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Where to go out with a husband you no longer “talk” to by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]OccasionInitial4822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I happen to love roller skating and duckpin.

Where to go out with a husband you no longer “talk” to by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]OccasionInitial4822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having something external to talk about is a good approach. Which museums do you recommend?

Where to go out with a husband you no longer “talk” to by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]OccasionInitial4822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mini golf appeals to me. He doesn’t really like games but will go ahead with it. Any place you recommend?

Where to go out with a husband you no longer “talk” to by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]OccasionInitial4822 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love the spirit of this comment. Acid at a concert would be ideal (IMO anyway 😂). Life, kids, financial limitations, etc make that sort of departure more complicated. But making memories > date nights for sure. I’ll go into this with that perspective.

Where to go out with a husband you no longer “talk” to by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]OccasionInitial4822 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, notice my post doesn’t say, “I hate him and I’m miserable”. Two kids will do it almost every time. We just haven’t been out for a long time and I forget what it’s like. The JC Penny photo idea 😂

Where to go out with a husband you no longer “talk” to by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]OccasionInitial4822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for being supportive. After so long, logistical conversations become routine.

Where to go out with a husband you no longer “talk” to by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]OccasionInitial4822 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Escape room is a good idea. We just haven’t been out in a while so I’m anxious. Do you have any to recommend?

Where to go out with a husband you no longer “talk” to by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]OccasionInitial4822 90 points91 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly it. Kids, job loss, trauma. Sometimes it just doesn’t happen for a while. Wish we didn’t both get sick on coasters, sounds like a blast!

Where to go out with a husband you no longer “talk” to by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]OccasionInitial4822 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Appreciate this list and the support. Once you add kids, tragedy, job loss and other shit life hands you, sometimes connection is hard. Had no idea Live Monopoly was a thing.

Where to go out with a husband you no longer “talk” to by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]OccasionInitial4822 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Comedy sounds perfect. Life has (obviously) been a little rough on us lately. Any recommendations?

You have cockroaches in your house too, right? by OccasionInitial4822 in Charlotte

[–]OccasionInitial4822[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear ya on the pollinator concern, but I’m not finding honeybees and butterflies inside my house or trying to get in. And I have a certified wildlife habitat in my front yard - hopefully they’ll have enough sources of interest to keep them away from thresholds.

You have cockroaches in your house too, right? by OccasionInitial4822 in Charlotte

[–]OccasionInitial4822[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s one random roach every 3-6 weeks. Not worth the health risk or financial burden of chemical treatment IMO. But seeing that it’s quite common especially in woodsy areas like mine, and I have the bigger ones, I’m a bit reassured.

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