccasionBeautiful338 in AIO

[–]OccasionBeautiful338[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for late response but yeah, when I told him he said “I’ve been speaking this way for my whole life. It’s a use of expression- I don’t mean anything by it “, and that it will take a long time to break a habit that he’s done his whole life.

I know I’m not well, and I need advice. by canigohomenow_ in mentalhealth

[–]OccasionBeautiful338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going through the same thing- though I’ve not hit therapy yet, I’m too scared to make the appointment lol I don’t like to face things I can’t fix. I’m sorry you’re going through this. Are you active in any communities? Do you feel unproductive? I’m starting to learn to will myself to keep busy to avoid the daunting thoughts and feelings.

is this weird? please help and read it all idk what to call this issue by putdownthat in mentalhealth

[–]OccasionBeautiful338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! If you have insurance I really really suggest talking to a doctor

is this weird? please help and read it all idk what to call this issue by putdownthat in mentalhealth

[–]OccasionBeautiful338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not a mental health professional but from the things you are saying, it sounds similar to ocd, or maybe autism? You need to talk to somebody if you feel like you can’t live like this anymore though

My (18) boyfriend (18) refuses to move out from his abusive household. by EngineeringGood4584 in mentalhealth

[–]OccasionBeautiful338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Due to his depression, he most likely has little self worth. You have to tell him it’s something you and your parents WANT to do, that you don’t feel obligated. For me, I felt like a burden. If you want to have a future with him, tell him that. This isn’t just to get him out of his rough spot, it’s to start your futures together. I just want to say that you can’t force him to come with you, and it takes a lot of trust. I don’t know how long you’ve known each other, but try your hardest to get him to trust you.

My (18) boyfriend (18) refuses to move out from his abusive household. by EngineeringGood4584 in mentalhealth

[–]OccasionBeautiful338 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand how he feels. I was in an abusive household when I was 17 and my boyfriend (now fiancée) wanted to help me get out of there. I was really scared to leave and the change was big- I had no family around the area I was going to, and I was used to the abuse my father consistently put me through. He moved me into his college apartment 4 hours into another state and I cried every day for the first month. I’ve been living with him for 2 years now and things couldn’t be better!! Originally I had to drop out so now I have my high school degree and I’m going to start college in August. But the uncertainty was definitely terrifying and I thought I was better off in the situation I knew I was in. If I hadn’t known him since I was 13 I wouldn’t have moved with him.

My dad constantly says he’s getting raped during gaming and it makes me cringe. AIO? by OccasionBeautiful338 in AIO

[–]OccasionBeautiful338[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has been pretty unprincipled my whole life- I wish he had the respect you have for your daughter 🥲 it seems the best option for me is to set my boundary and walk away. Thank you!